Luv2play

I am swooning at the possibilities in a four handed massage with you and another masseur.

If that’s the case, I’m sure all my family shown in that picture are reading it.?

In that case, I’m smitten.?

I have a great photo of my grandmother and three of her grown children, including my father (my mother was also included in the shot) standing outside the Royal York Hotel in Toronto in 1938, dressed in all their finery, about to head off to the church for my uncle’s wedding. Standing beside them looking up at them was this young newspaper lad with a baseball cap on and holding newspapers in his arms. You don’t see that anymore outside hotel entrances.

Does he kiss?

I've had the same experiences. Lots of communication beforehand to discuss likes/dislikes and get a feel for each other's reactions to things, and then the time flying by because so much is already anticipated and works out beautifully, and then the follow-up messages from time to time.

Yeah, my guy said it was pretty painful. But worth the pain.

Whenever I see one of those "fainting couches", I always think of Empress Josephine, for some reason.

I would have turned the lights down low and had a feast on the cock and body. I understand paper bags are no longer de riguer. LOL

I was with an escort this past summer and he said he had broken his dick. There was another escort present so I didn't pursue the subject too much. He said he had had an operation to fix it about two months before our meeting. His erection was about three quarters to seven eighths and he has a ten inch dick, very thick, so I didn't notice much difference when it slid in me. He and I had been together several times before and he always had a raging erection for up to two hours. He did bottom for the other escort though so he wouldn't have to maintain the erection too long. He said the doctor told him he should regain full erections over time. I haven't seen him since because of Covid restrictions. But I will see him in the next year as we keep in touch.

You're welcome. The per diem idea works well because it removes the dependency factor in a subtle way and the whole experience becomes more boy friend rather than transactional in tone. Of course I'm a great one at self delusion. LOL

One other thing I did do was to give him some "walking around" money. I didn't ask him whether he had credit cards he could use but since he was in a different country, having some cash in the local currency meant he could buy himself treats without asking me each time we were out in public. Also, I'm not the type to take escorts shopping. First I hate shopping myself, except for groceries, since I like to cook. Every other type of shopping I find a chore.

I can see why you are engaging an escort for 4 days since he is coming from afar. I've done a few times and it worked out fine but I did do my homework diligently before hiring. With an American escort, I helped by paying for his airfare as he was not in the habit of going outside the US. He was with me for two nights and three days. Lovely guy.

Another great line I once heard from someone who was underendowed in that department but smart in every other way: "It doesn't bother me if my penis doesn't please you. It sure gives me pleasure".

It used to be a destination. ?

Part of the concern we have about Daddy’s condition is also related in addition to his health the steps that can be taken to try to avoid falling into his situation when one lives alone and has a health crisis. There have been several suggestions that have been very useful in knowing how to prepare oneself. All of life is a learning experience if we are open to discussing things openly and with good intentions. Of course we are deeply concerned about Daddy but there is precious little we can do about it in the current circumstances.

I think in my dad’s case the coroner was called because they might have suspected foul play, because of his wife’s sudden death with no apparent trauma but a pillow would have sufficed. I was surprised to see him there actually, but as a lawyer, I could see what they were trying to establish. Was I in on a plan with my father? He had already given his version of events before I arrived and when they questioned me, my version coincided with his.

I understand POLST orders are relatively new but in any case they did not exist in Canada 20 years ago. The DNR order as I said was done by my stepmother's daughter, who was a physician. Since my step mother was in cardiac arrest and not breathing, once they read the order, they stopped from applying an electric charge to try to start the heart. They had only got to the stage of putting on the electrodes to her upper chest. I arrived at their home 20 minutes after this happened and the coroner and police were already there. I had pre-arranged with my father to pick him up to take him on a one week trip. If we had decided to leave one hour earlier, she would have died alone. My dad called 911 which was the right thing to do. As it was, I had to answer a few questions as to why I was there. A few minutes later the coroner signed the death certificate stating she had died of natural causes.

You're right. My mistake.

Being a bottom myself, I totally understand.

I don't see it that way. I would think the DNR relieves the EMRs from having to make the decision since the decision is made before hand by the person who wrote it. I also think that if a DNR is not followed, then if the person is brought back to life but suffers irreparable brain injury, the medics could be held accountable.

A little more background. My stepmother had three children who were doctors but hated going to doctors herself. She was the fatalistic type. She was 80 when she died and it was her first major event, health wise. My father was more the optimistic type but when he wrote his DNR, he had had two major heart attacks in the previous 5 years which left his heart quite damaged. He didn't want to survive a third heart attack and be incapacitated in a long term care home.

I thought the Pope was Argentinian. And Argentina is full of Italians, who went there after WWII. Even Adolph Eichman.

Good question.

My sister, who is younger than me and was a professor of nursing at a large university for 32 years, has my power of attorney and Living Will, as we call them here in Canada. The latter contains instructions as to what to do in the event I am incapacitated. I also have her contact info in my wallet, which I either carry with me when outside or have in the kitchen in plain sight. I live alone. My late father had an experience 20 years ago when his wife, my step-mother, went into cardiac arrest at their condo. Both she and my father had DNR's in an envelope, taped to their fridge door in the kitchen. When the medics came within 5 minutes to their apartment, they started immediately to try to resuscitate her. My father sent one of them into the kitchen to retrieve the envelope. He came back and told his team members to stop what they were doing and they let her die. The only reason they had done the DNR on the fridge was on account of her daughter, who was a physician and had advised them 6 months earlier. As a result, my step-mother's wishes were carried out.