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Interesting article in The NY Times yesterday on how the pandemic might end based on previous outbreaks. "...the coronavirus pandemic could end socially before it ends medically. People may grow so tired of the restrictions that they declare the pandemic over, even as the virus continues to smolder in the population and before a vaccine or effective treatment is found." https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/10/health/coronavirus-plague-pandemic-history.html

Bringing back an old thread since there appears to be a possible resolution of this 1988 killing of a gay American man in Australia. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/11/world/australia/scott-johnson-gay-murder.html?action=click&module=Latest&pgtype=Homepage Kudos to the Aussies for not letting this man's death be forgotten.

When I signed up for OF about two weeks ago, I used a credit card to pay for it. This was a Sunday morning but within five minutes of completing the transaction my credit card company (Visa) CALLED and I had to speak directly with an account person who wanted to know if I had just made the purchase. They mentioned "OnlyFans" by name and was a little embarrassing - and led me to think that perhaps this company immediately raises a red flag with some credit card companies. They also stated that "two songs" were also charged to my account at the same time. I told them I had purchased the online site but not the two songs (someone told me that companies will charge for something minimal to make sure it's a valid credit card - that may be true in this case as the charge for the two songs were $.01 each). This was a very uncomfortable experience and, along with the reality that the provider I had chosen was almost devoid of any "useful" content, I doubt that I will ever use OF again.

You are correct - you can "Do Not Renew" at anytime but you can't cancel and get a refund after you find out you got a dud. I learned the hard way - I recently subscribed to a guy's OF site ($19.99/month) and found out that he had about 150 photos of his a-hole and only two or three actual videos - and they were poorly done and were about two minutes long. I suspect that guys like Rhyheim probably provide quality videos - and you sorta get previews of his OF site from his Twitter videos. Caveat emptor per always.

I know this is a huge digression from the OP, but did you know that the 10th President of the United States, John Tyler, who was born in 1790, has two grandchildren who are still alive? Lyon Gardiner Tyler Jr. was born in 1924 and Harrison Ruffin Tyler was born in 1928. They are the sons of Lyon Gardiner Tyler Sr., one of President Tyler's 15 children. President Tyler was 63 when Lyon Tyler was born and Lyon was 75 when Harrison was born. Sorry for the digression.

Strip clubs pay local taxes - hard to believe that a locality would suppress ANY income source esp after so many city budgets are now in crisis mode. The only thing that politicians enjoy more than hypocritically casting stones at the sex industry, is bragging about balanced budgets.

Let us know how it goes. Good luck.

Yes, I was referring to the Reviews at the bottom of Von's friendboy.pro page. If you send him an email regarding his travel plans, he just might circle by AZ. At 6'4" and a 9.5 dick washboard abs, and cute baby face, he's about as hot as they get. And yes, as his page indicates, he specializes in Oral Top.

The best Oral Top I've ever been with. Currently he is living in Nashville but he returns to Denver quite often. Incredible body and all-around nice guy - until it's time for you to worship his beautiful 9.5 inch tool. Read his reviews on his page - they're accurate. https://friendboy.pro/boys/Vaughon

I don't think he's a provider, but I personally find Ricky Vegas so freaking sexy, esp when he's beating up on a taller guy like Jaxton Wheeler:

5' 11" per his hungz profile.

Wanna bet that was NOT the first time that Sarge was on Grindr?

My nephew has been doing telemedicine (psychiatry) for four years in two different states and is fully reimbursed by insurance. I have two nieces who are dentists and one doesn't leave her home as she is pregnant and the other only sees patients on an emergency basis - so, obviously, their incomes have plummeted (luckily, one is married to a diagnostic radiologist and he is being kept very busy). I have a niece and nephew who are ER docs, and they are working extra hours - though they are having to perform extraordinary safety rituals before entering their homes at the end of their shifts.

I read online tonight that Walmart is going to make its aisles one-way (one-direction). They will also be adding plexiglass windows at the checkouts. Target is halting temporarily return of products and will have greeters at each checkout lane to make sure you are six feet apart. Checkout lanes at Target will be cleaned after each transaction. Kroger workers will now be wearing protective masks and gloves. Welcome to our new world.

Went to Costco this morn at 10 a.m. - had to wait ten minute outside b/c "we've reached the acceptable level of occupancy." Still no toilet paper - none at Wal-Mart either. I don't get the hoarding of TP - apparently clean asses are more important than eating. Our Governor ("Uncle Andy") has been great during this crisis. We now have a phone number to call to report people who are not "social distancing" - and people are using it (rightfully, IMHO) to report neighbors who are having parties, or playing basketball games on public courts. Kentucky is the place where some idiots had a "Coronavirus Party" a couple of weeks ago - and one partier has already tested positive. Darwin at work.

The First 48 (reruns).

Demand a Refund - this ain't going away soon. Invest money in 1) Kimberly-Clark (makers of personal care products like TP, wet wipes, etc. 2) Zoom Video Communications (provides remote-conferencing) 3) Clorox. Maybe wait for a really bad dip before buying.

I would add Vaughon to the list of Nashville recommendations: https://friendboy.pro/boys/Vaughon

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My Ancestry DNA results have been revised now, over the past 18 months, three different times. Ancestry says that they submit "your DNA to a reference panel made up of thousands of people. Because reference panels and the way we analyze your DNA both change as we get more data, your ethnicity results can change as we get more data, too." They originally stated that I was 65% Irish/Scottish, but that number was recently revised to only 50%. I still think that I'm half Scotch and half Bourbon.

It used to be banned but I have been seeing it lately on Grindr in some variation or another. I use "Jen" as part of a longer display name and have had no problems. Yesterday I did try to put a "rose" emoji in my profile and was automatically told that roses are no longer acceptable in a profile. Sometimes, in the "About Me" section I will state that "me and my friends, US Grant and Ben Franklin, are looking to meet hot guys" -- and, at least one younger guy stated that "sorry, he didn't do group sex" - not sure if he was serious. I just got back from Florida where I had really good luck on Grindr though one guy immediately asked (with no prior interaction) whether I had Cashapp? Discussing payment options right off the bat is a no-no for me. I was a little creeped out in Florida when I was sitting in my Airbnb apartment when a couple of times I saw a profile that stated the person was "1 foot away." I peeped out the window, just to make sure. I'm not sure how another Grindr person can be one foot away w/out being in the same room?

This is the only kind of butt I wanted to see on the field:

Just got back from Fort Lauderdale. Stayed in Wilton Manors. Not sure if you are looking for just a masseur or an escort - but i had great luck on Grindr - I had lots of offers. Be sure to ask for some type of verification even though several refused to do so. Had a great time. Life on "the Drive" is teeming with eye candy.

The following online resource may be a good first step in finding a competent therapist in NYC. What I like about the site is you can find a therapist who is gay*, one who takes your insurance, and one who specializes in the type of therapy you think would be helpful. Their little "About" section will give you a feel for them personally. I know many of the listed therapists in my own city, and I can assure you that, although the therapists pay for the listing on Psychology Today, the listings are a pretty good way to find a counselor/therapist you can trust. It's not an exhaustive list of counselors in your area, and friends' recommendations probably trump the list. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/ny/new-york It's also very helpful that most of the therapists on the site give you a good idea of cost-per-session, if you are paying out-of-pocket. Bonne chance, mon ami. *Note: not all therapists listed under "Gay" are gay themselves. Some identify as "gay friendly."

Next time, ask the person if he/she graduated from high school. When they ask why, just say (with a straight face) that you recently read an article that 95% of people who crack their gum, pop their knuckles, or fart out loud never graduated from high school.