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I don’t arrange Ubers for providers anymore—too many unnecessary issues. Now, I just have them add it to their bill and arrange their own transportation. I’ve noticed that the few providers who request an Uber have also been the most disappointing. I’m already doing enough ‘prep’ work; it’s the least they can do.

Are you a provider who also dabbles as a paying client?

The Pass, which he starred, was a beautiful and heartbreaking movie.

I’m not entirely sure of your tastes, but Jake and Joe are solid picks. Both excellent tops! Jake has been around forever; he’s professional, dependable, and just a great guy. As for Joe, there’s something about him that gives me goosebumps. He’s funny, sweet, and incredibly passionate. He can adapt to your preferences. Just know, when the time comes, he will definitely devour you! https://rent.men/JakeMitchell#sponsor https://rent.men/JoeDicarlo

Saw the first episode. Couldn’t get into it. I am enjoying “High Potential” also on ABC. I’d recommend that.

I laugh, but so true! I don’t like when providers say things like, “I have X number of appointments before you, can you do 6pm instead?” or, “I can squeeze you in at 4pm.” I know I’m not your only client, but hearing it out loud really cheapens the experience or vibe. I prefer the illusion that I’m your sole focus for the day.

I was getting Liam Nesson vibes from Taken - “particular set of skills.”

A 5’10” guy with a six-pack at 125 pounds? Unless he’s made of helium, that’s not happening. Muscle weighs more than air, so he’d likely be in the 150-180 pound range. At 125, you’d get more skeleton than six-pack!

If it helps, start with plenty of foreplay to relax and stimulate, using fingers or toys to help ease into it. Deep breathing and staying relaxed can make a big difference. Use a lot of lube and change positions if needed to find what’s most comfortable. Communicate throughout.

I collect vinyl records from different decades. I love the analog sound and the cover art.

Speaking as a bottom… a college wrestler. 😜

People make many assumptions about sex work, especially when it challenges their perceptions. For some, it’s hard to understand that someone could choose this profession willingly, with a sense of agency, rather than out of necessity. I think it’s because society often positions sex—especially queer sex—as taboo or something sacred, while ignoring the fact that, for many, sex work is a vocation like any other. It allows people to provide a valuable service. And that’s not to say sex isn’t sacred for those who view it that way. I lost my gay virginity to a provider, and it was the best decision. He took my first time like it was sacred, and I felt really safe. I couldn’t have felt more special. Back then, I had the luxury of meeting the guy over lunch to see how I felt. I think that type of interaction is sometimes lost on some providers today—rightly or wrongly—but it made all the difference for me as a “first timer.” Assuming you find the right person, it can be an incredibly helpful, special, and empowering experience.

Nothing can replace the human touch.

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A man who uses the word hirsute already gets extra points in my book. 😉

When I look for providers, I admit I usually prefer men who are taller and bigger than me. I reach out to a provider because I want to feel protected and safe for various reasons—not the least of which is that my job is really demanding and stressful, and honestly, I often feel alone. I tend to get that sense of security from men with a larger frame or body mass; that’s just my preference. I’ve also been with men who had huge cocks, but it often hurt—not because of size alone, but because they weren’t attentive or skilled as a top. For me, dick size doesn’t matter—what really counts is that the provider is engaged, present, and not detached. A lack of connection is a total turn-off. There’s a premium in life for being attractive; it just is what it is. And in gay culture, having a huge dick can open doors and get you further than most. However, I believe looks fade over time, and I’ve found that the most meaningful and memorable experiences come from moments where true human connections are formed. When I’m not hiring, when I’m in a serious relationship, I find that the “whole package” encompasses the qualities a man brings to the table—his personality, values, kindness, and how we connect on a deeper level. (I still like men who are a little bigger than me.) LOL I love smiles; there’s just something incredibly attractive about a genuine personality in a man. You’d be surprised by the number of men who have an aversion to smiling. When someone’s smile reflects their true self and warmth, it’s incredibly appealing. That kind of authenticity stands out to me far more than just physical attributes—it creates an instant and lasting connection.

Unless you’re wearing Drakkar Noir, you’re not a gay repellant! 😊 Not every gay person finds themselves in the typical social circles or ‘gay packs’ often associated with the LGBTQ+ community. Everyone’s experience is different. Being out doesn’t necessarily mean gravitating toward certain spaces or groups—some people don’t feel connected to the club or sauna culture, etc. and that’s okay. What you’re describing sounds like more of a personal preference in how you connect with others. It’s important to find the types of friendships that feel authentic to you, regardless of whether they align with the more common social experiences of other gay men. Have you found spaces where you can relate to people on a deeper level, outside of just sexuality—like shared hobbies, work, volunteer groups, or even online communities focused on things you’re passionate about? It’s about finding what feels comfortable and meaningful for you.

Love this song.

Animal eyes see past everything, right into the truth of who you are, without judgment or pretense.

Where I take offense is with this elaborate ruse on your part to mislead clients, take their money, and compromise their safety. I’m new to Company of Men, and the moderators will easily verify that. They’ll also see the pattern in your behavior and your multitude of accounts. So, thank you for bringing their attention to this thread—it’ll only make their job easier in sorting things out.

I thought I was God? Isn’t that what you called me? Or was it your other profile name? Hard to keep track. I’m also ready for the avalanche of accounts from SD_Exec, Arab, Atyla, ZackZack or JackJack to rain down on me. Do me a favor and tell BWC to add more than one muscle arm photo to his RM page - clearly someone that good looking and in shape could show more than one photo while still maintaining privacy.

Mine was the money-back guarantee. Never happens. Doesn’t happen. Period. And that’s the most unrealistic travel schedule for a med student with a model body, who’s also escorting on the side! Medical school is notoriously demanding, with little flexibility for long trips, especially international ones. Even if someone could somehow pull it off with meticulous planning, the reality is that the workload, clinical hours, and study demands make frequent travel like this extremely difficult. I went to law school and had no life for 3 years!! Went nowhere!