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I think he was telling you that he disagreed with your statement that the pleasure was all yours because he loved it at least as much as you did. It was a compliment not a dis. 

☝️ This should be incorporated into the standard wedding vows ceremony  💕 😍

I’m seeing him Monday. I’LL try and remember to come back to let you guys know 😊

This has happened to me. I just contacted the partner and proceeded. No apologies. You're the paying customer. This isn't a prom. 

If you need people to watch your moment of triumph, LMK. 😉

Soooooo many providers don’t accurately post their real interests in their RM ads.

that is why I also don't read the interview portion!......silly questions little better than the interview portion of a beauty pageant....
however, many here will remember Russ from Brooklyn's cynical replies to these tired questions....his witty and savvy answers turned that questionnaire upside-down! 
https://rentmen.eu/Russ_NYC/interview/
 

How more quickly time both seems to pass, and does actually pass, the older one gets....
52 here.  And I swear I was just squinting in the early morning sun after leaving a night at The Limelight a handful of years ago. 
OK at the most, 10 years ago.
(In reality, 30+.)

How more quickly time both seems to pass, and does actually pass, the older one gets....
52 here.  And I swear I was just squinting in the early morning sun after leaving a night at The Limelight a handful of years ago. 
OK at the most, 10 years ago.
(In reality, 30+.)

For my own personal growth, learning/understanding/internalizing that....."No."....is a complete sentence.

I'm back in Los Angeles in a couple of weeks.  Looks like I'mma have to take one for the team.....   😉

heyyy!........I'm not grumpy.......

Providers who ask for payment upfront are usually the ones who deliver a subpar experience and/or cut the session short.

The jolt I felt looking at his profile did WAY more than my morning coffee.....DAMN!!!  😈
("Message me" was available on my end of the RM site for him.....)

For this Philadelphia boy, that could be a deal-breaker.....  🤣

For this Philadelphia boy, that could be a deal-breaker.....  🤣

Moderator comment: yes let’s move on to the OP’s original topic. Happy Sunday to all!

It looks like he's only following other adult providers and onlyfans models. 
I have to say he is a Dallas Cowboys fan, that's the only thing bad I have to say about him 😄 

I visited a guy years ago named Dr. Tantric, or something like that..up in Washington Heights in nyc. I had absolutely no idea what I was doing, but I was young and thought, well… why not? I remember the beginning, and the euphoric (and very hot) middle… but the ending sort of drifted into a hot, passionate, out of body dream, one of those long, wandering ones you wake up from thinking, wait… did that actually happen?
You guys are all right. Over the years I’ve realized it’s different for everyone. When you find the right person who shares that same kind of tantric energy, you walk out feeling like something clicked in a way you can’t quite explain. For me, it was the most incredible sexual energy and connection…mind blowing. For others, it could be another kind of amazing connection with yourself, or others, or even Spirit if that’s  what your looking for
God, I wish I could remember that guy’s screen name.
Love you all so much. You’ve kept me sane and, more importantly, safe from some very questionable choices along the way.
 

It means something different to everyone who uses the phrase. As Nightowl described, there is an ancient Indian spiritual tradition that is mostly about meditation and breathwork and yoga. One aspect of tantra is tantric sex, and to a certain degree it involves rechanneling sexual energy back into the body without ejaculating, transforming what Westerners call "blueballs" into an idea of moving the sexual energy around the body rather than focusing on orgasm.
During the worst years of the AIDS epidemic, when the exchange of fluids was first understood as the means of transmission, a group of gay men in San Francisco created an organization called Body Electric that used the ancient Indian practices to help gay men enjoy themselves and each other erotically with a version of tantric-massage practices that included lingam (penis) massage and prostate massage but ending in a non-ejaculatory "full-body" orgasm. Over the years, Body Electric expanded its practice.
The phrase "tantric massage" moved on as well, and now the phrase is used by people who have never studied Indian philosophy and probably have no idea what the word originally meant. They use it simply to imply that their massage will include sexual touch. But since the word has no concrete definition, it can mean one thing to one practitioner and another thing to another.
I took the Body Electric workshop years ago, and it was genuinely life-enhancing. To be in a room with 15 massage tables and 50 gay men, of different ages and sizes, with four hands massaging each subject at the same time was celebratory. Our instructor had a great sense of humor, and though we had been instructed in how to control the orgasm through breathing exercises, every once in a while a subject would slip and ejaculate. The instructor would call out "Spill in Aisle Three!"--and the group leaders would come to the table and clean it up.
But I will never forget my first full-body orgasm. It truly transcended sex. 

How the HELL do you do a massage standing up?

Interesting.  My European experience has been the opposite.  Everyone in Vienna used condoms, but everyone in Athens did not.  Again, a larger sample size is needed, so I'll try to sleep with more men on my next European visit next year 

No, my regulars just have online loyalty apps where I can download coupons and accumulate points for discounts on future visits. 

Best case scenario:  He decided he's personally interested in you.  Wait to see if he gets back in touch and asks for a date.
More likely:  He likes you and was horny, which was why this one time things went as far as they did, but it's still a provider-customer relationship.