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There is no excuse for that. First, none of his private photos show complete nudes. Second, if a potential customer asks, what's the harm in sending one photo? Sounds a bit jaded and ungenerous. Not sexy qualities.

I think that's an important detail that I missed.

It's a very frustrating reality. I don't do twinks, but I have had excellent massages from Asian providers. I fell in love with one guy once because his touch and HE was unlike anything I had ever experienced before. Pure sensual bliss. There are a few guys on RMasseur that are "known." It does appear that most others are using fake photos, and the ads are being written for them. During the creation of my private gallery, one guy contacted me because I had looked at his private photos. My gut was telling me his photos and words were fake, so I asked if he could prove that he was the guy in the photos. He wrote back with some mumble-jumbo that had nothing to do with my question. I never heard from him again. Writing to them and getting a reply can usually reveal a lot. Just don't expect the truth.

Except he doesn't show the whole thing. Guys who partly cover their genitals with hands or other stuff are mostly a red flag for me. If the visual of the tool is a strong reason for the hire, be forewarned.

But no one can say that about RentMasseur, so his decision to list there is interesting.

It can be a time waster, but I imagine many, many providers like and want the Ask Me option. Since the providers are paying for their ads, they need to pleased.

On RM, he has Erotic grayed out. He's also got Equinox on his resume. Very demanding customers at Equinox, and definitely no monkey business there. I'm guessing HE is not his style, and doesn't want to invite it. He's a very tall guy, so I hope he has an elevated table. His price is great, may be an incentive to get guys to travel to Washington Heights. It's quite a trek from lower parts of Manhattan.

It's not the masseur's fault if the website does not offer a "Prices start at" option on their price menu. I wish they did. It would be a great service and eliminate the need to dig further.

If you like foreskin, his is quite good looking. Very tongue inviting.

Some of them behave in the most peculiar way when dealing with others. It happens. I try to sympathize. Not every gay guy is comfortable in his own skin. Unless shared, we can never know someone's trauma. Massage, especially HE massage, is a very personal business. No other business is so intimate and revealing. Vulnerable to the extreme. Anticipation combined with being horny can turn a guy into someone he wouldn't recognize if captured on film. I will never forget my first HE massage. It was a surprise to me. I wasn't horny or looking for sex, but the masseur went for it anyway. He had a lot of fun working me over and up, but I couldn't orgasm, and he really wanted me to orgasm. He worked himself into a full blown sweaty mess, and I finally gave him what he wanted. I'm sure when all was said and done, he was happy to never see me again.

Everyone has their insecurities about something. Mine aren't with getting services I need and want. Some gay guys do not handle insecure men well. I've learned the hard way, it's far better to project confidence, especially when you're falling apart on the inside, or worried to death you might not be liked or enjoyed.

In all the years that I've been getting a massage (including the HE kind), the words "bad or awkward time" never entered my realm of thinking. I'm a customer paying for a service. The service provider is being paid to service me, not the other way around. I've never been cancelled, but I suppose if I had been, I would say no problem, unless I really loved the guy's talent. Then I would want to know why, understanding that he may choose not to tell me. Oh well, such is life.

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Sounds like a red flag to me.

If I had a ton of money, I'd be happy to get a massage every week with a new provider, and report back here of my findings. I'm a firm believer in paying it forward. Back in the day when I got massage very often, I would send out emails to my friends to always let them know when I discovered a winner. I like to share. People enjoy boards like this for different reasons. I'm not sure I see fairness in judging folks for perceived behavior or motive. It's OK by me. I'm not going to have the Premium membership for much longer, so I view this as sharing helpful information. It is interesting what some guys show and don't show in the Private Galleries, and then you always have to question whether any of those photos are real. For that reason alone, I don't think access is worth the cost. If there was some way to confirm photo ownership, then I might think differently, but that's never going to happen.

Doesn't look like he needs to shave any age. The guy looks young to me. If the erection photo is his, it's a pretty toy with the foreskin pulled back, plus, he's got some low hangers.

Can't believe he's trying to pass himself off as 52. A lot of gay seniors are still great at what they do. I just don't understand why some can't own their truthful age. As if lying makes them more appealing, especially when the lie is so obvious.

Beautiful erection. At least in the one photo he shares in private.

Loved the photos in the Rentmen ad. Great body. Super great legs. Some of the photos suggest a feminine nature. His teeth are extreme white. Would love to watch him workout. His body is sexy as all hell.

Looks to me like he could be fun and satisfying. Not sure about the underwear fashion show, but I like a jock-strapped guy who works on cars and bikes. Looks like he may have an intoxicating scent. Lots of private photos, but the mask is a bit off-putting. Clearly, he wants to remain anonymous. There are 3 photos of his uncut cock, and he belongs in one of those XL threads. Says he has a lot of experience. I hope someone who has tried him will report here.

Excuse me, but who are you with your constant nanny scolds and your silly, false-assuming questions? I am not naive, and nor am I disapproving of certain illegal behavior, especially for sex workers. I have done plenty in my long life. Please ignore my posts.

I don't mind it because it offers hope, that maybe a price is negotiable. Since I'm no longer interested in extras, I often ask if there's a rate for massage only. Many guys come back with something more affordable, but I won't spend anything if a guy does not convince me he's a professional. Also, since so many of the HE guys have a menu, what good does it do them to offer a single number? A lot of the HE guys do not like CHEAP, and they just don't want to deal with hagglers. ASK seems the only logical place to be if you want to offer varied services.

According to the photos, he's aged nicely. Can't imagine him ever working at Adonis, but I could easily see getting naked and lying on his table. Very surprised he doesn't have more buzz.

Wish there were more like you. Most of the 60-minute massages in my life cost around $80 with tip. The massage was $60, and I tipped $20. I was a very regular customer, once a week, sometimes twice. When prices rose to $150, I had to cut back. Anything over $200, I'd be lucky to get four a year. Covid killed everything for me, so now I'm starting from scratch. I can barely afford to fantasize about the $300 guys.

He's definitely not 39, but I don't remember him from Craigslist. He's got prices listed in his ad copy.