Luv2play

Yes I once wrote an ad in a printed city wide newspaper in the 1980's under the personal columns section. I gave details of the kind of guy I was looking for, after I had broken up with a boyfriend. I was pretty specific about what I was looking for. And I also said what I was like. I got letters from about 20 or so men. I sorted through them and responded to the one I thought fit the bill. We arranged to meet at the b&b he was staying at as he was from out of town. I don"t know what I was thinking because I was looking for a boyfriend and someone from a city 2 hours away wasn't ideal. Nevertheless I waited breathlessly as this man descended the stairway and came into view. I knew instantly it was a terrible mistake. I went through going out and having dinner with him but somewhere between the first and main course I told him he wasn't the guy I was looking for. What disappointed me was that he didn't even remotely resemble the sporty type I was looking for, like myself. He was too heavy and sedentary looking to be able to handle the kind of sports I was into at the time. I was so dejected that I gave up on that approach to meet someone. I think the ad had cost at least $50 or even more. Also I felt he had misled me although maybe he just couldn't see himself objectively. Lesson learned.

Actually that's the vibe I got when I came across him on the street in Montreal a couple of decades ago. He was just starting to come on the scene and I had emailed him just before he came to Montreal. When I saw him outside a stripper bar in the Village I thought "nah".

I have basically given up on the Village and that is saying something since I bought a condo there in 1998 and kept living there part time for the next thirteen years. It was a great time but unfortunately all good things come to an end. Now when I visit I stay downtown and hire escorts. Sometimez go to the Village in the daytime but never at night. And I am finding more escorts now live outside the Village if I go to their places. And these neighbourhoods are becoming more nice as the Village declines. Verdun is a case in point as is Hochelage Maisoneuve. Of course Le Plateau started getting nicer even when I lived in Montreal. I do attribute the prevalence of drugs being behind the Village's problems.

If that is the case it doesn't appear to be working. On RM the number of ads in Dallas and Houston has increased over the past years. Moreover many travelling escorts make a point to visit there frequently. I have taken it to be because there is so much wealth in these cities that the attraction to make easy money is just too tempting for escorts. I wpuld think if the authorities are cracking down with the new laws we would have heard about it and particularly the escorts who work there.

I don't consider that insensitive as it is a thought that has crossed my mind from time to time. Except in thinking it I put myself in the position of the one dying unexpectedly since I am at that age where statistically anything is more likely to happen. Since I do many overnights maybe I should put a note in the room in plain sight that if God forbid, I pass away in his arms, just give me a kiss and quietly slip out of the room. The thing is I wouldn't want him to see it in advance since I wouldn't want him to treat me like delicate china. I like my sex robust! I want to end this by saying how sorry I am to see where Bryan has passes away at such a young age. I often thought if we were ever in the same neck of the woods I would give him a call. What a tragedy for his husband.

Yeah, but you also used “they” twice as well in reference to a single person. Sloppy writing IMO. Could confuse many and language should be used as precisely as possible. Just call me an old fart! 😆

I couldn't watch the whole clip. The guy was just so full of himself. "I'm not a size queen..." Yada yada.

I seem to remember Alex the blond guy. Is it possible he also danced in Montreal at one of the stripper bars. I only went to Gaiety twice in those years but may have seen him there. But more likely in Montreal.

Why the "them"? Do you get two guys or is it one of those pronoun situations?

His two videos are of him fucking girls. Maybe I need a sex change operation to get a date with him. 😆

Also I don't think he ever advertised in Montreal on RM. I would have noticed (ahem).

He apparently can't live without hot girls. Lol

I'm just the opposite. Most 21 yo don't have a clue about what makes for good sex. Wam bang is their style. With age and experience one can become a maestro. Or not. But the good 30 something year olds can't be beat, imo But each to his own. Thank God.

I am not surprised at this turn in the story. Although I have yet to meet these guys, I have been in communication with them several times and always found them to be very respectful and considerate in their interactions. Hope to see them soon.

Toronto has a storied past to its bathhouse scene. In the early 80's the Toronto vice squad raided a popular mens gay bathhouse on a Saturday night and arrested I think over 80 so called found-ins. There was a provision in the criminal code then for being found in a common bawdy house. Well their names were published and there was an incredible fallout. One man jumped off his high rise balcony when his name came out in the newspapers. Another was a friend of mine and he worked for a high ranking Canadian politician. On Monday he walked into his boss's office and told him about his arrest. The man just looked at him and said "Thanks for telling me. Get back to work." Later that politician's party legalized same sex marriage in Canada. 12 years earlier they had decriminalized same sex relations. The road to equality was a long and hard fought one. And continues today.

Both you and Caramelsub talk about providers who hire clients. What universe are you operating in? I've yet to meet a provider, and I have met hundreds, who hired me, a client. It would save me a lot of money.

This is the sort of comment that is contrary to the spirit and intention of this forum, which is to celebrate and yes, when necessary, offer critiques of providers who cater to our interests. You have no basis to besmirsch these guys that for whatever reason turned down an opportunity to meet with one of our forum members. It is their choice alone whether to meet or not when they are contacted via RM.

I wpuld be surprised if they are talking about destroying quality vintage wines. France, like all wine producing countries in the EU, produces tons of plonk. Their Common Agricultural policy encourages this over production. We used to call it the lakes of wine stored just because they had no market but the producers needed to be paid. They used to talk of mountains of butter too. Don't know if they still exist. However I will not be losing any sleep about this news as I think all our favorite brands of good French wines will still be on the shelves when we go to look for them.

I think it is up to the client to find an escort that aligns with his preferences, not the other way around. I always have a discussion before hand to clarify the "intos" before proceeding to make an appointment.

Principal is misspelled. I wouldn't trust any chart that has such sloppy editing

Recently I've seen two escorts, separately, and one could only cum after pissing and the other could only piss after cumming. Luckily I'm versatile.

The secret is what the donor eats or drinks beforehand. Strawberries or pineapple sweeten the drink and beer dilutes the taste. Enuff beer and it tastes almost like water.

I have never cone across watercress except in Victorian novels where watercress sandwiches were de riguer in the upper classes.

Where did that statistic come fron about detectable viral load? Does it include newly discovered infections prior to treatment? It seems very high and what one might expect in the third world.

I always consider the source before consuming anything. That applies to piss too. Oh, and I have been doing it for over 30 years and am 76 and healthy.