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I think the catch to that is, based on what people have said...you still have to drive the traffic to your page via porn, and that generally involves being with some production label to get recognized enough. I’m still putting some feelers out there for doing shoots. At the same time, I wouldn’t want someone trying to “push me” into it. I won’t say any names, but I was kinda rubbed wrong when one person said to me, “when are you going to do porn, when you’re 50?” And then referred me to go talk to some random about getting into it. Like...let me get into at my own pace, I don’t need someone trying to coax me into something, and then referencing someone as a “mentor” of who I need to talk to. One thing for sure, nobody out here is trying to hold nobodies hand toward the biz because shit is already saturated as it is, and they trying to stay relevant their damn self. If I want to go into it, it’s mainly because I want to showcase my talent and have something added I can share with clients during sessions or when we aren’t together. St the same time, I just feel like everyone is doing it, how do you even break into an industry that’s already loaded, and have the resources to keep up with it AND all the texts and calls I get while traveling, doing in person meets, etc.

It’s not just the USA, ?? Canada does it too. Matter of fact, Canada is just as strict if not moreso than the US. They’ve not had “open borders” either since 9/11 (by the way, 9/11 is how the initial hostage type border patrol policies came into fashion). I told a story years ago before anyone started talking about it, how Canadian immigration just ransacked all of my personal Information. Laptop, phones, held me up for 3 hours. In the end, they said, “we have to deny your entry, we believe you’re coming to commit criminal activity”. And at that time...escorting was considered legal in the province. They made a big scary deal about it, and definitely had me paranoid for a few months. But in the end, they had nothing to charge me with, and there really wasn’t anything “criminal” going on. They just want to pick and choose who they want to let it. And like I’ve said before, “they” always try to single out single men traveling alone. Like there’s always some kind of suspicious reason behind it. My response nowadays will always be: “I don’t consent to searches”, and “do you have a warrant for searching my belongings?” Everytime I’ve not said that, I’ve been tricked into letting them snoop around. However it may be different when crossing over into the border...but at the same time, I don’t see how. What are they going to do, arrest you for not providing the information? At the same time, I’m not an immigration lawyer so don’t take my word for it. The US could have all sorts of bullshit tactics if you don’t comply. There may be some, “give us your phone or we will detain you for 72 hours”, and when you have Trump talking about holding people indefinitely...I wouldn’t even see why anyone would want to come to the US. Which I still just find fucked up considering his wife is Eastern European. When have we EVER had an Eastern European 1st lady lol.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/02/09/style/onlyfans-porn-stars.amp.html I was doing some browsing and came across this article. What are people’s opinion of this? I don’t have anything to say 1 way or another about onlyfans, but I feel like this article is trying to insinuate that regular in person escorting is a thing of the past, and I just don’t feel onlyfans is really as staple as its being portrayed. I still meet a lot of clients who don’t do anything with their credit cards on websites. I’m still kind of new to this whole onlyfans discovery. I’ve considered getting up on it, but it just seems like a lot of upkeep to be consistent with (as I know has already been discussed by @TylerandAce previously) My hands are already full answering all the texts and emails I get (not bragging nor complaining, just saying). I still feel there’s room for “traditional” escort work. One of my friends made a statement saying that guys aren’t even escorting anymore, they’re just on onlyfans. Which I understood what he was trying to say, but I think it’s a bit of a stretch to say sex work has ditched real life fucking, and subscribing to virtual voyeurism instead.

Well supposedly recessions are supposed to be necessary natural events. I’m not an economist, but it’s sort of like high tide/low tide. No matter how much I read up on it though, I still don’t really understand what it is about a recession that is bad to the regular general public, besides job layoffs. In the last recession that was apparently so bad, there was nothing that really directly affected me. You hear about stocks, the housing market, etc. However I do know...some markets like Florida and Arizona were pretty shitty for the couple of years coming out of the recession. I had to postpone my 1st trip to Phoenix for a few months, back in 2012. Even when they talk about places booming (Denver and North Dakota for example), sometimes I still don’t see any improvement, and sometimes things get worse because rents go up in the “booming economy”. I even had a friend who was laid off once gas prices went down...even though gas prices are suppose to help the economy. That’s another thing I get tired of hearing: gas prices low=bad. Gas price high=good. But who is actually benefiting from higher gas prices? The mofos who making a profit off of it? I feel like the word recession needs to be better defined and not simply used as a big scary word like “Great Depression “.

I agree with the 1st half and overall jist of your statement. I do need to moreso focus on the positive transactions, considering majority of them are. If porn were to be outlawed tomorrow, I’d still have a lifetime of visuals to jerk off to from all the hot experiences I’ve had with clients. I hardly ever have any “bad” in person meetings. I can still literally say my last actual “bad” in person meeting was like 2 or 3 years ago. And even then, there was only 1 other that was similar in magnitude of being safety compromised. However since then, I keep a security assistant to lessen and avoid such altercations. The only part I kinda ? at was the 1 or 2 bad reviews from being out of business. I recently had some lunatic contact me from RentMasseur and completely flake on me. Things got nasty when I gave him my standard cancellation policy. He says, “thanks for trying to rob me”, and then later follows up and says he’s going to cross post on all the masseur sites saying my pictures are fake (despite him never getting off his ass to actually meet me). He got down to saying “you’re also a whore on rentmen, how legal are you?” By that point my assistant went ahead and dealt with him. Turns out, he regularly belittles/is demeaning towards sex workers on social media. But like you said, we get the whole melting pot of mixed nuts. And I’ll say again for the 1,000th time, not having Craigslist and backpage around anymore means the filters are gone...and they’re coming straight to us. Not that we needed those sites to thrive, but they had their place in the overall online gay/sex work community. If someone didn’t want to spend a penny and wanted to waste an afternoon exchanging pics and talking about sex without meeting, Craigslist was the place for that.

Lol, maybe his mother answered the phone that night. But on a serious note, I can understand why someone would need a late night call. I’ve gotten annoyed sometimes myself. Sometimes it’s not the time, but the time the appointment is called in. I appreciate it more when a client reaches out earlier in the day and says they want to meet later that night. But the spur of the moment late night calls generally involves getting out of the resolved comfort zone (no more clients coming tonight, so I guess I will drink this wine, start this movie, and get under the covers). So when someone contacts out the blue asking to meet late (especially annoying are any kind of downtown or resort hotel which requires parking, walking a mile, etc. versus just a run of the mill place where you can pull up to the door or not much further)...sometimes it can come off like, “this escort has nothing better to do right now, than to see me”. Im not particularly fond of when (usually time waster) clients hit me up in the evening, and then expect me to drop everything to cater to them...not understanding what I may be doing at the moment. One client last Saturday kept texting me, all like “hello?” ??, busy?? Only to cancel the next day our session was. I know that’s not the intended meaning, but to avoid that..try to make your calls as you’re coming into town. For example, I had a client contact me before his flight that day to meet around 3 pm. Worked out perfectly. It wasn’t a week in advance, but it was enough time catch me before I would have driven off and been miles away already. Just have to think ahead...the advantages of hiring an escort unlike Grindr, you can contact around and have someone ready ahead of time...versus taking a gamble that someone may be available and ready when you are available and ready

I have been called out in certain situations myself, where I have said I wanted to be more discerning of the Black clients I’m willing to meet (in case I need to clarify, I happen to be Black (and mixed, but hypothetically going by the 1% rule here lol) as well). Some people have gotten offensive when I said that. But people have misunderstood. They take something in tact as offense. It’s not that I discriminate, but more of the fact that I understand a lot of my own race isn’t respectful with what we do, therefore I have to do what I need to do. When you have someone of your own race chargeback $250 on PayPal, or threatens to physically harm you (true story, but wasn’t a client)...you start becoming a little smarter about who you see. That doesn’t mean I’m following them around in the store, making sure I lock the door so they don’t run out, or make them feel uncomfortable. But more of just weeding people out before even meeting them. At the same time, I’m finding more and more black clients are becoming my fans. And I’m enjoying them more as well. But I still have some who come at me inconsiderate. On the flip side: Despite White clients being the majority of my client base, they also make up the ones who waste the most of my time. It may not be down to because they’re White, but down to who’s looking at the sites the most. But if we put that aside, I would say a lot of White guys play bullshit games the most, which now has me screening them out moreso than the Black clients. In most cities in America, older White clients are generally going to makeup the majority of clients. That’s fact. BUT, the issue is a lot of these older white clients are acting like 16 year old boys nowadays. The immaturity level out here is insane. Over the past week, I’ve had to deal with several instances of older white clients contacting for appointments, as if they’re prank calling Chinese takeout ? restaurants. It’s just insane. I blame Trump for all this nonsense. Older white guys think it’s cute to show their ass. Just today I had to post a Yelp review of a client who sent me some horrible text messages. One included “fuck you loser”. And this is a 50 something year old White guy who’s supposed to be running his own company (he also has another bad yelp review from an employee, which goes to show it’s not just me...and it’s this whole “I’m paying you, and I’m president/ceo, so I’ll treat you like dirt mentality) Just insanity. I don’t necessarily follow the hate train on Trump or any other politician, but I can’t wait to see him out because he’s made it okay for older white guys to just be completely out of line disrespectful (mainly when it comes to doing business). At the same time, most of my White clients don’t like Trump, so I’m not saying ALL are becoming that way, but the time wasters out here do seem to be copying the behavior. And can’t any White escort say I’m crazy or “need fucking help”, when you not out here dealing with it from the perspective of a person of color.

I started in 2008. Things were better then, than they are now (in the big scheme of things). My very 1st client on Rentboy in Dallas offered me 220 (I didn’t know how much charge back then, so would occasionally ask clients how much they wanted to give me). And he was actually serious, unlike nowadays where someone says they will pay 250, and then the very next day claim they never made an appointment ??‍♂️ As far as I’m concerned: the industry is in a recession already. Between FOSTA and everyone with an iPhone becoming an escort, what’s a recession going to do that’s not already being done? Then again, when you talk recession...that doesn’t mean all industries and all states will be affected equally. The 2008 recession hit tourist/housing destinations like Florida, Arizona and Nevada harder than others. But places like Texas, Denver, and others reliant on oil, tech and natural resources not so much.

Thanks for the tips. As for vacations: back in June I did a hike a day for 3 days in Montana. Most of the hike involved having 0 cell phone or internet connection. I was only able to go online and use the phone in the evenings. That had really helped clear my mind and refresh, but it was still with a client-friend of mine...so it wasn’t completely on “me time”. I also meet with friends throughout the year and tune out for a night or 2...but I’m usually out of town when that happens, which means I’m focusing on money. Some days I feel like doing what Andrew Luck of the Indy Colts did last night, which had the hotel I was at in Indianapolis in tears: RETIRE lol. The only difference with him, I don’t get that 50 million dollar severance, so retiring just ain’t an option right now. Plus, I’m at the prime where I want to be. Age 30 to 40 I feel can be the most profitable years of an escort’s career. You get the guys in their 20s and 30s who need daddies, but can still roll with the guys who want a younger guy. I’m convinced if things weren’t so FOSTA’ed down, I’d be doing much better.

I wanted to add to this as well: because that’s good to be multi-talented also. At the same time: the other thing I get tired of people saying to me, is taking something I’m good at, and suggesting I make a job out of it. For example: I know how to work on cars. But I don’t want to be a mechanic. People don’t understand that is BRUTAL work. But it’s also an expensive and rip-off business as well. I have a $49,900 Infiniti (original MSRP). But every time I take it to get looked at, mechanics get $$ sign ? eyes So I’ve learned to maintain and fix as much as I can myself. Yesterday I spent 6 hours disassembling my engine, changing all 8 spark plugs, trying to find the 1 that broke while I was driving from DC to NC. But it’s fixed, and I didn’t have to “drop my car off”, pay $100 for a diagnostic, and then pay $500 for the fix...because I already knew what was wrong, because I know how it works. Today, it feels like I’ve done a total body workout. My back hurts, my biceps hurt, my cuticles are torn lol. I wouldn’t want to do it for a living, at this point in my life. Mechanic work becomes your whole life because you have to be there to fix cars every day except Sunday and Holidays. Then it’s brutal when it’s hot, sweat makes me breakout. In the winter it’s brutal because nuts and bolts don’t want to free up. I scrapped my finger 3 weeks ago, tightening up a belt. Left a small but nasty sore that took 3 weeks to heal. People have suggested I do landscape because I’m good at that. But I don’t want to do that work. In the summer, it’s hot, humid, and you’re dealing with bugs and dust and I have asthma, so after I work in the garden...by the end of the night my asthma flares up and I have to do an inhaler or respirator. People have suggested personal trainer. I haven’t done that either. That’s almost like escorting because you’re dealing with clients 1 on 1, some who don’t show up...and you really have to set up a cancellation fee plan with that. Plus it’s just not my thing. I like the gym, I can train and whip someone up in shape, but I’m not keen on pushing and motivating someone to get into shape for a living. Plus, I don’t like to immerse myself in gym culture 24/7, there’s a lot of self-absorption in some of that...and I be needing my time off throughout the week. People have suggested I do truck driving, because I like to drive and travel. But I don’t want to drive some 80,000 pound mammoth around for a living, and sleep in it every night while traveling the country. Not my style of living. Plus it’s industrial, and demanding and I was never an industrial type. I love sex work. I like going to prestigious neighborhoods in cities all over the country, I like the thrill of meeting a perfect stranger, and then 5 minutes later being ball deep in their ass or mouth. I like being able to sleep in, not have to get up at 6:55 am and kill myself trying to rush to work by 8:30 am like I did in college. I like being able to set my own schedule, I like being able to talk to clients how I want to talk to them. What needs to change and what I don’t like is people’s bullshit. That needs to change. Not me. I had to make sense to someone the other day, who couldn’t justify why I would ask for a cancellation fee, despite him asking: Hey man. Available tonight at all? Know it's late. I need a massage before I start the week, and also wouldn't mind us both blowin one. I'm Michael, 38, Mclean Va. Could host or travel; depends on rate Then after a few messages he stops responding. No follow up the next day and ignored my messages completely. So I had to send my assistant for the cancellation fee. We told him, you don’t call Pizza Hut and ask for 3 large pizzas, pepperoni, mushroom, olives, delivered to your place in 15 minutes...and then hang up the phone. So why the FUCK is that acceptable to do with a sex worker? Then I got my cancellation fee. But they don’t see it that way. Non of this should be “part of the business”. People need to get their fucking act straight, and stop playing games. That’s what I meant about no respect for BLACK GAY MALE SEX WORKERS. those 5 words combined too often results in people fucking us around, and then thinking we don’t deserve to get paid. But I show them otherwise...I’m not the one. When I get into something outside of escorting, it would likely be something that’s low demanding, not going to cause health issues later (or now) in life, and something clean and reliable. Something fun. Marine biology, pilot, veterinarian used to be my dream jobs. But I didn’t initially realize the amount of schooling it takes to do those, plus they’re tedious and sex work attracted me so much more. Interior design would likely be more up my alley.

And I can accept the place where you’re coming from with that. And hearing it from you makes me even more compelled to start that path. BUT...what I won’t tolerate is people on the forum or anyone else trying to tell me I don’t belong in the business. You don’t knock somebodies hustle. People on here so quick to talk, but they aren’t paying my bills. And people think it’s cute to “like” posts and giggle and laugh about someone saying that. It’s not cute. They not seeing how I move. If I didn’t belong in the business, then how is it that I’ve made it this far? And haven’t had to rely on porn, stripping, or Twitter to make it (not knocking anyone who does those, but I’m making a point about this being the only area of sex work I’ve needed to be to succeed). I may DISCUSS (which people always try to call it “complaining”, in an effort to not change societies way of treating gay BLACK male sex workers...which despite their love of us, the respect level still has to be demanded. Like today I received a message: “Sup, U fuck raw?” Then when I called the phone, it went straight to voicemail and was the voice of a well spoken White guy asking to leave a message for his business) issues from time to time, but that doesn’t mean I’m not out here taking care of my clients. I have a big following, but that doesn’t show on social media. I have worked privately for years, and only recently have a began to step out on social media. At the same time, I’ve been quicker to banish “clients” as well (and your suggestions a couple months ago about when to banish clients has also helped validate my lowered level of tolerance lol)...because like assessed, the Backpage/Craigslist brigade has found their way into our inboxes and has created chaos and madness in my life. I used to advertise on those sites WHEN I was in the mood to deal with that shit, like when I’m sitting at home with nothing better to do, or really low on money after a bad trip or unexpected bill. But now, these mother fuckers are being mixed in with the good guys. And some of the good clients are catching the heat with the losers.

I’m somewhat along the same wavelength. I used to really worry about people I date finding out, nowadays...they usually know about me before we even talk about dating. Plus, as I’ve said before: escorting has lost its taboo, commodity appeal. Now everybody is doing it. Cities like Dallas, Nashville, and Denver used to never have more than 10 or 20 guys advertising. Now it’s like 50. So, to come out as a “rentman” is no surprise. Even the guys who don’t escort, have tried it once or twice. The ones who criticize come from jealousy and insecurity. That said, Aaron Bauder does still make a good point and I can relate: regardless of how open it is nowadays, I still like to keep a level of don’t ask, don’t tell. Not because I’m ashamed, but because people can use things against you later...and majority of these guys I “date” haven’t passed quality control to be trustworthy enough to tell things to. And most every guy who I’ve shared being an escort with, has later turned around and burnt me. I pretty much had to let go all of my friends in cities where I used to live, except clients. Because they never appreciated or respected what I did, or they would tout how important THEIR job is to them, as if I’m sitting around on my ass all day not doing shit. So nowadays, I don’t tell anyone. If they find out, they find out. But I’m not volunteering anything.

I wish I could put double-emojis. It is sad that it’s come to that, but I like how you said it otherwise.

This is just a random thread, but I feel compelled to discuss the nation’s Capitol of DC. I feel it’s probably the most popular market for traveling providers, next to SF, NYC, LA and Chicago. I’m just always amazed at the vibe and outcome I get when I’m there. Last time I was in DC was in May 2018. This time, I was there from August 9th thru the 21st. Ended up staying a little over a week planned. It was also interesting to be there for the 1st time since the post-FOSTA era with Craigslist and backpage gone. DC has always been a favorite market of mine (in moderation...how often depends on whether I’m living in the east or west), but it just seemed on this latest trip, people booked differently than before. In the 2.5 weeks I was there, all but 1 client were incalls coming to my place. On previous trips, it seemed that I was doing all outcalls to people’s place or hotels in the city. I also noticed I used to hardly ever get any Black clients in the city, which is surprising considering the DMV area is one of the “Black meccas” of the country. But on this latest trip, I had more black clients than anyone else. Which was good, it’s good to see similar ethnicity supporting the business for similar providers. I find in cities like Kansas City, Orlando, Denver, San Francisco...it doesn’t seem to be as many supporting the business. Nevertheless, I was steadily booked each day in Washington DC while I was there...but at the same time, I still felt it was a little slow. Even though it was August which I hear is slow, the highway traffic is still heavy and there’s still people in/out the city. So I don’t want to focus too much on the season. If it were up to me, I would consider moving to the area...but despite business being steady, there’s still a lot of flakes in the area. I pretty much had to not answer any adam4adam messages, unless they phoned me directly. I also find, it always seems each trip has a fresh set of clients, versus regulars from before looking to meet. I guess that’s not a bad thing, but I just feel the market is so large, a provider is dealing with a lot of competition, but also a lot of correspondence. Regardless, I was able to make some connections...and if it were up to me I’d love to home base myself in the DC area. However, there’s some things to take into consideration before I could make that move.

Well isn’t that why you ask 1st, before getting all uptight about it? I’ll tell you why I’m TALKING about regulars cancelling. By calling it a complaint and saying it doesn’t make sense, you automatically come on the defense without even understanding the extent of it. Why you getting mad at me about something I’m dealing with? That doesn’t make sense. In the case of client B, he had asked me earlier in the week if I would be in the area until Friday. When Friday came, he had to unexpectantly go out of town. Understandable. But then when he returned, we touched base again and he was still unable to meet. I told him at that point, “I will take you that I should just let you reach out to me when you’re ready”. He asked again if I would be in town for the rest of the week. I told him check with me and see, but at this point I’ve already left town because I’m not waiting around on him specifically, considering his previous cancellations. We’ve known each other for going on 3 or 4 years. In addition, there’s another regular client of mine I’ve know since 2015. We always have a good time together (overnights/weekends), but he also tends to habitually cancel. However, he’s more than happy to carry on explicit texts about breeding his White hole (mainly fantasy talk), pumping cum down his throat, and how much he wants to fuck. But so far, it’s been close to 2 years since we’ve last met, and my last 2 attempts to get us fucking again has resulted in, “I’m going out of town this week” and “family is coming into town this weekend”. Okay, that’s wonderful! But I just spent 2 days reading a porn script from him, only for him to say he’s not available. You can call it complaining, but I have a reason to about some things. And my complaints will compel me to move on and end certain client relationships, or stop initiating/engaging with clients who simply aren’t available. I wonder how @Aaron_Bauder feels about all of this. I know he gave some good input previously.

Well that’s your opinion, but that’s not the facts. It’s not about someone not being “into me”. I’ll prove my case in point: I had a client contact me in DC last week, whom previously contacted me from the same number in Phoenix like 2 years ago. The only conversation we had, was him asking me to come to where he was...me getting some info to come out, and then no response, and then the next day, “hey I’m sorry, I fell asleep”. All this within 20 minutes. Now...I don’t know why I didn’t block him after that, but I musta brushed it off and didn’t even bother thinking twice about it. When he contacted me again 2 years later in DC, I was able to see the previous conversation. But this time, we actually ended up meeting up. Not only was he sexy as fuck, but he couldn’t stay off of me either...and afterwards he texted me again to say how hot I was and how fun we had. And I got my $300. So...it wouldn’t make sense to say these people contacting me aren’t into me. They are into me, otherwise they wouldn’t be reaching out to me. And who are you to say this line of work isn’t for me? Are you the sex worker auditor or governor? If you aren’t doing it, if people aren’t paying you money for what your body and sexual talents have to offer, you have no place to come and tell me that I’m not cut out for this business. It has nothing to do with not being cut out for the business. It has everything to do with getting people to be more proactive in their decisions to contact providers. If someone is going to contact a sex worker, be prepared to make concessions in order to make that contact turn into an appointment. You don’t call Pizza Hut and talk about how much you love pizza, how good the pizza looks, how you would love to taste the pizza and have the sauce roll down your chin...only to say, “sorry, my wife is cooking dinner today. How long are you open?” That’s bullshit. It’s inappropriate. It’s childish. It’s ignorant. It’s rude. It’s inconsiderate. It’s wasteful. So why do I need to sit around and put up with it? If someone has 100 excuses of how busy they are before they even meet, then perhaps THEY’RE not cut out to contact escorts. Ya think?

Sounds like we’re contending with the same dilemmas, but different reasons. Me personally: I have done appointments at every hour of the day. However, for me it really varies. I will do a late night call if the client is lucky enough to call me when I am leaving a nightclub, and haven’t found anyone to go/bring back home. That’s happened many times and was most common for me in places like Dallas. To me, a lot of late night callers are people who aren’t compelled to meet an escort in broad daylight. However nowadays, between traveling when in tour and being 60 miles from town when I’m at home, I generally don’t take late night calls anymore. I don’t find it to affect income, but like some have said, it may vary based on where you live. If you’re in a small market town where everything closes at 9 pm, you’re likely never to get late night calls...they’re usually in bed by 8 or 9 pm. But in big market/late night cities, where people are up late, it’s not uncommon. My do not disturb has actually been turned on from 2:30 am to 9 am. But I usually call it quits at 1 am and I don’t like to take clients much before 9:30 am. My most recent latest night call was in a small Midwest town. He wanted to meet at 1 am, which worked out for me because I was arriving late anyway. When I got there, i started feeling a sudden bout of fear because this was a dark neighborhood house in the city, and I could hardly see the dude standing there (I already knew what he looked like though, based on my client screening procedure) Fortunently, all was well and he was hot as fuck. The evidence of that was left on his pillows and headboard. I was not lying when I said he actually did remind me of the guy from the “Boo’d up” video that was played 100 million times on the radio:

Good points... Now, when I say “creepy”, I’m being slightly facetious. I don’t mean that they are creeps or creepy...but they be creeping. And I know and understand that. Even the openly gay ones, still have to. Even if they’re not creeping on each other in that sense of the word, they may have other reasons I had a client the other day, he told me about him and his partner and how they have a communicated open relationship. However, it was weird when I had to park down on the street and not in the huge parking lot of a driveway he had. But, I didn’t make a fuss... Then another client, I was fucking him in his living room with baby toys all over the place. Every 10 minutes he would peek outside just to make sure non of his neighbors were outside seeing my car parked in front of the house. I was like dayum, if I woulda known that, id of parked a mile away and just walked lol. As with the hotels again: I have loyalty at all the chains. Like @VictorPowers said, it can be a gamble trying to schedule anyone around 12:30 or noon unless you’re staying there for another day. I have Diamond membership with one hotel chain, and platinum with another. Whether or not they let me check in early or late varies widely with the management and location. Sometimes I’ve checked in as early as 3 am and was able to stay until the next day, other times I was able to check out at 3 pm. But the vast majority of the time, they’re going to say there’s no rooms clean/available and they aren’t checking anyone in early/late. I seen it today, they had a couple guests waiting for 3 hours to check into their room. I almost cursed out the management of Hampton Inn once, because I had arrived into a small town at 8 am from a bus, and then took a cab to get there (this is pre-Uber). I was already up all night riding, and he didn’t want to check me in until noon. I made enough fuss to get a room at 9 am, but I don’t like raising my blood pressure like that every time I go to a hotel, so I rather just not chance checking in early/late.

I’ve never been, but I was hoping to catch a flight with a client to Australia at some point....as he goes there often. And I know for a fact Australians like them some Chocolate. But I’d probably have to buy the flight, hotel and spending money over the course of an entire year...I hear burgers out there are like $12 a pop. Now, I have also heard (and you may google at your leisure), Queensland at one point was supposedly a little anti-sex work and anti-gay, but I’m not clear on the current extent of it. I just know I was doing some research on the area, and it’s not exactly the gay paradise ? I imagined it would be...BUT, that doesn’t mean there isn’t a lot of sex workers and a lot of AUDs to be made either. I’ve seen the rentmen ads out there...it’s Extensivex https://www.greenleft.org.au/content/sex-workers-queensland-campaign-full-decriminalisation https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/australia-news/2018/jan/13/things-take-a-long-time-to-change-queenslands-first-same-sex-registry-wedding With Asia, not sure when you’re going...but similar to going to Florida, just keep a watch on the tropics. Sometimes even just the forecasted trek of a typhoon/hurricane can be enough to send people into a frenzy. And depending on where you are in Asian/Pacific Islands, you just want to stay abreast.

Here’s some of the example messages I get: Client A: I understand, It makes sense. I have a husband and a 92 year old mother living alone and nearby so it's tough to plan much ahead. So I cannot commit easily. I'm not free today or tomorrow. Client B: Hi there. I'm sorry but I have to travel to Boston tonight for meetings all day tomorrow. ☹️. I'll need to see you next time you're in DC. Darn! I understand people have things to do, but client B had asked me if I would be available Friday, and then had the above come up. Client A was asking for private pics, and we exchanged numbers only for him to text me that. those are the type of messages that I refer to, they’re just not available. And that’s just 2. I have many more message like that.

As someone who has changed my stage name on a couple of occasions before I got used to people calling me who I am now (unapologetically and without a necessity, but as a personal decision)... Pick something that feels comfortable to you. Perhaps research the meaning behind whatever name you choose. Every name has a “meaning” originating from the Africans/Egyptians, Latins and Greeks. Whichever name you pick, find one that suits your personality and demeanor.

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I think they only sent it to “well-qualified” buyers and sellers...this survey thing is a big deal, they probably want to make sure they get input from people who actually show consistent vested interest in the site.

Besides the serial killers, You just defined the current state of escort sites in 2019