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I'm still trying to get through it. Unbelievably boring. Had no idea who Nicki Glaser was. Still don't care. Her cleavage is not pretty. I didn't need to have it shoved down my throat. I can't believe this Globe organization continues to have any clout in the industry. It all seems so fake and gratuitous to me. No one seems to want to be there. I can't believe Jodie Foster won for True Detective. I thought Night Country was awful, laughable. It was painful to watch to the end. I did see Sofia Vergara in Griselda, and I thought her performance was 10 times better than anything Jodie Foster offered on Night Country. IMO, the Globes are a joke.

They can be very frustrating. Sometimes you just have to give the game a rest, and maybe re-visit it later. That's what I've always done. Me too. I always book for massage. That is my history. If sex ever happened (and it did many times), it was always a welcome surprise. If sex was that important to me, then maybe I would have looked at escorts. Frankly, I never had difficulty finding free sex, so hiring an escort didn't really enter my thought process.

That is so nice when that happens. A great compliment to you. Thanks for sharing. Absolutely. Very true. But smart customers know how to play the game and read the room. It's the other guys that require a lot of time and patience.

I failed to get beyond his poor communication skills. I asked my usual questions, but did not get answers. In fact, I specifically requested "therapeutic only," and he responded "I do happy ending." I have no interest in HE. He also failed to provide prices for 60/90 minute versions. He didn't bother to respond to my follow-up email. I wasn't expecting that he would be licensed, but you never know unless you ask about certification. He completely ignored the question. Scheduling for the HE guys has to be a nightmare. No two guys cum at the same time.

Showing respect for someone else is difficult to do if you don't respect yourself. Sort of like love.

Sexual experimentation among human beings can get complicated. It's not for rational thinking. IME, these odd occurrences are mostly one-offs. Weird stuff can happen when the lights are low, and a naked body is lying beneath. I'll never forget my first straight guy experience. When I asked him why, he answered, "I'm curious. I have an open mind." He's straight with kids till this day. I have no proof that anyone's stories on the internet are truthful, but I do have my own peculiar experiences. I've had some surprising shit happen. I stopped trying to figure some of it out long ago.

It's not unusual to find many in NYC, but I've been lucky enough to find them across America, too. I used to travel for business, and often stayed in hotels that offered spa services. Many fun memories from my youth. I always loved the ones that were a true surprise.

I have often heard providers complain about the "grabbers." You can tell by some of the discussions on this board, many men are too hungry for anyone's good. Their appetite for sex is insatiable. They grab instead of touch sensually. It reminds me of men who scarf down their food. Get it in as fast as you can because I need to feel the pleasure as quickly as possible. It's a message of desperation. These are not fun or enjoyable customers. I don't care what they are willing to pay. If you are this type of guy, it is not easy to change. Because change requires a behavioral adjustment, and many refuse to see the forest for the trees, and face their own truth. The best and safest way to deal with a client like this is to let him go.

I've been with a few "straight" guys who were in experimentation mode. They are a difficult lot to figure out. IMO, the less you say the better. These are not normal gay thinkers with whom you can discuss and rationalize feelings. As Jamie21 said, if you break the "spell" in any way, it could all go south and end. Nothing great lasts forever anyway. I have never needed climax, so this would be a great massage for me. In fact, my body responds to massage in a manner that makes if very difficult to climax. That's why the massage always trumps anything else for me. But I still feel any sensual build up is a healthy thing for my body. If I could find something similar for that price, there is no way I'm going to tamper with it. I would enjoy it while it lasts.

Good luck with that request. There are way too many guys here who require some sort of guarantee. Many also have a laundry list of things, included in their fantasy, that, if not part of the service, will cause great anxiety. Personally, I have never learned how to control human behavior, especially the behavior of a horny gay man. Like I said, good luck with that.

The view from his apartment is a rare find, but during massage, the view matters nothing to me. He uses the word professional in his ad, but no mention of pro-training. He offers 4-hands as well. Wonder who the other guy is? He sure is good looking with a nice lean body, so I imagine he does quite well. Claims to own 2 tables. Not easy to do in a NYC apartment. The boy invested.

I imagine for muscle worshipers he's a wet dream. Lots of photos. Great smile. Can't help but wonder what his pits smell like, or better yet that butt. Looks like he's got nice hands for massage work. Anyone know if he's licensed? It sounds like the HE side is more important to him since it brings in the upsell. Bad news for us guys who care more about massage talent.

OMG. My body could never tolerate that. I absolutely hate getting the chills.

I'm sure Streisand was not under-sexed. Rumor has it she needed a large cock to get pleasure. My gut is telling me that Streisand will handle sex discussion a bit differently than Cher. Also, Streisand is not aging well, and she hasn't gone the distance on plastic surgery the way Cher has. I have no clue how their current "looks" drives youth appeal. I think both books deserve a read, but I'm almost their age. Plus, Cher offers club remixes. Streisand showed little interest in dance music.

He has a beautiful, veiny, uncut cock. His ad says he's certified. My only precaution are the comments about not going "deep." Relaxation is not enough for me. My muscles need a good, experienced manhandling.

There's only one Cher. Plus, Cher offers a lifetime of dirt. She had sex with many more Hollywood men than Streisand did, and she's fully open to spilling the beans. Streisand is far more private and reserved.

Nothing to do with patience for me. For anyone with cataract/floater/detached retina issues, this feature induces a lot of anxiety. I can't stand it, and I can't wait for it to go away. I should also add, I love snow in winter. Built many a snowman in my childhood.

Judging by his YouTube videos, this guy is seriously talented. Does anyone know where he is located or how to get in touch with him? (Edit) I found this: https://jan-kosto.square.site/ Prices are too high for me, but damn, he's got a major gift.

Streisand is the queen of bloat. Apparently someone was afraid to tell her that nobody reads anymore.

I fell asleep about a third of the way in. I have to re-watch it, but need to be caffeinated when I do. It is a visual feast, but I'm not much of a Jolie fan. I think Lady Gaga's face would have worked better. No one would have needed to teach Gaga how to sing. I wasn't quite buying the Jolie singing hype, but the lip-sync/edit seems to be very good. I do admire Jolie's bravery. The end result could have been an easy disaster, and she managed to avoid that.

Sadly, it's just a matter of time before we see a Matthew Shepard incident filmed. Only this time, there will be millions celebrating the visuals on social media. Plenty of hatred against gays, still. I have serious fears for the next four years.

$100 for 10 massages sounds like a deal to me, steroids or not.

There is no special language. Some HE guys live with risk, while others get spooked easily. It's a coin toss. The term "erotic massage" implies an illegal service. Just because sites like RM (not located in the U.S.) offer the word "erotic" does not mean every provider is going to be OK with you putting that in writing. IMO, hiring a HE guy is always a gamble, because so many of them are not professional. They are guys posing as masseurs. The absolute best way to get what you want is to show up for an appointment and see if you get lucky. There are no guarantees, no matter how you parse the words.

I don't believe Rob ever played that game. He is a sensual man, and loves the sensual massage, whether you ask for one or not. Sensual is his nature. The question is can you expect sex, and what type of sex? Sex is very different from sensual in the massage business.

Thanks for the update. He's handsome, and a trained professional. Too bad it's "text only."