Wings246

Oh, he certainly knew how to use his tongue. Talking was by far the least stimulating & least creative skill facilitated by his tongue action.

Good try. I don't live there, but I can probably retire early there comfortably tomorrow, considering my current income and the cost of living in ID. 😆

I figure this much is true for me: the less pretense the person puts up and the more authentic the person is to himself, the more turned on I become. Authenticity enhances my (probably delusional) imagination. So when he speaks in his native tongue, I'm one step closer to his true self. I guess that's partially where my arousal originates.

I live in the gayest city of the bluest state of the West Coast and my HMO devotes a ton of resources to preventive health so my access to sexual health care is not a problem. I get all my testing done once every 3 months during one 15-minute visit (Syphilis + creatinine + HIV via blood tests, Chlamydia + Gonorrhea throat swab, Chlamydia + Gonorrhea rectal swab, Chlamydia + Gonorrhea urine test). The results are available within 24 hours and they are all posted on my online medical record for me to see in about a day. Then, my PrEP & DoxyPEP prescriptions will be refilled the next day. Everything is pretty streamlined and “autopiloted.” I suppose that’s the “advantage” of living in a major metropolitan area.

I recently met with an irresistible Italian stud. I didn’t know he had an Italian accent beforehand, but as soon as he started talking, I could feel something stirring in my big head and little head. The Italian accent wasn’t too thick — something else down South TRULY was thick though. As the activities intensified and the dirty talks ramped up, I melt into him and lost all senses of time and space. The ultimate KO: he fully switched over to Italian when we approached the finishing line. I did NOT understand a single syllable he uttered and yet, somehow, that completely sent me to heaven. I never realized I would respond to an accent this way. I found it super sexy, arousing, mesmerizing, and hypnotizing. Anybody had similar experiences?

I share the same feelings. I bet some of us here do as well. That's probably why a few members here use the concept of "cheating" to describe seeing someone new. I know the analogy is a joke, but loyalty / faithfulness is a very strange factor that can somehow influence the decision making process. 😅

It largely depends on my mood and what kind of “flavors” (looks, skill sets, etc.) I desire at the moment. It’s very similar to deciding on what kind of restaurant to visit for dinner: do I want the comfort of a familiar taste from the restaurant that I know I love or do I feel adventurous for a new cuisine tonight? Since I’m still quite inexperienced in this, my safety net formula is: 80% regulars + 20% new guys. This has generated an acceptable risk-benefit ratio for me so far.

It wasn't until recently that I woke up to this realization -- I hope it's not too late. It's tough to change the world; it's tough to change the systems of the world; it's tough to change people around you; it's tough to change the people around you who manipulate the systems of the world to solely benefit themselves (possibly at your expenses). The easiest thing to change in this world: MYSELF. Therefore, I change myself.

Me three, and of course it's purely for the sake of psychology and sociology research. All jokes aside, I recall reading this heartfelt, amazing story:

Well, if you don't account for inflation, deflation of the cock will ensue.

But isn't it usually true that regulars will keep the same rate as the 1st visit?

Not necessarily pay more, but more likely to hire: just like @jackcali mentioned above, my local average rate is quite similar to that of NYC. So I stay within that reasonable, average market range. I won’t even bother with those who price themselves higher than the deities because they are marketed for the celebrities, filthy rich, and royalties — definitely NOT me. I’m neither a compulsive nor impulsive buyer. Whenever I see a tantalizing profile, I’ll add it to my buddy list. If I find myself revisiting the same profile again and again over a good/long period of time, it signals to me that there are certain qualities about this person that arouse me. That’s when I begin to make my move.

This part really irritates me. I'm still a very naive newbie in this activity. I'd have fallen exactly like the OP. And yes, the OP has my full sympathy. After all, I would tend to believe that since we have met a couple of times before, the trust level should have been somewhat established. I'd have been super pissed to have to pay that hefty price. Thanks for sharing your story. I'll remind myself to keep my guards up (even though I don't want to lose faith in mankind).

I can't agree more. Everybody (especially the young ones) is offended by just about everything every 15 minutes nowadays. And when you attempt to rationalize normal human behaviors, you become the toxic villain, then you get labeled & cancelled & sent to HR for interrogations. It is essentially psychological/social/cultural terrorism. At the end, everyone is forced to blend in and play the fake-ass, politically correct game together just so that the fragile egos of the younglings (snowflakes???) can be preserved.

Ironically and coincidentally, I met with one of my favorites recently and guess what? He showed up rocking a beard (new style) that I've never seen before (he has been clean shaven in all of our previous meetings). I was exceedingly and pleasantly surprised by the new look & style as if I was meeting with a different version of the same person. The kiss felt completely different (and stimulating) and I loved running my fingers over his bearded face, not to mention when other oral/facial/lips activities were involved. To me, it was a huge bonus. But I do understand if you hate a beard and that person shows up with a beard without prior notifications, it would be a serious turnoff.