sam.fitzpatrick

I went to a Chipotle in Columbus on Wednesday and each and every 'm' on the menu had a red x over it. As a fan of neither school, I have to say that the Ohio State fans do take things a little far the week of the game.

I've had massage a couple of massages from Dave. I will schedule with him again. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28695/ https://www.pleasemasseur.com/masseur/302-Massage-by-Dave

Calendar is marked!

For Thanksgiving, my pie of choice is my grandmother's Pumpkin Chiffon pie. For Christmas, Grasshopper Pie.

I find Thanksgiving a good day to catch a movie at the theater. My local theater's first showings are at 9:00 tomorrow and I'm still debating whether to see Ford vs. Ferrari or Knives Out. And in the years I'm doing a traditional Thanksgiving meal with family members I'm able to join them for the meal, but can arrive later and not feel I am in the way drinking a glass of wine while other adults prepare the meal. This year, we're not doing family gathering until Saturday, so I might visit the casino after the movie.

I agree, Mr. Nicholas is a classy guy. A few years ago I hired him on what was my birthday, but I hadn't mentioned that it would be then. He had remembered my birthday and had made special reservations for dinner for us that night (and as Epigonos mentioned he picked up the tab.) The cherry on the cake was when he had the waiter card me to prove I was in fact over 40.

My current will includes a gift to a memorial fund in my father's name to the 501©(3) where he was CEO and my nephews. My intent of leaving funds to my nephews is I wanted to provide some further enjoyment to individuals that provided some joy and happiness in my life. However, as my nephews have grown, they do not stay in touch, so I'm feeling less inclined to leave them money. As I reevaluate my options when I next update my will, I see no reason not to consider an escort as a potential beneficiary.

Yes, banks are required to remove counterfeit bills from circulation. A bank employee that allows a counterfeit to remain in circulation can face criminal charges.

My boy scout uniform included a sash which was used to display the merit badges.

While I love my meat, I don't need it with every meal. After all, a couple of buns sprinkled with cinnamon make a fine start to the day.

I am glad to see the dates on the menu again!

I'm only asked the number of partners. I've not been asked about paying for sex since I last donated blood over a decade ago.

I always enjoy live music over piped in music when I'm dining out, especially a piano. There are times when sitting too close to the piano makes conversation difficult, so I will ask when making the reservation to be seated away from the piano, but within earshot. (Of course that is all moot if the piano is amplified throughout the joint.)

For quite some time, I've need to be checked about two-thirds of the time on my right thigh. First thing I'm asked is if I have anything in my pocket, so I got to the point that after emptying my pockets before entering the scanner, I pull my pockets out of my slacks and let them hang there. It is usually just a five second pat on my right leg. That is until this year where I've twice had a more thorough pat down and been asked if I'd like a private area. I've declined both times. (I have decided that I won't be bothered if my pants drop to my ankles. But it is fun knowing that the agents are concerned about that perception.) I also think it is funny when they run the back of their hands across my groin to avoid being accused of groping. Maybe I'll wear a kilt for my next flight....

For quite some time, I've need to be checked about two-thirds of the time on my right thigh. First thing I'm asked is if I have anything in my pocket, so I got to the point that after emptying my pockets before entering the scanner, I pull my pockets out of my slacks and let them hang there. It is usually just a five second pat on my right leg. That is until this year where I've twice had a more thorough pat down and been asked if I'd like a private area. I've declined both times. (I have decided that I won't be bothered if my pants drop to my ankles. But it is fun knowing that the agents are concerned about that perception.) I also think it is funny when they run the back of their hands across my groin to avoid being accused of groping. Maybe I'll wear a kilt for my next flight....

It's been several years since I stayed there (and under a prior name) but if I recall correctly the Waldorf Astoria Chicago has separate facilities for men and women. https://www.waldorfastoriachicagohotel.com/spa-and-fitness/

Yes, he's my go-to guy when I visit Ft. Lauderdale. His massage technique is excellent - strong hands! Clean space with his table set up in a separate room.

Jeremy is great. I see him every time I visit Ft. Lauderdale. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/34946/

Somehow I had no idea Daylight Saving Time ended while I was asleep last night. I thought we had another week....

No, it was one with individual stalls. On my campus, there was only one dorm that had what we referred to as gang bang showers. At the rec center on the other hand.....

I had three or four guys living on my dorm floor that were 8 - 10 years older than the rest of us after having opted to enlist right out of high school.

I would meet in the lobby. I usually tell co-workers before the evening that I have plans to meet a college friend (or former neighbor) for dinner, so they don't expect me to join them for the evening. If we bump into them in the lobby, I start to head out the door with the escort as if we're going to eat and then say, "oops, I don't have my wallet, it is up in the room. Can we run up there to get it?" I'm only had to use it once, and it worked well.

It will be good to have you back next year! (Thanks for the reminder - my flights are not yet booked.)

@Realalist, I think many of fear the rejection. In the ten years I've been pursuing this hobby, I've realized that I'm not going to have a mind-blowing experience if I don't go outside of my comfort zone and reach out to someone whose ad has me interested. When hiring someone for the first time, whether for an escort or massage experience, I include a brief bio about myself. I like to think it helps a provider understand my sincerity in the potential hire and also politely decline the opportunity if he's not comfortable with my stats. (It also helps for some masseurs planning our session if they have tables with weight limitations that might not support us both if that is part of the masseur's technique.) Last week while vacationing, the communication went like this: "Hi Bob, I'm Sam and I saw your ad on xxxxx. I'm looking for an erotic massage tonight in Ft. Lauderdale and was hoping you would have an open appointment. I'm looking for a 90 minute session at my hotel/your place. About me: I'm 55, 5'10", 330, DDF and on PrEP." I will get one of three responses and an occasional no reply. (1) Thanks Sam, I'm available at 9p tonight. (2) Thanks for the interest Sam. Sorry, I'm booked tonight. Would you be interested in tomorrow? (3) Thanks for the interest. I'm sorry, I'm not available. I would say 70% of the time, I receive either reply #1 or #2. So I find that by narrowing my selection to advertisers that list their age as over 30 (sometimes I drop it to 25) helps reduce the quantity of no responses. Last week, I contacted five first-time providers. The results of my five inquiries were: 3 - yes, let's book. (I actually scheduled time with two, the third could only meet while I had dinner plans with friends) 1 - sorry, I'm moving tomorrow and need to finishing packing. How about next week? 1 - no reply For the two appointments I actually had with first time providers for erotic massage, one was satisfactory and the second was unbelievably wonderful. I hope sharing how I approach it, will make things a little less anxious for you.

I have two sisters; both are straight. Between them I have three nephews. One of the three is gay.