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sam.fitzpatrick

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  1. Is anyone else finding they must have a beard to make their face less thin?

     

    While I have not been challenged with a thin face, a colleague of mine grew a goatee about 20 years ago, well before facial hair was common in mid- and upper-level management in corporate America. He always had a slight jaw line, and the goatee filled his look out. Just this year, he has allowed it to become a closely cropped, full beard; his wife tells me she think he looks better than ever in their 30-year marriage.

  2. Great post. I have to admit I have not previously thought about it. Reflecting on it, many times the pleasure has been emotional but little or no physical pleasure, but the couple of times there has been physical pleasure - WOW - nothing beats it.

     

    I have found that times of greatest pleasure are finding the right position which varies with each partner. And some times the physical pleasure is stronger when I am distracted kissing my partner and thus not thinking about what's going on down there.

     

    (Having a certain number of cocktails also distracts my mind.) ;)

  3. For several years, my gift wrapping had a theme. One year was brown paper packages tied up with strings, another year was red (either the paper, ribbon, or bow was red,) and another recycled wrapping from previous holidays. A couple of years ago I got lazy and didn't have a theme. It was the most fun listening to my sister trying to figure it out.

  4. If it's 2 or 3 nights, then I ensure the companion knows it's cool to take time to check his biz contacts, and on the middle day, that he's free to enjoy some down time in the gym if he would like. I always try to ask a companion if there is something he would like to do while we are together to give him an opportunity to guide our social intercourse. If the meeting is more than 3 days, I insist that he take 1-2 personal hours daily for himself, because I need it just as much if not more so.

     

    This is excellent advice. I have found many of my better multi-night vacations have followed this routine. And that applies whether traveling with friends or with an escort.

  5. Take a few days and then send him an email letting him know how much you enjoyed sessions in the past. Then tell him one or two major things (no need to cover the full list) where his level of service fell short in your recent time together and let him know that the time for your business relationship has come to end.

     

    Write the note and save it as a draft, then read it again several hours later to make sure it matches what you want said and send it.

     

    The purpose of sending the note won't change your decision, but it might highlight something he didn't realize he had done.

  6. I was not specific, and simply replied that I thought it had something to do with sex.

     

    As soon as I had my sister's ear without her 11-year-old nearby, I told her about the exchange with Mom. She nearly turned purple from laughing so hard.

  7. Yesterday I was driving to my sister's for Thanksgiving dinner and noticed a bumper sticker that made me chuckle. My 80-year-old mother, who was riding shot-gun, asked me what was so funny. Without thinking, I pointed out the rainbow striped sticker on the car ahead of us the read, "I'd rather be 69ing."

     

    It was only when she asked, "What does that mean?" did I realize I made a mistake of telling her about it.

  8. I received one as a Christmas gift. I agree that it takes a while to adjust to, but for the first time in years I am able to sleep on my back (rather than my side) when using it.

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