jeezopete

Absolutely...

Some fans are just a little too much: P.S. If the man holding the pillows happens to be a member here at CoM then I apologize to you sir.

Yep, I paid for the phone & I pay for the monthly service. Therefore, I decide what settings to use as well as when (or whether) to respond to a text, voicemail or call.

I didn't meet him and I don't recall hearing his name announced for stage appearances. What does he look like? I'll admit though, I was busy with some of my regular guys as well as a visiting dancer from the Ft. Lauderdale club. 😜

Fans of the show are really FANS:

I've had dancers ask questions like, "Where are you staying?" and "Are you staying alone?" when I've just told them I'm from out of town. Last night for example, during a lap dance with a dancer from out of town, he asked, "Do you live alone?" Questions like that often indicate a good direction for the conversation to lead to private arrangements. In answer to the OP's question, when you and a dancer are discussing a lap dance, or during/after a lap dance, you can always say something like, "If you ever want to do more than a lap dance, let me know." Just a simple sentence that can either end there or lead to a more promising discussion.