DavidNY

Skip him.

He has a really nice jaw line

No relation. 😏

No relation. 😏

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!
Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)
I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

@pubic_assistance Actually, no.  FTM means assigned Female at birth Transitioned to Male (or Female To Male) Generally meaning, now using masculine pronouns (i.e. he/him).  While some transmasc people use they/he or they/them, rarely would someone identifying as FTM use she/her pronouns, and most would find it offensive.  It is possible, but pretty unlikely unless this person specifically shared they still use or don’t mind feminine pronouns.

A quick google search would probably help you, if you need some additional education.  Ah, hell, I’ll even do it for you in case that’s too much effort for you to exert for trans people.  If you did it on purpose because you don’t believe trans people exist or deserve to have their gender identity respected, then that’s just gross behavior.
 
 

@pubic_assistance the first sentence is kinda cringy, not sure if that was intentional (hopefully not).  Unless you know something about this person’s pronouns/identity that wasn’t listed in his profile, generally FTM implies he/him pronouns and he’s a dude with a vag (not a ‘she who is a male  presenting person’)
But God, his body makes me wanna get on testosterone!!  I’d totally hire and would love to hear any reviews.

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!
Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)
I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!
Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)
I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!
Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)
I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

He has a fascinating IG profile on which he highlights his transition from fragile young woman, through breast removal, testosterone therapy and rigourous work outs to his presence in 2026.  It is amazing what effort goes into it, but it is actually possible.
And to boot, very personable in his communications.  I can see how he could be a mentor to people interested in making this transition.

Fair enough.  If it helps, I did confirm directly with the provider that he uses he/him pronouns (he will also accept they/them, but never she/her as implied in multiple places in his profile, starting with referring to himself as a ‘guy’ in the first sentence, but also in his interview questions).  I also booked him as I was already planning a trip to Canada. Will let you know how it goes!
Hope that helps resolve any confusion or misgendering! (Sorry I couldn’t help more with the willful ignorance)
I love his tats too.  Not easy to make that much ink look so thoughtfully designed!

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

I know quite a few trans people.( I haven't had sex with all of them). I also have been a long time friend of Veronica Vera, who runs "Miss Veronica's School for Boys who want to be Girls." I have enough information to know that there is a spectrum of personalities in the trans community and how people wish to be addressed is a PERSONAL CHOICE. So until I know what that person CHOOSES to be addressed as, BIOLOGY is going to be MY guide.  Any FTM is a biological FEMALE, not a male. Transitioning does NOT change that. You will always be a masculine presenting FEMALE only with some choices of hormonal any/or surgical modifications to present as a male. IT DOESN'T ACTUALLY MAKE YOU A MALE. So referring to someone born female as a female is not incorrect. I am not ADDRESSING this person to their face, so there is no information on how they want to be addressed. It's always astounding how some of you gays love to act so knowledgeable about subjects, with very little actual experience on the subject. 
 

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

@pubic_assistance the first sentence is kinda cringy, not sure if that was intentional (hopefully not).  Unless you know something about this person’s pronouns/identity that wasn’t listed in his profile, generally FTM implies he/him pronouns and he’s a dude with a vag (not a ‘she who is a male  presenting person’)
But God, his body makes me wanna get on testosterone!!  I’d totally hire and would love to hear any reviews.

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

@pubic_assistance Actually, no.  FTM means assigned Female at birth Transitioned to Male (or Female To Male) Generally meaning, now using masculine pronouns (i.e. he/him).  While some transmasc people use they/he or they/them, rarely would someone identifying as FTM use she/her pronouns, and most would find it offensive.  It is possible, but pretty unlikely unless this person specifically shared they still use or don’t mind feminine pronouns.

A quick google search would probably help you, if you need some additional education.  Ah, hell, I’ll even do it for you in case that’s too much effort for you to exert for trans people.  If you did it on purpose because you don’t believe trans people exist or deserve to have their gender identity respected, then that’s just gross behavior.
 
 

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

You clearly need education, but don’t want it.  The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity.  Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.

@pubic_assistance Actually, no.  FTM means assigned Female at birth Transitioned to Male (or Female To Male) Generally meaning, now using masculine pronouns (i.e. he/him).  While some transmasc people use they/he or they/them, rarely would someone identifying as FTM use she/her pronouns, and most would find it offensive.  It is possible, but pretty unlikely unless this person specifically shared they still use or don’t mind feminine pronouns.

A quick google search would probably help you, if you need some additional education.  Ah, hell, I’ll even do it for you in case that’s too much effort for you to exert for trans people.  If you did it on purpose because you don’t believe trans people exist or deserve to have their gender identity respected, then that’s just gross behavior.
 
 

No, it's not 'debatable.' It's wrong, it's cruel and it'sjust a cheap power-pose.

You know damn well that FTM means female-to-male, and transition is complete. Your misrepresentation is as obnoxious as your demand to be told in person how to address a trans man. Ugh.