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Warning. An elbow in the wrong place can do serious damage. I know from experience. Extras can be fun, but when the sexy, naked guy knows nothing about proper massage, it's better to just accept light strokes, rather than let the guy pretend to be an educated, experienced masseur.

Sounds reasonable. Could end up with a massage orgy that includes highlights, blow dry, and an ass shave. Works for me.

Very unnatural, almost alien.

That sounds like 20 minutes too long for me. It also sounds like he didn't turn you over and work on your front. If the wolf is going to tease the back end so strongly, and not let his sweaty junk smash and glide you in the face while working on your torso, I'm afraid that would frustrate the hell out of me. I'm guessing he doesn't want his flaccid dick in a customer's mouth, and if he worked the front naked in the same manner, it would be too difficult to control. I get that.

Definitely looks good naked. Strong emphasis on the butt in the private photos, and the uncut foreskin isn't too tight around his cock head. Erection looks nice and strong. Sadly, at my age, calling me "baby" leaves my dick limp, and words like that send my imagination to fem-landia. I've never had a fem-twink massage me before. I always figured that might feel like a woman touching me, and that's not the feeling I was looking for. However, you never know until you try.

Love that. I wish they all did that with equal enthusiasm. Love a guy who enjoys being and getting naked. That does not sound encouraging.

Nice butt.

It wasn't exactly clear to me who did the J-ing, but I guess it's safe to assume the masseur was too busy with the inner thighs. I like the glute workout, and given the heat we've been enduring, who isn't sweating? I do wonder, did you catch his armpit odor? Was all the work done on a table? Thanks.

There is no excuse for that. First, none of his private photos show complete nudes. Second, if a potential customer asks, what's the harm in sending one photo? Sounds a bit jaded and ungenerous. Not sexy qualities.

I think that's an important detail that I missed.

It's a very frustrating reality. I don't do twinks, but I have had excellent massages from Asian providers. I fell in love with one guy once because his touch and HE was unlike anything I had ever experienced before. Pure sensual bliss. There are a few guys on RMasseur that are "known." It does appear that most others are using fake photos, and the ads are being written for them. During the creation of my private gallery, one guy contacted me because I had looked at his private photos. My gut was telling me his photos and words were fake, so I asked if he could prove that he was the guy in the photos. He wrote back with some mumble-jumbo that had nothing to do with my question. I never heard from him again. Writing to them and getting a reply can usually reveal a lot. Just don't expect the truth.

Except he doesn't show the whole thing. Guys who partly cover their genitals with hands or other stuff are mostly a red flag for me. If the visual of the tool is a strong reason for the hire, be forewarned.

But no one can say that about RentMasseur, so his decision to list there is interesting.

It can be a time waster, but I imagine many, many providers like and want the Ask Me option. Since the providers are paying for their ads, they need to pleased.

On RM, he has Erotic grayed out. He's also got Equinox on his resume. Very demanding customers at Equinox, and definitely no monkey business there. I'm guessing HE is not his style, and doesn't want to invite it. He's a very tall guy, so I hope he has an elevated table. His price is great, may be an incentive to get guys to travel to Washington Heights. It's quite a trek from lower parts of Manhattan.

It's not the masseur's fault if the website does not offer a "Prices start at" option on their price menu. I wish they did. It would be a great service and eliminate the need to dig further.

If you like foreskin, his is quite good looking. Very tongue inviting.

Some of them behave in the most peculiar way when dealing with others. It happens. I try to sympathize. Not every gay guy is comfortable in his own skin. Unless shared, we can never know someone's trauma. Massage, especially HE massage, is a very personal business. No other business is so intimate and revealing. Vulnerable to the extreme. Anticipation combined with being horny can turn a guy into someone he wouldn't recognize if captured on film. I will never forget my first HE massage. It was a surprise to me. I wasn't horny or looking for sex, but the masseur went for it anyway. He had a lot of fun working me over and up, but I couldn't orgasm, and he really wanted me to orgasm. He worked himself into a full blown sweaty mess, and I finally gave him what he wanted. I'm sure when all was said and done, he was happy to never see me again.

Everyone has their insecurities about something. Mine aren't with getting services I need and want. Some gay guys do not handle insecure men well. I've learned the hard way, it's far better to project confidence, especially when you're falling apart on the inside, or worried to death you might not be liked or enjoyed.

In all the years that I've been getting a massage (including the HE kind), the words "bad or awkward time" never entered my realm of thinking. I'm a customer paying for a service. The service provider is being paid to service me, not the other way around. I've never been cancelled, but I suppose if I had been, I would say no problem, unless I really loved the guy's talent. Then I would want to know why, understanding that he may choose not to tell me. Oh well, such is life.

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Sounds like a red flag to me.

If I had a ton of money, I'd be happy to get a massage every week with a new provider, and report back here of my findings. I'm a firm believer in paying it forward. Back in the day when I got massage very often, I would send out emails to my friends to always let them know when I discovered a winner. I like to share. People enjoy boards like this for different reasons. I'm not sure I see fairness in judging folks for perceived behavior or motive. It's OK by me. I'm not going to have the Premium membership for much longer, so I view this as sharing helpful information. It is interesting what some guys show and don't show in the Private Galleries, and then you always have to question whether any of those photos are real. For that reason alone, I don't think access is worth the cost. If there was some way to confirm photo ownership, then I might think differently, but that's never going to happen.

Doesn't look like he needs to shave any age. The guy looks young to me. If the erection photo is his, it's a pretty toy with the foreskin pulled back, plus, he's got some low hangers.

Can't believe he's trying to pass himself off as 52. A lot of gay seniors are still great at what they do. I just don't understand why some can't own their truthful age. As if lying makes them more appealing, especially when the lie is so obvious.