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Recently had a great session with Hanky. Was unusually but in good ways. Would definitely recommend. Happy to share more in dm

Please send me a DM -- I asked delcodude here and in a direct DM but never heard back.

I recently had a session with him and it was great. Definitely followed "the rules" (thank you mystery_man!) setting things up. He got a little testy about something small in the lead up texts but he realized his misunderstanding and was fine after that. Massage was great, his body is stunning (especially his legs and ass, god!) and I really enjoyed myself. Definitely friendly and chatted pleasantly (and briefly!) about some things during the massage. Very professional. Would recommend.  

Met up with Pony earlier today and I am still floating on air and I don't use that term loosely. I've met with a few men around here and I've had mostly very good experiences but this was just - wow. I highly recommend him. DM if you would like more details. 

Met up with Pony earlier today and I am still floating on air and I don't use that term loosely. I've met with a few men around here and I've had mostly very good experiences but this was just - wow. I highly recommend him. DM if you would like more details. 

Met up with Pony earlier today and I am still floating on air and I don't use that term loosely. I've met with a few men around here and I've had mostly very good experiences but this was just - wow. I highly recommend him. DM if you would like more details. 

After reading the variety of comments about Pony, I decided to spend some time with him, and get an in person experience.   Communication with him was open and honest, and my time with him proved to be beyond expectations.  He is kind and friendly, intelligent, very handsome, and incredibly tactile.  The massage was quite appropriate, and segued nicely into extras.   His touch is magic.  I will definitely see this gorgeous man again.

Thanks, Manhattan. Part of the sanity check is because I don’t think I’m attractive enough to have any guys fall for me - much less providers. I don’t have posts because (as you correctly sussed) I don’t post. I def am not a looker and checking what people thought was my way of asking if this was indeed a delusional fantasy or if this was any way real. Everyone wants to feel wanted. He made me feel wanted, which I guess is the point of a provider. But most (all?) have left me feeling empty and transactional, which tracks for a transactional equation. This didn’t. The cuddling and talking after (which he asked if we could do unless I was busy) didn’t. Being called sexy and being asked if I’m taken didn’t. Being told no one else made him cum like I did didn’t. I don’t get told that EVER, including from non providers lol. Also I’m 35 and he’s 32 so it’s not even an age power dynamic. Anyway, I hope you have a good night and are less quick to dismiss anyone’s experience that doesn’t align with yours.

Do not dismiss an opening for a new opportunity.  These comments provided a clearer picture of the dynamics.  Something you started out saying at the beginning gave me the impression that you may have been looked at as a Sugar Daddy but not now seeing that you are as close in age.  If nothing else, he made your birthday a memorable experience.  Allow some time for him to reach out to you.  That will be an indication of his intentions.  Let us know how it goes.  Good luck!  

It's interesting that people with so few posts always have providers falling for them. Maybe they are legitimate concerns or maybe just a form of fan fiction.
Either way, it's fun to weigh in.
You are in control of this situation. Pay him and enjoy the noncommittal attention or take a risk and ask him if he would be open to exploring a relationship. Masseurs know the risks and rewards of making clients feel special - you won't offend him either way. 
Since none of us know you or the provider, you'll have to figure out how to read the signals and communicate just like you would with any other human being.

Hahaha I meant Gabrielle! You guys are too much. I couldn’t stop laughing 😂😂😂

Indeed not! The only reasonable conclusion is that Danielle is Gabriele's drag name. Girrrllll! 
 

I think it’s time to drop the talk about posting pictures. I say get over it. 

I remember his porn career fondly and he is SOOO up my alley. So to speak. 😆🥰

I’ve seen him for…a personal meetup. It was fun. Hot muscle bottom for sure and he took to my rimming like a duck to water. He charges 400/hr now. More power to him. He’s worth it. Just not sure my clients will spring for 400 a pop on multiple providers when I’m organizing groups. He has a long and illustrious porn career, which for some commands a premium. I like him personally. Maybe if we can negotiate a rate for group play I will see him again soon.

I'm not a runway model by any means, but I have come to realize that the idiom "beauty is in the eye of the bolder" is very true. You never know who might think the social norm of a "perfect 10" is unattractive but they think a balding, overweight guy in his 50's is hot. Let them compliment you and enjoy it. Whether you feel it's true or not, you are hiring them for companionship. Part of that arrangement can easily include these compliments. One guy I've been hiring for about a year now makes me feel very desirable. It's not even what he says, but how he treats me.  I have plenty of self-doubt but he makes me feel comfortable and wanted. It's an amazing skill to have.
Unfortunately, it's far too easy to be critical of ourselves and it's difficult to accept compliments from others. Try to let go and enjoy the moment.

That's a real concern but I think in his case he's old enough and done this enough that it's more feeling comfortable then catching any feelings.  He actually fell asleep like that once! 

If anything I’m probably more critical of my appearance than is realistic. And both me and my husband get complimented frequently by providers. We also don’t hire ripped guys in their 20s, so I tend to think the compliments are genuine. 
But I also think we (as men and then as gay men) put entirely too much emphasis on appearance- even when hiring. I’ve lived long enough to know that anyone can get laid. But not everyone can get laid by “a 10.” But in my experience - across hiring; hooking up, and dating - many people who are conventionally extremely hot are not particularly good lovers. 
Attraction is unpredictable. It’s not just what you can see with your eyes. There’s pheromones. Depth and timbre of someone’s voice. And then there’s charm and charisma; neither of which are captured in a photo. 
One of our consistent regulars is younger than I’m generally attracted to - in his 20s - and he’s thin and somewhat athletic but he has a little tummy. I suspect he may have been overweight in his teens. But he is absolutely incredible in bed. He’s both intense and easy going. We enjoy talking to him before and after. 
So take the compliments; perhaps you’re being graded on a sliding scale. Or perhaps you’re just this guy’s type. And don’t overthink it. 

I firmly believe every complement I get even the ones which are factually false.    Why not? It is either true or I would like it to be true and if I believe it, it is true for me at that time.  No use feeling bad about yourself or denying what other people say in a complementary way.  

I like this line. I should have learned this sooner. 

Agree with others that you shouldn't over think this. I think I'm fairly realistic about where I am on the attractiveness scale. Sometimes I get compliments, sometimes I don't. But, for me, I think I want to think they are enjoying themselves with me. As Manhattan correctly says, good providers will seem to enjoy themselves whether they do or don't.  But one of my regular provides, now that we're 5-6 times in, has first started climbing on the table at the end to cuddle with me, usually going over our time, and has recently kissed me, which he hadn't done before.  This makes me feel like he really does enjoy being with me, which is the most I could hope for.
 
*edited to add the point I forgot to make: actions speak louder than words. I think you can tell if a provider enjoys being with you. 

Well I clicked on his ad earlier today and got 9 pics so I guess I win the grand prize! 😆

Agree with others that you shouldn't over think this. I think I'm fairly realistic about where I am on the attractiveness scale. Sometimes I get compliments, sometimes I don't. But, for me, I think I want to think they are enjoying themselves with me. As Manhattan correctly says, good providers will seem to enjoy themselves whether they do or don't.  But one of my regular provides, now that we're 5-6 times in, has first started climbing on the table at the end to cuddle with me, usually going over our time, and has recently kissed me, which he hadn't done before.  This makes me feel like he really does enjoy being with me, which is the most I could hope for.
 
*edited to add the point I forgot to make: actions speak louder than words. I think you can tell if a provider enjoys being with you. 

Agree with others that you shouldn't over think this. I think I'm fairly realistic about where I am on the attractiveness scale. Sometimes I get compliments, sometimes I don't. But, for me, I think I want to think they are enjoying themselves with me. As Manhattan correctly says, good providers will seem to enjoy themselves whether they do or don't.  But one of my regular provides, now that we're 5-6 times in, has first started climbing on the table at the end to cuddle with me, usually going over our time, and has recently kissed me, which he hadn't done before.  This makes me feel like he really does enjoy being with me, which is the most I could hope for.
 
*edited to add the point I forgot to make: actions speak louder than words. I think you can tell if a provider enjoys being with you.