Johnrom

I remember a time, many years ago, when I was visiting my home town for a family wedding.  I met a guy who topped me so nicely, that it left me under a spell. I just HAD to see this guy again. But there was no time.  I had to spend most of the time with my family and then I had to go home.  Sure enough, the spell faded after a few days and became just a pleasant memory.  That's how these moments of passion can trick you if you let them. 

My regular comes to town every one or two months.  I like being with him. I get excited when I know he’s coming, double entendre there. It feels very different when I’m in his arms and when we play, compared with other providers.  Him penetrating me is the most satisfying experience.  I don’t know if that’s love, but who needs labels.

I once had a (very hot) Dom provider command me to say “I love you” in the middle of fucking me. It caught me by surprise. I think he was trying to get me to loosen up because he knew of my deep affection for him (I had been going to him for several years).  
 
So I said it. And I said it again. And again. It became a fun part of the fantasy. I’m a bit honored that he asked me (told me) to say it, if I’m honest. 

I often do encounter instances where I started catching feelings for the escorts and masseurs I hire.
I understand that it is their job to provide a service, but sometimes I do get delusional and believe I am special to them especially if they’re very sweet to me. The delusion becomes worse the sexier they are🤗.

As others have suggested: Take the items out of the LV shopping bags. Discard the LV shopping bags. Rip the tags off the merchandise. Hand carry/wear/use anything you can on the airplane home and as you pass through customs. I’ve walked through US customs hundreds of times, but never been stopped. I have been stopped multiple times by Canada, once in Germany, once in the Caribbean, once in Morocco, and once in Egypt. On every occasion, I’ve been let through without having to pay any duty or fees. However, I also wasn’t carrying anything that would be subject to duty or import taxes. Nonetheless, they wasted hours of my time asking me to explain things like underwear that had never been worn. They literally picked up every single piece of clothing in my bag and asked me where I bought it and how much I paid for it. They tortured me over why anyone in the world anyone would pay $2000 for a cashmere Ralph Lauren purple label sweater. Try explaining that to a massively underpaid and exhausted Customs worker.
Just stay calm and endure the torture. They’re only trying to get you to buckle under the pressure. If they actually knew you were guilty of something, they wouldn’t bother asking you questions. As long as you’ve taken the precautions above, it’s virtually impossible for them to prove where you bought something. Avoid the temptation to be sarcastic or condescending. "Yes sir", "No sir", and "Thank you, sir", are only words that should be coming out of your mouth. For the record, the Canadian Customs agents were the biggest jerks. By far. Every time. I must be on their "watchlist" or something. It’s so bad that I actually avoid going to Canada, which is sad because I think it’s a nice country otherwise.

IF they check, they check thoroughly. In all my many years of travel, I've never been checked. People who carry large amounts of luggage are particularly suspect. Customs tends to focus on people bringing large amount of merchandise for resale and checking for agricultural products crossing the border, not Louis Vuitton wallets meant for personal use or gifts. Technically anything over $800 is subject to import tax but virtually no one ever claims such purchases. If its out of its packaging and tags removed there is really no way to prove you just bought it and are cheating the customs rules. 

I fell hard for one escort. He was the first guy I had sex with after coming out in 2024, so there was a lot of emotion attached to our "situation" for me. He is a genuinely lovely man. We were able to work through the awkwardness that I created by being too invested, and we still see each other, our encounters richer and more mature as a result. I've seen about a dozen escorts in the 18 months I've been out. Four of them I've seen more than once. He is the only one I've spent dozens of days with. While I generally agree with someone's earlier statement about escorts being good actors and it being all about money, I also know first hand that sometimes you develop a mutually rewarding connection beyond the dollars. I consider him a friend, and I know he views me as more than a client. If I stopped paying, we certainly wouldn't continue having sex. But I've been to dinner (no fees) with him and his boyfriend. He's included me in aspects of his life, and he's reached out to me for business and education advice unrelated to any appointments. He's asked for help that isn't financial. There's a mentoring element to our relationship. His family is aware of me, and my sons are aware of him. ... Currently, I'm dating a young man who I met on an escort date. I booked him for two hours while visiting the West Coast. He asked if he could stay the night. We connected on a lot of levels, and he asked if we could date. He's visited my house for five-day stays twice now. I pay for the airfare but he refuses other payment; says it's not about the money. He's coming again in a few weeks. He says he's always been attracted to older guys. I think he has fallen for me. I'm not sure I'm in love with him but I do enjoy being with him. Bottom line: It's not always so cut and dried. When sex and human emotions are involved, the result can be complex. There can be many shades of gray between a strictly sex-for-money transaction and falling in love. 
   

With all due respect, Networks will subsidize known franchises with poor economics for a while.  If they were truly good businesspeople, they would have tried aggressively downsize staff, make cuts and make the numbers work.  But it’s all on autopilot and it finally crashed and burned.  The decline was slow and steady and the lazy management puts their heads in the sand because it’s a “legacy  show.”  Hope is not a strategy.  The network finally cut their losses, long overdue.  There is no conspiracy.  

Hey all,
Apologies if this has been asked before. Top here—seeking a kind, hot, muscular bottom or verse (jock/twink/twunk) provider in the city. Ideally someone others have had consistently great experiences with. Past hires have mostly been disappointing, so looking for the provider of providers.
Will also add: a great face is just as appreciated as a great ass.
Appreciate any solid recs!

I have a couple providers I see regularly that always cum in a session.  I always have a great time and I love to give back in a session.  It seems like they are enjoying it too and I hope they are.
Either they are or they are really good actors.  Either is fine with me and sometimes it is best to not know the answer and not ask.  Just go with it.  If I wasn't hiring, I believe these guys lookwise would be way out of my league, but both seem to enjoy the fact that we have a good and friendly vibe with each other.
Whatever the case, they are well worth what I pay them!

"A male model with a history of alleged domestic violence toward his husband"
I'll never understand why anyone stays in these kind of abusive relationships. Especially when they're violent towards you. I would be out the door the minute any psycho tries to hurt me.
I'll bet you the farm that drugs were involved though. 

Everyone responds differently, however, if I had been the victim of repeated knife-wielding invasion attacks, I would have taken "old Betsy" on as a roommate.  

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I feel the massage won’t be that great, yet here I am again contemplating the drive down.  

Beware people.  US stocks are very over valued historically.  Right now, the CAPE ratio for the S&P 500 stands at 38.7. That means stock prices are very expensive, relative to earnings.  “Right now, the U.S. stock market is trading at more than double the post-World War II average price-to-earnings ratio,” said Randy Bruns, a certified financial planner in Naperville, Illinois. 
Also, when back tested to 1970, the Buffett Indicator has averaged a reading of 85%, which is to say that the aggregate value of all stocks has averaged about 85% of U.S. GDP spanning 55 years. In recent trading sessions, this ratio has pushed above 213%, equating to a roughly 151% premium to its mean since 1970. 
And Goldman Sachs is recommending value stocks with decent dividends.
 
 

Lukáš, legendary Lukáš

Some of his pics have been reposted over and over again for at least 10 years! 

I agree and I’m also grateful for the hard work done to bring us back.
 

Those rates are ridiculous anywhere, especially for an incall. I wouldn’t pay anyone that in LA.

Those rates are absolutely ridiculous for Chicago!!

Would assume the reviews still hold up.  Massage is decent/ okay. His body, smile and personality amazing 

Agree as I get it will limit him.  I know kissing is one of my top items, and he does kiss and does it quite well I may add!