Matt,
I think guys that have never been on either side of the escorting equation don't get the dynamic of the escort and the client. I know that we all look for different things in the encounter, but almost without fail (except from some fetishes) other clients I have spoken to have said that they have had their favorite escort experiences when they knew the escort was having as much fun as they were. And without fail, those escorts who did not enjoy a session receive poor reviews, either in writing or by word of mouth. (I know - it is shocking that there might be a little gossip behind the scenes.)
And the good escorts listen to the clients' plans before agreeing to see them and refuse to accompany clients to the world contract bridge tournament when they would be more comfortable attending sporting events like the X Games.