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You'll have a good time with Ben I think. I did and hope to see him again.

I've been to bed with two classically trained male ballet dancers and can attest to their firm muscular butts. Even as a bottom, I luv such butts.

How many people can say they danced with Nureyev? What were his moves like on the dance floor as opposed to the stage?

I thought your report was very funny.

I think you just got snowed. Lol

I can recommend TrueMagicBen who is currently listed on RM in PV. He's from Toronto where I met him. A real sweatheart.

I take it from your comment that the wind will kick up sand and create a dust storm, not unlike a snow blizzard. The last time I was in PS many moons ago, upon leaving a restaurant one evening and bidding goodbyes to our dinner companions who drove off in the wind, I remember their car disappearing into the gloom where their taillights were swallowed up by the dust. An eerie sight. Reminded me of Marlene Dietrich walking off into the sand dunes.

Sounds limited from his ad. Nice for muscle worship, if that's your thing.

I think you missed my point. I was just saying he is towing a different line than some of the clients who have met him. Chaq’un a son gout.

I think it’s just a question of which line he is towing. Lol.

Well, some of us commented back in December. I think living in a pandemic where people are dying every day of COVID has overshadowed AIDS which is mostly seen as yesterday’s issue. I said back in December most people don’t die of AIDS any longer in North America where treatments are available that also help prevent acquiring HIV. In fact the treatments are more effective than the vaccines for COVID. I don’t think it is helpful to rehash how people who acquired AIDS 40 years ago behaved at the time. Those of us who had friends who died then know that each one of them dealt with it differently and who were we to judge since we weren’t facing a death sentence. We were just scared sh**less.

I would cut the guy some slack. It’s not you particularly but your city that is not so appealing to him under the current circumstances. If you were having a great time at a party, would you want to leave early?

I agree in that I much prefer the light set low when in bed with a provider. Sex in broad daylight I find distracting. OK but not my favourite scene. But I don’t like absolute darkness either. I want to enjoy the visuals along with the sense of touch and smell etc. That is all the senses engaged.

Interesting you mentioned the Philippines. I was listening to a program on CBC radio about an immigrant to Canada from the Philippines and he related how much sugar features in their diet, even in spaghetti sauce. Amazing.

I remember that time vividly since I was starting to encounter friends and acquaintances coming down with AIDS. I also remember the Reagan Administration was very reluctant to come to terms with the problem or even acknowledge it existed. That little clip above represents pretty well the failure of US policy in the early days caused by what I believe was a general homophobia, as shown by the press gallery at the White House and the president’s spokesman, Larry Speakes.

I think we’re talking about liver here, and not from the grocery store.

I think lifestyles have changed markedly during my longish lifetime. More people are sedentary today than they were in the 1950’s when I was growing up. Cars are used much more even to get to the corner store. Television and other electronic devices are much more pervasive today and indeed intrusive in people’s lives. Also eating habits have changed a lot. Much more junk and processed food makes up a greater proportion of people’s diets. More dining out where food is served in larger portions and highly salted and more fat content. Most people don’t exercise enough and think watching sports on TV makes them a sport. All of this is leading to greater rates of obesity in most western cultures, especially the US and even here in Canada. Not sure what is going to turn this around. On the current trajectory, average life expectancy will probably decline.

Yeah absolutely. The only time a flight was cancelled on me was 35 years ago when I was at a Club Med in the Caribbean. I had to stay another day at the resort. No extra charge. Boo hoo.

I just watched several of his vids on Twitter, each over 8 minutes. One as top two as bottom (one with Max Konner) The guy is equally skilled as top and bottom. He's nice looking and has the kind of body I like. Definitely in the price range for his talent. Reminds me of Cade Maddox but he is not versatile. But he charges the same type of rates now too.

One other problem is with cancelled flights. Two friends of mine were coming back from PV to Montreal three weeks ago and when they got to Mexico City found their flight to Montreal cancelled. Only option that day was to fly to Toronto. But all their digital paperwork had been for Montreal so had to be resubmitted. Then they had to get from Toronto to Montreal. Then lineups at both arrivals. Big hassle.

If you suffer from low self esteem, try to address why that is. If it is your body image, then try taking steps to improve it. I did in my late 20s when I came out gay but in my case it just meant joining a gym and dropping 10 pounds or so and firming up my abs ( my butt was already nice and firm) lol. But small steps are important and don't try to bite off too much at once. Achieve a certain small goal and then move on to the next. At your age you have lots of time to turn things around. If you do, you probably can dispense with providers for at least another 20 or 30 years if you stay single. Lot's of time to repair your finances.😃

I disagree with conflating human drives such as eating with sexual drives. Both are core drives in the human species, indeed all species of life. But the behaviour associated with each as you point out can lead to unhealthy outcomes. With eating too much the outcome is obvious. Obesity. With having too much sex, well, what is the outcome. Not so simple. Some say an active sex life is healthy and you can't really get too much of it. Some choose to suppress their sex drive and that can be very unhealthy. The only unhealthy part of sexual activity is transmitted diseases. These need to be avoided as much as possible but there is always going to be some risk if one wants to satisfy their sexual urges. It is best to recognize this and act accordingly.

I don't think you can generalize the situation. Aging is a gradual process and while mid thirties is perhaps the peak of male powers in many ways, the descent into the 40's for many is a great time given the added experiences and skills one acquires. I have hired providers up to around 50 or so and enjoyed the experience. At that age they still seem young to me.

You see that in gay porn all the time. But it is an expensive option

It's interesting that his tastes ran to late 19th century renditions of the male nude as opposed to classical Greek or Roman art. Like his taste in furniture was of a similar or a bit later period. I remember Architectural Digest did a piece on his home on the Greek isles. Similar eccentric tastes there except I recall lots of dark tiles.