Heart It Deep

Happy to be a test dummy for skills practice in nj or nyc!

You can join anywhere, although they are based in NYC.  I haven't met anyone for an exchange, but I have taken their "Massage essentials" classes, which was fun, and a good confidence builder for doing an exchange in the future.

You can join anywhere, although they are based in NYC.  I haven't met anyone for an exchange, but I have taken their "Massage essentials" classes, which was fun, and a good confidence builder for doing an exchange in the future.

Stupidly took the plunge.  English is very limited making communication challenging.  Was unable to perform appropriately.  Felt swindled. Will elaborate if asked. 

I'll join the chorus: Don't assume, ask.  One of my worst hires was a masseur who clearly used provocative text and racy photos to suggest a very erotic massage was on offer when the reality was quite different.

https://rentmasseur.com/yosoyleo
 
Newbie? In NYC?  
A cutie, but also packing a gianormous 3rd leg.  Curious if anyone has booked with him for a massage or even full service.

West Side Club got around the rule because they charge  "membership fee" before entry.  It's  reason I've never been.  Compared to Europe etc where entry is 20-30 Euros...  You end up spending closer to 100 dollars just to get in.  Unless you actually wanted to go all the time, it didn't seem worth the price to me. 

I was curious too and did try, but I only went as far as filling out their initial survey / personality questions.  According to some online reviewers/users, the answer to this question is most crucial and will largely determine who you are grouped with:

Also, the reviews state that once you answer this question, it will permanently stick with your profile and you can't edit it afterwards.  So be very careful how you proceed if you decide to try it out.
As for me, the fact that all dinners are held on Thursday nights makes it very challenging.  That's my primary hesitation.

Absolutely true! My first meet-up was a soiree at a funeral home to learn about casket options.

Do they even care?

I actually don't enjoy getting sucked, so I don't care.  I do loved being rimmed/eaten out.  But unfortunately it seems very few providers do that.  (Or rather, quite  few inquiries I've made, it's one of their few limitations.)

Good news is.  For this app.  You rate everyone after.  If they didn't show up, there is a "no show/this person wasn't present" option.  
I emailed tech support after the time only 1 person showed for the second dinner.  They said, they ban you temporarily or forever depending on your record.
So there are reprucussions for no shows.

It could be an age thing.  
My understanding is that they group you with people around your own age.  
At the dinner I was at last week, there were 3 groups seated at 1 spot.  Your email said which group you were in.  One of the three groups looks significantly older than me.  Perhaps depending on your age, you'll have better luck?

Good news is.  For this app.  You rate everyone after.  If they didn't show up, there is a "no show/this person wasn't present" option.  
I emailed tech support after the time only 1 person showed for the second dinner.  They said, they ban you temporarily or forever depending on your record.
So there are reprucussions for no shows.

Good news is.  For this app.  You rate everyone after.  If they didn't show up, there is a "no show/this person wasn't present" option.  
I emailed tech support after the time only 1 person showed for the second dinner.  They said, they ban you temporarily or forever depending on your record.
So there are reprucussions for no shows.

https://rent.men/HNDYMNHCKYHOTTIE
 
Looks sexy....

The problem with RM reviews is that if the provider is a no-show or ghosted you, RM will not accept a negative review since there was no actual contact. 

I do. Seen him twice and he’s amazing and has never failed me. He’s a bit pricey for me (I’m a student) but he makes my time and money worth it. 

Well.  It sounds like he was sincere    Does anyone have any actual massage experience with him  ?
Curious what his private pics look like 

Dinners are 6-8 people.   Issues with no shows.  
First Dinner:  2 No Shows.  
Second Dinners, 6 No Shows.  Was basically a blind date with one. 
Third Dinner:  I cancelled because location was remote staten Island.....
Third Real Dinner:  A couple of no shows.  
 
Other Issues:  People are still very fake:  
First Dinner:  Everyone was like "OMG, I had such a good time."  Then people didn't ask to connect after, or said they did and never answered follow up textss. 
Second Dinner:  success with the 1 person.  We bonded over the 6 no shows, and have some things in common.  We keep in touch a bit. 
Third Dinner:  Of the 3 other people who were there, I said I wanted to trade info with all of them.  Only 1 person responded as a match.  Everyone else was very friendly, and overly nice.  So being fake.  
That's it in a nutshell.  I have dietary restrictions, so what I can eat at these functions is limited.  They aren't considering that.  I also don't drink, so Mocktails for me. 

WhatsApp offers some encryption and some protection, like the others. 
But it also usually ensures that the provider has your number so they can look you up on Mr Number.  

Maybe for someone else, the vibe is enough that they are so turned on, it's worth it?  For me personally I would rather go with a full service provider, I know I'll get what I want. 

WhatsApp chats are still encrypted, and disappearing messages are useful.  Some providers use that feature.  
I'm also surprised that Telegram or Signal isn't more commonly used.... maybe it's just a popularity thing? 
 
 

$500 for therapeutic is highway robbery.

I think the best way to distinguish if a provider is right for me is if they actually read my initial request,  which states what I'm looking for, and asks relevant questions.
If all I get is an autoresponse, I given them time to read my message and fully respond. If they don't, I'll happily move on.
More than anything I want a relaxing experience,  and that starts me out with stress.
So remember to block those guys who have blocked you, so you don't waste time in the future.