Oakman

He leaves behind a trail of gaping holes. 

Saw him this summer in SF. He was relentless and selfish, and I loved every second. He’s not as tall as his add states, but his dick is bigger than it looks in his pics - I was thrashed. We struggled understanding each other in person. His Cuban accent is thick. I’d love to see him again. 

He leaves behind a trail of gaping holes. 

https://rent.men/Carlos_Miami
Carlos_Miami was a good recent hole stretcher. The experience was shocking. It felt like taking the business end of a baseball bat. So thick and hard. (though I do enjoy screaming into a pillow). The photos don’t do it justice. 
 
Sounds like Malik would be a fun ride. Lots of great suggestions here 😛

https://rent.men/Carlos_Miami
Carlos_Miami was a good recent hole stretcher. The experience was shocking. It felt like taking the business end of a baseball bat. So thick and hard. (though I do enjoy screaming into a pillow). The photos don’t do it justice. 
 
Sounds like Malik would be a fun ride. Lots of great suggestions here 😛

https://rent.men/MikeMasters

CubanTommy (and his buddy LtnFabrizzio) are still on my check list. 

Some people need to be pushed to try things they wouldn’t on their own, even though they really want to. Allowing your partner to push your limits during sex can be a bit like allowing a trainer to push you extra hard during a workout, or allowing a therapist to prod some uncomfortable topic that really needs discussing. If you are sensible and strong enough to advocate for your own safety, and a good judge of your partner’s emotional maturity, this can be a fun area to play.
 
If you can trust a Dom to keep you from physical harm, it can be a lot of fun to experience powerlessness and being used by someone else who is in control. I find this is a great relief as a means of relinquishing daily responsibilities and leadership. 

Agreed 

Bobby Mazzara
Muscle Clips - Bobby Mazzara.mp4

Yeah, regardless of his age, the body is phenomenal.   And he really gets into the sessions.  I have seen him at least 3 times and would repeat.

Some people need to be pushed to try things they wouldn’t on their own, even though they really want to. Allowing your partner to push your limits during sex can be a bit like allowing a trainer to push you extra hard during a workout, or allowing a therapist to prod some uncomfortable topic that really needs discussing. If you are sensible and strong enough to advocate for your own safety, and a good judge of your partner’s emotional maturity, this can be a fun area to play.
 
If you can trust a Dom to keep you from physical harm, it can be a lot of fun to experience powerlessness and being used by someone else who is in control. I find this is a great relief as a means of relinquishing daily responsibilities and leadership. 

I met with him on a rare visit to SF (he’s almost always in NYC). The man is a hulk, bigger, broader and thicker than I imagined. His “280 lbs” feels totally legit to me. The “macho” aspect feels very natural and not forced. He’s very powerful, he’s not talkative, and he’s very assertive. He’s working with some massive equipment too. Highly recommend for those who like having a big man in charge. 

You get the most out of therapy if you can be completely vulnerable and transparent. It may take a while to establish that kind of trust with a therapist, but there is so much value in talking about the things that you are most afraid to talk about (hiring, for instance). A good therapist has no judgement about your sex life, and lots of curiosity about it. 
 
If that kind of discussion feels too hard to broach with your therapist right now, you might start with “there are aspects of my sex life that I feel reluctant to bring up with you. Can we discuss that?” 
 

I met with him on a rare visit to SF (he’s almost always in NYC). The man is a hulk, bigger, broader and thicker than I imagined. His “280 lbs” feels totally legit to me. The “macho” aspect feels very natural and not forced. He’s very powerful, he’s not talkative, and he’s very assertive. He’s working with some massive equipment too. Highly recommend for those who like having a big man in charge. 

I met Cuca and had him over to my home. He was a very nice and pleasant gentleman. He was very warm and cordial and we had great conversation during our time together. He was incredibly professional, had a great sense of humor, and looked just like his pics. The only surprise, was that his dick was alarmingly bigger than in his pics. There were no problems or issues during his visit. Wonderful kisser and a great cuddler. Needless to say, my jewelry, diamond rings, and gold krugerrands sitting out on my kitchen counter and nightstand we’re all still there after he left. . I do hope to see him again next time he’s in town.

How much initial texting conversation between a client and provider is appropriate to seal the deal? It can be quick and easy to communicate time and rate, but really understanding the service the client desires or the service the provider is interested in providing may involve an actual conversation (so many minutes!).
 
As a client, I always reach out with a stack of photos, self-description, and the scenario I’m interested in, as well as my preferred time-frame. The provider’s initial response had better be engaging and show an understanding of and genuine interest in the scenario. I’ve had great, brief, sexy conversations with some first rate providers. If the provider can’t show (or won’t fake) a little sexy interest in the meet-up, I know it’s not for me.
In my line of work, the cost of “business development” is recovered by having a consistent, satisfied, repeated customer base.