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He's giving "Travis Kelce" vibes.

This should go in The Deli 

I have been.  Joey is definitely not the guy in the ad. (I think he is still attractive.) The extras were pretty standard, discussed upfront.  I found the experience on the pricey side.  It is great to have a place in Chicago again.  

Yes, and it can also get divorced from the audio in a phone call.
Nothing beats sitting across from, or even better next to someone when they explain what they want. Writing it down or speaking it over the phone can be too difficult. 
Sometimes I get clients like that. They really don’t want to put it in a text, and definitely not speak to me on the phone (no one under 65 makes phone calls any more!). They want an opportunity at the start of the session for a conversation and that’s where they ask. It can be quite difficult to work out how long someone wants for that chat. I remember one guy telling me on text that he wanted to talk to me before the session about what he’d like. I assumed it would be just something brief like ‘nothing on my feet, my foreskin is tight so be gentle and lots of body contact etc’ but it was much more profound. I sat next to him on the table, held his hand while he told me why he was here and how he felt. It was an unburdening; both mental through the chat and physical through the massage. There’s no way he could have conveyed what he needed in a text or phone call. An incredibly emotional experience. That can only be done in person. 
 

His number is still on the expired RMass ad. You could try texting him to see if he's still a provider.

His profile
BearlyCajun - Male Massage & Bodywork in New Orleans, LA | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur BearlyCajun in New Orleans, LA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in...  

This is VERY true, and in my mind, it’s one of the things you’re paying for when you opt to hire a provider rather than going the Grindr route.   The burden of EVALUATION is entirely taken on by your provider.   

You evaluate their profile and whether or not you want to reach out.  You evaluate their correspondence, whether they seem like a good fit.   You rate their performance after the fact with a number of stars.  You evaluate them publicly in The Deli for other potential clients.
The same imbalance goes for discretion!  Clients regularly post about who they hire and discuss all the private things about them here.  Meanwhile I’ll fully take my client list to the grave. 
If you can’t get onboard with - and even fully embrace - these imbalanced structural dynamics, you shouldn’t be a sex worker. 

 
 
Old age is the great universal!  We’ll all be there eventually if we’re lucky.  Empathy for that is empathy for your future self  
I see no better way to embrace that universal truth than to do it sexually.  Wrap your lips around it and get to work.  😏 

I've never been asked but I'm sure some providers do on occasion. I'm not sure I would send if I was asked. That said I generally do send a pic after an appointment has been made. My take on it is that I usually know plenty about them (based on the pictures in their profile) so I send a picture or two of me in kind. Many may say this is unnecessary, which is fine, but for me personally I feel better sending a pic prior. I see no need to be a surprise when they open the door.

Goes through all the rigamarole of saying he's strictly therapeutic then ends the message with a 😉.
 
I'm assuming he really is primarily therapeutic, and the wink is just to keep people's hopes up lol.

Honey I was just getting ready to tell you yes you can but it looks like I just responded to your pm. LOL if you write me again send a check. LOL I'm kidding.

He's giving "Travis Kelce" vibes.

If the “hand” card comes up during your reading you’re in luck.

I dunno. There are worse things in life than a pay-as-you-wish Tarot-card reading and HJ.

That’s his last name e.g. Santiago. But that’s his first name he used to be on a reality show long time ago on LogoTV called the A-list (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_A-List:_New_York). Just surprised that he is doing massage therapy as of now and at a high hourly rate.

For me I think the under the radar is the best kind. There is something about someone finding you attractive and wanting to make a move on you. For me my love language is touch and during a massage I’m already relaxed but when someone makes that subtle move, just adds to the moment. 

🙈
 If you can tell a group of strangers you're wanting to hire a man, but you can't tell your partner, then that's an entirely different can of worms besides affordability.

Midwest is kinda a generous term when all of the upcoming stops are Texas and Louisiana lol.

As a client, I find myself assuming the masseurs on Rentmasseur will automatically provide "extras" and the guys on Masseurfinder are more likely to actually give a legit massage. I know that sounds ridiculous, but if I see someone just on Masseurfinder I do assume he does not give out Happy Endings, but on Rentmasseur I assume that they do. 

Profile message: 
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Plus no rates listed? 

I appreciate all the genuine support from this community for the past few years. I have to wear many types of hats in this industry. My only request is a just a little communication about what it is your looking for in an appointment. When you book an appointment, my scheduler asks you a few questions. Most of the time people answer "found you on google" "seeking Swedish massage" and they come in and I ask again and they say nothing about finding me on MF or RM. The last thing I want to do is something inappropriate to someone that is not comfortable. You just have remember I serve a lot of communities at one time.

Here are just 2 of several other threads on the same topic. 

The one and only photo looks AI to me.

He owns three Izod shirts.
Not perjorative.... just saying...

Dm me for details 

Agree with @Chads - interesting technique.  Hot and cold stones. Eye covering. Sensual / hi-touch experience throughout more than a typical therapeutic massage. MT/HE ✅. Recommend and will return. 
 
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