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Like you I don't spend huge amounts on individual items of clothing. Once I bought a leather and fur reversible winter jacket for $200 dollars at an estate sale that was in like new condition. The leather was supple and top grade but it was the fur that turned out to be Russian blue point sable. $25 to 35 Thousand brand new. I still wear it and it has held up beautifully.

The same sort of appropriation of native culture went on here in Canada since the 19th century (we no longer refer to the term Indian in Canada without causing a brou haha). We are still in the process of excising names on sport teams and other cultural institutions that depict images or names of natives or Indigenous people as they are now called or First Nations. We are also extirpating the names of colonizers( usually British but some French as well) who exploited the natives in some horrible way such as sending them to residential schools or allegedly giving them blankets contaminated with smallpox. Our first prime minister, Sir John. A Macdonald, who was once revered, is now widely reviled and he didn't even own slaves. The woke wave is in full tide in Canada.

I've been with some guys who are north of 8" and most were pretty good at keeping it up and hard. But then again I am an alluring bottom, especially if I keep the lights low. Lol.

Fifteen years earlier LB had the same vibe described in the mid 90s. Two summers I made an extended stay in August in the town lasting from 2 to 3 weeks. They had a lovely old yellow painted stucco hotel I think just north of the Little Shrimp which backed on the water. Nothing really fancy but comfortable. And in the centre of all the action. You could hear the ocean surf at night when you opened your window. I met some incredible guys and visited their homes like in San Juan Capistrano.

Oh yes, I have fond memories of Laguna Beach in the early 1980's. The Boom Boom Room and the Little Shrimp. And the great cruising on the beach after dark.

Places have their time in the gay sunshine and then fade. Look at Key West. SF has changed a lot since I used to go there 40 years ago for some gay fun. South Beach the same story from 30 years ago.

I've only started using Uber in the last 6 months and only sent one to pick up an escort a couple of weeks ago. There was a mix-up on his end as he had another client also trying to book him at the same time who also sent him a Uber. He got on that one so I cancelled and only had to pay $6 plus tax. I could see on my phone that the driver was approaching his hotel when I made the cancellation. I'm not sure that the passenger can change the destination when someone else has paid for the ride. The ride is already on your credit card when the itinerary is set by you. A different destination would involve a different charge which you hadn't authorized. In my case it all ended happily for me as when the escort realized he was at the wrong destination he came to my hotel on his own and was just a little late. He was great fun so glad he showed up.

You refer to him as they but the ad doesn't indicate a couple.

I'm assuming he sent you pics showing both soft and hard status. If they were all erection pics maybe he was telling the truth.

The fresh cod is all I have ever eaten but I have seen programs on how the Spanish (and Portugese) dried and salted their catch of cod before the days of refrigeration. This was done on the banks of Newfoundland during the fishing season and they returned to home with the preserved fish in the holds of the ships. Their cooks then reconstituted the fish by hydrating it and then cooking it. I understand it didn't have much of a salty taste as other sauces were used to cook it.

Did you eat any salted cod? The Spanish have been fishing cod off the coast of Newfoundland since before Columbus. The cod moratorium has severely restricted that activity in recent decades though as the cod disappeared.

You hit "gold" at the Mint 😀

You see that in a lot of films.

I had sex with him once when I was living in Miami. He also did live sex shows in Coconut Grove.

When I was with Trev a couple of times very early in his career, I found him to be 110 percent engaged with me ( and another escort who was part of the action part of the time). Also when we went out to dine he dressed up suitable to the luxury restaurant we ate at in Montreal. In the bedroom he was an uninhibited sexual partner sharing his manly attributes with me and the other provider. We had a blast and each of us was left fully satiated. I can't imagine he has changed. We stay in touch the odd time.

Is that restaurent where you ate in the old Chinatown portrayed in the film of the same name, directed by Roman Polanski? Or does that Chinatown still exist? The film was set in the 1930's.

On Sleepy Boy they often have very specific intos checked off. Wrt cum things like cum on you, cum on me, cum in mouth, you, me etc. I only look at the site the odd time so forget the exact terminology. I'm surprised a porn actor would object to cum on his chest. What a wet blanket!

I noticed he didn't list cum as one of his intos. Not that that means he's into snowballing but it opens the possibity. Contrary to Ben's opinion, I take an abbreviated list of into's as an indication those are activities the escort would enjoy or at least do. It's when they list the whole gamut that is cause for suspician. And if they list some activities and then renege, I would say the escort should not get "a free pass". That's misrepresentation.

Not knowing the guy you are going to see makes it hard to answer. But from his ad (assuming thats how you came across him) do you get the feeling he is into raunchy activity? Things like rimming, watersports, anything goes are indications he is open to a lot. Some guys state in their ads they are very open minded. Use your intuition. Also only ask in advance if its a deal breaker for you. Otherwise go with the flow.

Well timed enquiry as just last week I was in a situation with an escort I know quite well and after he came in my mouth I asked him if he wanted to share his cum. The answer was no. He is mostly a top and certainly with me but lists vers with top on his RM ad. So I would advise ask. All he can say is no. Btw it helps if he kisses. Mine does so even that didn't change things.

It's a pity there are so many scammers in NYC. Gives the place a bad name when there are many great escorts working there either tempoarily or permanently.

Obviously authentic. They have the man who pisses right there on the storefront.

Effective this Tuesday in British Columbia, Canada's third largest province, mere possession of hard drugs will no longer be subject to criminal sanction. Since an earlier thread focussed only on the city of Vancouver, and its headline incorrectly stated that drugs were being legalized, I thought we should focus the discussion on the actual state of affairs. I admit I am no expert on drug policy and have no dog in the fight since I don't use illicit drugs or even marijuana which is legal in Canada. But what I read in today's news in the Globe and Mail this morning indicates there are caveats or limits to what is being decriminalized. For instance possession in certain areas like schools or in certain other public places will still be a violation or in cars driven by minors. And municipalities can pass bylaws further restricting places where drugs can be carried around, although these restrictions can't effectively ban possession in all places. Police have received training on how to identify the amounts of drugs that are now permitted to be carried on a person's body. And they can no longer confiscate the drugs within the quantity limits specified. Of course there's more to the program than this simple change in the law, with multiple support measures and new resources being directed to the problem of drug use but I won't get into them here. You'll have to read about it if you are interested.

As relations between the "colonialists" and Indigenous peoples have become more fraught, it is perhaps fortuitous that Canada Day is not tied to when the white man stepped ashore in the new world. Canada Day, which was previously called Dominion Day, is not directly linked to the "invasion", which used to be called the "discovery", admittedly a Euro-centric concept.

Yeah, I wasn't thinking clearly. Our constitution in 1867 was passed by the British parliament in London and took effect on July 1st in Canada. Our patriated constitution of 1982 contained an amending formula so that future amendments can be carried out in Canada's parliament