sam.fitzpatrick

My current will includes a gift to a memorial fund in my father's name to the 501©(3) where he was CEO and my nephews. My intent of leaving funds to my nephews is I wanted to provide some further enjoyment to individuals that provided some joy and happiness in my life. However, as my nephews have grown, they do not stay in touch, so I'm feeling less inclined to leave them money. As I reevaluate my options when I next update my will, I see no reason not to consider an escort as a potential beneficiary.

Yes, banks are required to remove counterfeit bills from circulation. A bank employee that allows a counterfeit to remain in circulation can face criminal charges.

My boy scout uniform included a sash which was used to display the merit badges.

While I love my meat, I don't need it with every meal. After all, a couple of buns sprinkled with cinnamon make a fine start to the day.

I am glad to see the dates on the menu again!

I'm only asked the number of partners. I've not been asked about paying for sex since I last donated blood over a decade ago.

I always enjoy live music over piped in music when I'm dining out, especially a piano. There are times when sitting too close to the piano makes conversation difficult, so I will ask when making the reservation to be seated away from the piano, but within earshot. (Of course that is all moot if the piano is amplified throughout the joint.)

For quite some time, I've need to be checked about two-thirds of the time on my right thigh. First thing I'm asked is if I have anything in my pocket, so I got to the point that after emptying my pockets before entering the scanner, I pull my pockets out of my slacks and let them hang there. It is usually just a five second pat on my right leg. That is until this year where I've twice had a more thorough pat down and been asked if I'd like a private area. I've declined both times. (I have decided that I won't be bothered if my pants drop to my ankles. But it is fun knowing that the agents are concerned about that perception.) I also think it is funny when they run the back of their hands across my groin to avoid being accused of groping. Maybe I'll wear a kilt for my next flight....

For quite some time, I've need to be checked about two-thirds of the time on my right thigh. First thing I'm asked is if I have anything in my pocket, so I got to the point that after emptying my pockets before entering the scanner, I pull my pockets out of my slacks and let them hang there. It is usually just a five second pat on my right leg. That is until this year where I've twice had a more thorough pat down and been asked if I'd like a private area. I've declined both times. (I have decided that I won't be bothered if my pants drop to my ankles. But it is fun knowing that the agents are concerned about that perception.) I also think it is funny when they run the back of their hands across my groin to avoid being accused of groping. Maybe I'll wear a kilt for my next flight....

It's been several years since I stayed there (and under a prior name) but if I recall correctly the Waldorf Astoria Chicago has separate facilities for men and women. https://www.waldorfastoriachicagohotel.com/spa-and-fitness/

Yes, he's my go-to guy when I visit Ft. Lauderdale. His massage technique is excellent - strong hands! Clean space with his table set up in a separate room.

Jeremy is great. I see him every time I visit Ft. Lauderdale. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/34946/

Somehow I had no idea Daylight Saving Time ended while I was asleep last night. I thought we had another week....

No, it was one with individual stalls. On my campus, there was only one dorm that had what we referred to as gang bang showers. At the rec center on the other hand.....

I had three or four guys living on my dorm floor that were 8 - 10 years older than the rest of us after having opted to enlist right out of high school.

I would meet in the lobby. I usually tell co-workers before the evening that I have plans to meet a college friend (or former neighbor) for dinner, so they don't expect me to join them for the evening. If we bump into them in the lobby, I start to head out the door with the escort as if we're going to eat and then say, "oops, I don't have my wallet, it is up in the room. Can we run up there to get it?" I'm only had to use it once, and it worked well.

It will be good to have you back next year! (Thanks for the reminder - my flights are not yet booked.)

@Realalist, I think many of fear the rejection. In the ten years I've been pursuing this hobby, I've realized that I'm not going to have a mind-blowing experience if I don't go outside of my comfort zone and reach out to someone whose ad has me interested. When hiring someone for the first time, whether for an escort or massage experience, I include a brief bio about myself. I like to think it helps a provider understand my sincerity in the potential hire and also politely decline the opportunity if he's not comfortable with my stats. (It also helps for some masseurs planning our session if they have tables with weight limitations that might not support us both if that is part of the masseur's technique.) Last week while vacationing, the communication went like this: "Hi Bob, I'm Sam and I saw your ad on xxxxx. I'm looking for an erotic massage tonight in Ft. Lauderdale and was hoping you would have an open appointment. I'm looking for a 90 minute session at my hotel/your place. About me: I'm 55, 5'10", 330, DDF and on PrEP." I will get one of three responses and an occasional no reply. (1) Thanks Sam, I'm available at 9p tonight. (2) Thanks for the interest Sam. Sorry, I'm booked tonight. Would you be interested in tomorrow? (3) Thanks for the interest. I'm sorry, I'm not available. I would say 70% of the time, I receive either reply #1 or #2. So I find that by narrowing my selection to advertisers that list their age as over 30 (sometimes I drop it to 25) helps reduce the quantity of no responses. Last week, I contacted five first-time providers. The results of my five inquiries were: 3 - yes, let's book. (I actually scheduled time with two, the third could only meet while I had dinner plans with friends) 1 - sorry, I'm moving tomorrow and need to finishing packing. How about next week? 1 - no reply For the two appointments I actually had with first time providers for erotic massage, one was satisfactory and the second was unbelievably wonderful. I hope sharing how I approach it, will make things a little less anxious for you.

I have two sisters; both are straight. Between them I have three nephews. One of the three is gay.

Unfortunately, often times the abuser doesn’t know how to ask for forgiveness. Often it takes the victim opening the communication channel before the abuser can ask for forgiveness.

It's got to be him. I've never had a massage therapist (male or female) perform a massage and expect the client to remained clothed; draping might be required but under the sheet I'm fully naked.

Do people from out of state really enjoy an OSU football game? (For the benefit of other Forum members, Oliver knows I attended another Big Ten school.)

I did use the spa on one of my stays at Cabanas, maybe about three years ago. I had a hot stone massage in the morning, and after lunch I had a mani/pedi. I was pleased with the services. The space is set up well and a separate gentleman handles the front desk. Next time I'm staying more than 24 hours I will use the spa again.

I doubt you would be a nightmare client. I've hired several escorts that would be great in this situation. When I started hiring, my opening line would be, "Hi Joe, I am Sam. I saw your ad and would be interested in spending time together. About me: I'm 45, 5'10", overweight guy who has only started having M2M sex in the last year and would like to experience _________." Only one guy responded no and a couple that did not respond. I had several more that were open to seeing me and most were great experiences. Those that we're great we not bad, but I just had chosen some guys who were newer to being escorts and not really ready to give me what I needed then. You might also consider hiring a sex therapist. I believe a couple of members on the forum have received formal training in the area, such as @Lance_Navarro. I found another thread on the topic with this info to help find therapists in your area.

Here in the Midwest, most have cars and traveling to see me shouldn't require Uber - - thus I've always assumed that the outcall rate covered transportation. I would completely understand an increase in the outcall rate if traveling outside of the typical market.