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Recent news story on several online sites in which a porn star has made accusations about Spikey: "Cliff Jensen “My test was positive for gonorrhea!!” (tip @ Bangle1)."
April 23, 2024
Cliff Jensen posted on X that he cancelled all his shoots for the month since he was having symptoms, and he blamed Spikey Dee for his STI test results, which weren’t current.
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I'm not sure how much credence to put into the accusation by Cliff Jensen. There appears to be conflicting evidence about the source of Cliff's STDs. And, at least one article says that SpikeyDee has denied the accusation BUT did pay for Cliff's medical expenses. 
I'm not trying to disparage Spikey's reputation but I do think an escort's health should be a consideration before hiring - though I suspect that Spikey's roommate brings up some counterpoints to Cliff's allegations.
I will probably STILL hire Spikey as I think Cliff's allegation seems to lack evidence.  If you haven't seen the porn scene with Cliff and Spikey  et al. - it's a good one!

I've used the "Burner" APP (I'm referring to the APP, not a Burner phone) for years with complete satisfaction. What I like best is that you can change your number every month - and can choose whatever area code you want - this is good if you're visiting somewhere and want to use the local area code (it probably doesn't matter but I'm thinking that local escorts might be more responsive to someone in their own area code?).
I pay per year which currently is $90. Yes, you must give them your current mobile phone number (they must have your phone number so that Burner can use your phone to complete calls) - but there's never been a privacy issue in the 5 or 6 years I've been using Burner.  And, obviously, you must give them your name and address to pay for their services.
When you use the Burner number to call someone you dial the number and then you receive a screen message that says "HEADS UP - We'll hide your number by calling your Burner first." Then, your Burner will call (the number you're calling)" -- you have to choose "OK" - and then Burner will call the number. The person you call ONLY sees your Burner number on his screen.
If you receive a call on your Burner number, your screen will tell you that someone is calling your Burner number - and then you have to press "OK" to receive the call. 
Hope this helps you decide. I like Burner and recommend it without reservations. 

I checked into a NYC hotel last week and at the same check-in  counter was a drop-dead-gorgeous man, tall, blond hair, great build. We got into the same elevator and discussed the rudeness of some New Yorkers. He said he was Swedish but now lives in Boston and that Bostoners can sometimes be rude, also. When I got to the room who is the first photo to come up on both Grindr AND Rentmen, our friend Mitch (I wonder if the "Den" means Denmark even though he said Sweden)? Yes, my friend from the elevator. I sent him several messages of a willingness to meet - but he never replied. He must be totally booked up or has enough demand to pick & choose whom he wishes to meet. Or, perhaps he didn't like doing business in the same hotel where he sleeps - who knows. Regardless, he seemed like a really nice guy, easy to talk to, and is absolutely beautiful. Luckily, I found several other super hot guys here in the Big Apple (with super fees, also, at least to someone from the boonies) so I'm not complaining. I admit that I had to stroll by some of the hallowed places in NYC of my younger years e.g. Stella's, Gaiety, etc. which brought back great memories but also a great sense of how quickly time flies.

I checked into a NYC hotel last week and at the same check-in  counter was a drop-dead-gorgeous man, tall, blond hair, great build. We got into the same elevator and discussed the rudeness of some New Yorkers. He said he was Swedish but now lives in Boston and that Bostoners can sometimes be rude, also. When I got to the room who is the first photo to come up on both Grindr AND Rentmen, our friend Mitch (I wonder if the "Den" means Denmark even though he said Sweden)? Yes, my friend from the elevator. I sent him several messages of a willingness to meet - but he never replied. He must be totally booked up or has enough demand to pick & choose whom he wishes to meet. Or, perhaps he didn't like doing business in the same hotel where he sleeps - who knows. Regardless, he seemed like a really nice guy, easy to talk to, and is absolutely beautiful. Luckily, I found several other super hot guys here in the Big Apple (with super fees, also, at least to someone from the boonies) so I'm not complaining. I admit that I had to stroll by some of the hallowed places in NYC of my younger years e.g. Stella's, Gaiety, etc. which brought back great memories but also a great sense of how quickly time flies.

I checked into a NYC hotel last week and at the same check-in  counter was a drop-dead-gorgeous man, tall, blond hair, great build. We got into the same elevator and discussed the rudeness of some New Yorkers. He said he was Swedish but now lives in Boston and that Bostoners can sometimes be rude, also. When I got to the room who is the first photo to come up on both Grindr AND Rentmen, our friend Mitch (I wonder if the "Den" means Denmark even though he said Sweden)? Yes, my friend from the elevator. I sent him several messages of a willingness to meet - but he never replied. He must be totally booked up or has enough demand to pick & choose whom he wishes to meet. Or, perhaps he didn't like doing business in the same hotel where he sleeps - who knows. Regardless, he seemed like a really nice guy, easy to talk to, and is absolutely beautiful. Luckily, I found several other super hot guys here in the Big Apple (with super fees, also, at least to someone from the boonies) so I'm not complaining. I admit that I had to stroll by some of the hallowed places in NYC of my younger years e.g. Stella's, Gaiety, etc. which brought back great memories but also a great sense of how quickly time flies.

I watched most of it though, I have to admit, I taped it and watched on a delayed basis in order to skip the cringiest parts which, turned out, included most of it.  As a previous member observed, the audience looked dead and, in my opinion, appeared as though many would bolt from the theater were the show not being broadcast Live. Timothée Chalamet in particular looked uncomfortable and dyspeptic - like he drew the short straw and had to sit in the front row where he was continuously berated by Conan's not-very-funny jabs. The worst part of the whole debacle were the tortuous conversations between Presenters whose mumbled dialogue seemed so stilted and silly that I'm sure a few of the Directors in the audience were tempted to shout "Cut - let's take it from the top, this time with a little more enthusiasm." Whoever wrote, directed, or choreographed this inane spectacle should have their membership cards from the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences revoked. 

I watched most of it though, I have to admit, I taped it and watched on a delayed basis in order to skip the cringiest parts which, turned out, included most of it.  As a previous member observed, the audience looked dead and, in my opinion, appeared as though many would bolt from the theater were the show not being broadcast Live. Timothée Chalamet in particular looked uncomfortable and dyspeptic - like he drew the short straw and had to sit in the front row where he was continuously berated by Conan's not-very-funny jabs. The worst part of the whole debacle were the tortuous conversations between Presenters whose mumbled dialogue seemed so stilted and silly that I'm sure a few of the Directors in the audience were tempted to shout "Cut - let's take it from the top, this time with a little more enthusiasm." Whoever wrote, directed, or choreographed this inane spectacle should have their membership cards from the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences revoked. 

I certainly don't condone drinking and driving but, having worked with folks with Bipolar Disorder for many years, Britney was likely drinking to elevate her mood (these folks can have extreme highs in their cycles, but many folks experience only ONE manic episode in their entire lifetimes and remain depressed the rest of their lives - the most common & problematic symptom of Bipolar is depression, not mania) - and this event was likely NOT about transportation or having the money to hire a chauffeur. As many in our own community know all too well, good sense & morality are soluble in alcohol.  It is a fact that folks with this Disorder are some of the most non-compliant people with their medication regimen because, although they don't like the "lows" of the disorder, they do miss the mania in which they experience an expansive mood, increased energy, and intense feelings of joy - and, unfortunately the current medications for Bipolar "flattens" their affect/mood so much that although they no longer feel manic - in fact, they don't feel ANYTHING - and then they engage in these high risk behaviors just to relive those moments of feeling alive again. I hope that the judicial system insists that her treatment be court monitored rather than just focus on the punitive.  There are now long-acting injectable medications for Bipolar Disorder that offer a sustained release over weeks and months - not a cure but an appropriate treatment for someone like Britney - she just needs to be monitored and be occasionally tested for compliance and therapeutic levels.  I'm not into pop music but the few times I've seen her on TV I've sensed that Britney is a good person and a good mother who unfortunately lives with a chronic, self-defeating mental illness - and the best thing that could happen to Britney at his point is that the community NOT "leave her alone."

I certainly don't condone drinking and driving but, having worked with folks with Bipolar Disorder for many years, Britney was likely drinking to elevate her mood (these folks can have extreme highs in their cycles, but many folks experience only ONE manic episode in their entire lifetimes and remain depressed the rest of their lives - the most common & problematic symptom of Bipolar is depression, not mania) - and this event was likely NOT about transportation or having the money to hire a chauffeur. As many in our own community know all too well, good sense & morality are soluble in alcohol.  It is a fact that folks with this Disorder are some of the most non-compliant people with their medication regimen because, although they don't like the "lows" of the disorder, they do miss the mania in which they experience an expansive mood, increased energy, and intense feelings of joy - and, unfortunately the current medications for Bipolar "flattens" their affect/mood so much that although they no longer feel manic - in fact, they don't feel ANYTHING - and then they engage in these high risk behaviors just to relive those moments of feeling alive again. I hope that the judicial system insists that her treatment be court monitored rather than just focus on the punitive.  There are now long-acting injectable medications for Bipolar Disorder that offer a sustained release over weeks and months - not a cure but an appropriate treatment for someone like Britney - she just needs to be monitored and be occasionally tested for compliance and therapeutic levels.  I'm not into pop music but the few times I've seen her on TV I've sensed that Britney is a good person and a good mother who unfortunately lives with a chronic, self-defeating mental illness - and the best thing that could happen to Britney at his point is that the community NOT "leave her alone."

I certainly don't condone drinking and driving but, having worked with folks with Bipolar Disorder for many years, Britney was likely drinking to elevate her mood (these folks can have extreme highs in their cycles, but many folks experience only ONE manic episode in their entire lifetimes and remain depressed the rest of their lives - the most common & problematic symptom of Bipolar is depression, not mania) - and this event was likely NOT about transportation or having the money to hire a chauffeur. As many in our own community know all too well, good sense & morality are soluble in alcohol.  It is a fact that folks with this Disorder are some of the most non-compliant people with their medication regimen because, although they don't like the "lows" of the disorder, they do miss the mania in which they experience an expansive mood, increased energy, and intense feelings of joy - and, unfortunately the current medications for Bipolar "flattens" their affect/mood so much that although they no longer feel manic - in fact, they don't feel ANYTHING - and then they engage in these high risk behaviors just to relive those moments of feeling alive again. I hope that the judicial system insists that her treatment be court monitored rather than just focus on the punitive.  There are now long-acting injectable medications for Bipolar Disorder that offer a sustained release over weeks and months - not a cure but an appropriate treatment for someone like Britney - she just needs to be monitored and be occasionally tested for compliance and therapeutic levels.  I'm not into pop music but the few times I've seen her on TV I've sensed that Britney is a good person and a good mother who unfortunately lives with a chronic, self-defeating mental illness - and the best thing that could happen to Britney at his point is that the community NOT "leave her alone."

When I contacted SirBlackRaven about a session today in ATL he said we had to meet before 2:00 pm b/c he was leaving town at that time (later, in our meeting he contradicted himself several times about this need). I agreed to meet at 1:00. When he got to my hotel room he said he needed to take a shower and closed the door to the bathroom but came back out to get his cell phone (this leads me to speculate about a call to him at almost exactly 30 minutes later). After about one minute he exited the bathroom not having taken a shower (yeah, hint #1). He seems like  a nice guy who looks like his photos but maybe a little thinner, shorter, and less muscular. However, my personal preference - I like when an escort does some landscaping downstairs (several  photos of him on RM show a very tidy pubic area) but his genital "garden" needs a lot of work. So we talked about 15 minutes and then we got down to business. Wouldn't you know it, after just a few minutes into our "business" he gets a phone call from his husband that required him to leave immediately - after only 30 minutes together  -no explanation, he just needed to go immediately. I really wanted to give this guy a good Review, but the emergency phone call seems very suspicious, esp given the need for his cell phone in the  bathroom. Also, during our conversation he said he actually lives in ATL so I'm not even sure about his need to meet before 2:00 so he could drive home. I wish him well, and don't like to spit in anybody's soup, and I hate to put a dent in someone's livelihood,  but I sadly would not recommend him. When you pay $300 you should expect more than 30 minutes of someone's time.  He says he is a NYC native and that he visits there frequently. Maybe others have had better luck with him.

When I contacted SirBlackRaven about a session today in ATL he said we had to meet before 2:00 pm b/c he was leaving town at that time (later, in our meeting he contradicted himself several times about this need). I agreed to meet at 1:00. When he got to my hotel room he said he needed to take a shower and closed the door to the bathroom but came back out to get his cell phone (this leads me to speculate about a call to him at almost exactly 30 minutes later). After about one minute he exited the bathroom not having taken a shower (yeah, hint #1). He seems like  a nice guy who looks like his photos but maybe a little thinner, shorter, and less muscular. However, my personal preference - I like when an escort does some landscaping downstairs (several  photos of him on RM show a very tidy pubic area) but his genital "garden" needs a lot of work. So we talked about 15 minutes and then we got down to business. Wouldn't you know it, after just a few minutes into our "business" he gets a phone call from his husband that required him to leave immediately - after only 30 minutes together  -no explanation, he just needed to go immediately. I really wanted to give this guy a good Review, but the emergency phone call seems very suspicious, esp given the need for his cell phone in the  bathroom. Also, during our conversation he said he actually lives in ATL so I'm not even sure about his need to meet before 2:00 so he could drive home. I wish him well, and don't like to spit in anybody's soup, and I hate to put a dent in someone's livelihood,  but I sadly would not recommend him. When you pay $300 you should expect more than 30 minutes of someone's time.  He says he is a NYC native and that he visits there frequently. Maybe others have had better luck with him.

Last October he quoted me a rate of $400 for "body worship and a massage."

https://rentmen.eu/VonC
If you want a muscular dom top who likes to play a bit rough (but is careful not to hurt you) Von is your man in Music City.  He's got a V-shape torso, impressive abs, and a huge dong.  In the past he always scheduled between 7:00 a.m. and around 2:00 p.m. making me wonder if he's a nightwatchman in real life -   but lately his hours include evenings also. I've hired him 3x and he's always been a good choice - but make sure you tell him exactly your preferences. He's gay and ALWAYS a top, and, in the past, advertised as a "Master" who likes to "train" his bottoms. If you like a little kink with your Country music, try Von. 

I've had several sessions with "Diego" going back several years when he was not as bulked up and was, in my opinion, even sexier as a slimmer, muscular competitor in the "Ballroom Throwback" events (he dominated the "BQ Body" battles) - YT has a bunch of vids of him dominating the competition.  In the past couple of years we've had several one-on-ones and a few group smorgasbords with other escorts and guys we invited off Grindr (totally hot and mutually satisfying for all, most lasting hours). I can assure you that Diego is a super nice guy, totally honest, and his photos are accurate - this is verifiable if you've ever drooled over his Instagram pics (and I'm pleased that he includes several of the photos I took before or after our gatherings). His rates are very reasonable and he doesn't try to upsell before or during your encounter. Bottom line: you can't go wrong when booking with this truly sexy, approachable, reasonable gentleman. BTW, I've only known Diego to top.

I texted this guy when I was in Miami a few weeks ago. We were going to have a 3some - he was Gung ho about the scenario. He said his fee was $250 and he would travel from Miami Beach to my hotel near the airport - a pretty good distance - he didn't ask for an Uber or transportation money, which I thought was almost too good to be true, given his super hot body. We had some back-and-forth texting about the time but he finally agreed to meet at 8:30 p.m. He was extremely friendly and cordial in all his texts, though he didn't always reply quickly. Shortly before 8:30 he texted and asked if we could reschedule for 10 p.m. - I agreed as I had two other escorts who had showed up, were in bed, & had already begun the evening's festivities  (one drove in from FLL and one was a hot Cuban I found in Grindr). Well, 10 p.m. came and went and "xclusiveboy" never showed up. The next day he texted "Hi" - that was it, no apology, no explanation, just "Hi." I texted him back that I was on the airplane headed home. 

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. 
I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

I texted this guy when I was in Miami a few weeks ago. We were going to have a 3some - he was Gung ho about the scenario. He said his fee was $250 and he would travel from Miami Beach to my hotel near the airport - a pretty good distance - he didn't ask for an Uber or transportation money, which I thought was almost too good to be true, given his super hot body. We had some back-and-forth texting about the time but he finally agreed to meet at 8:30 p.m. He was extremely friendly and cordial in all his texts, though he didn't always reply quickly. Shortly before 8:30 he texted and asked if we could reschedule for 10 p.m. - I agreed as I had two other escorts who had showed up, were in bed, & had already begun the evening's festivities  (one drove in from FLL and one was a hot Cuban I found in Grindr). Well, 10 p.m. came and went and "xclusiveboy" never showed up. The next day he texted "Hi" - that was it, no apology, no explanation, just "Hi." I texted him back that I was on the airplane headed home. 

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. 
I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. 
I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

I refuse to pay a deposit.  In fact, I'd even extend the time frame: I will not pay for services UNTIL they have been rendered - I learned that lesson in ATL last year when I foolishly paid as soon as the  escort arrived - he demanded the fee upfront and, as soon as he pocketed it, out the door he goes, uttering "F*g" as a parting gift and as a way to justify his thievery - i.e. f*gs deserve to be ripped off.  The first clue should have been him wearing a balaclava in his online face photo - AND when he arrived at my hotel room.

I refuse to pay a deposit.  In fact, I'd even extend the time frame: I will not pay for services UNTIL they have been rendered - I learned that lesson in ATL last year when I foolishly paid as soon as the  escort arrived - he demanded the fee upfront and, as soon as he pocketed it, out the door he goes, uttering "F*g" as a parting gift and as a way to justify his thievery - i.e. f*gs deserve to be ripped off.  The first clue should have been him wearing a balaclava in his online face photo - AND when he arrived at my hotel room.

How do you "move on" from an infatuation? Not easily. From my experience, unless you use STRONG and EMPHATIC self-talk that this is JUST an infatuation and that you are a A CLIENT (not a lover), you will be held hostage to your feelings, not your common sense.  But...reason and logic rarely win these internal dialogues. We've all been there - and only time and the thinning of our wallets convince us that maybe this "love connection" is not mutual. Enjoy your "butterfly-inducing" friend, but just realize that, in the end, it's a business transaction - and when the money ends, so will the return messages. 

How do you "move on" from an infatuation? Not easily. From my experience, unless you use STRONG and EMPHATIC self-talk that this is JUST an infatuation and that you are a A CLIENT (not a lover), you will be held hostage to your feelings, not your common sense.  But...reason and logic rarely win these internal dialogues. We've all been there - and only time and the thinning of our wallets convince us that maybe this "love connection" is not mutual. Enjoy your "butterfly-inducing" friend, but just realize that, in the end, it's a business transaction - and when the money ends, so will the return messages.