Oakman

“Clearly?” Sorry guy - older bigger guy here, former Marine Infantryman, masculine blue collar dad type. He was into me - very much. It’s like you played with a rabid dog and wrote a good review because it didn’t happen to bite you. 

I have so much fun being an eager to please beta for big alpha men, who I don’t ordinarily score out in the wild. I get lost in inflating his ego and getting him to perform like he’s the sexiest man in the world. I’m too competitive in real life to suffer that kind of imbalance, but for an hour or two, I’ll be a bitch who should just feel lucky to be in the room with some stud. 

Imagine walking into bar and ten men simultaneously start talking to you. You sit at the counter and get inundated by ballsy ‘4’s showing you their assholes. Some guys start making demands. Others just keep nudging you over and over and over.
 
Would you stay at the bar and just focus on meeting guys who interest you? would you avoid the bar entirely rather than risking offense to the crowd? Or would you make it your purpose every time you go out to let each uninteresting guy who walks up to you every three minutes know that you aren’t interested, but still think they’re special? Wouldn’t that be so fun? Maybe have a really inauthentic let-down speech prepared? 
 
Yes, kindness should rule. But one must never allow oneself to be manipulated by emotionally needy people who demand attention and do nothing to earn it. Nor should we make our sexy time all about feeling obligated to people who don’t turn us on. 

$4,200 last year. Roughly once a month. It’s good to know what you actually spent so you can plan ahead and be sure that you can still have this hobby and also meet your other financial obligations in the year ahead. If you aren’t harming yourself or others, I suggest dropping the notion of being a “desperate perv.” You’re just a man getting what he needs to be happy. Hope you made some good memories in ‘24. 

KhalRico
I recently spent two glorious hours with this beautiful provider. He was all top and was very comfortable being the man in control. He made me feel amazing. 
 
Scheduling was easy. He was happy to chat about interests to determine compatibility. And he was patient as we worked out a date. I paid for his rides (I hosted). His hourly rate was $375. 
 
He’s charming, intelligent, and emotionally accessible. I highly recommend him. He’s in San Francisco part time. 

I am going to guess you are 60+ years old? This business doesn’t work with telephone calls. That is a reality you’ll need to adjust yourself to.
 
Don’t call unless you’ve been invited to do so. Put yourself in the provider’s position. He’s not sitting at a desk waiting for phone calls. He may be at his day job, running errands or doing any number of things. Managing dozens of inquiry calls, many of which may not be serious inquiries, is an imposition. Making an initial inquiry and negotiating the meet-up by text message (on the app he requests) is going to be convenient for him.

This entire thread: “Why doesn’t my Victrola gramophone play podcasts when I wind it up?” 

So much writing about this guy, and zero clear indication about whether anyone gets fucked. Sometimes this site has the propriety of a Victorian drawing room. 

Agree 100%. So many of you really need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Literally. 
 
There is absolutely no “professional standard of care” for what is quite literally an illicit trade. Anyone can participate, either as a provider or a client, and set their own rules. If you do not like their seemingly arbitrary rules, they aren’t the match for you. 
And yes, some providers can (and do) focus on “elite” (define that how you want) clientele, choosing whom they work with based on criteria that may exclude you. You have absolutely no say in how some guy you don’t know chooses to conduct his own illicit business, and he isn’t obligated to conduct that business like some other provider (who happens to be more kind).
What on earth do some you accomplish with your interminable whining? 

Agree 100%. So many of you really need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Literally. 
 
There is absolutely no “professional standard of care” for what is quite literally an illicit trade. Anyone can participate, either as a provider or a client, and set their own rules. If you do not like their seemingly arbitrary rules, they aren’t the match for you. 
And yes, some providers can (and do) focus on “elite” (define that how you want) clientele, choosing whom they work with based on criteria that may exclude you. You have absolutely no say in how some guy you don’t know chooses to conduct his own illicit business, and he isn’t obligated to conduct that business like some other provider (who happens to be more kind).
What on earth do some you accomplish with your interminable whining? 

Agree 100%. So many of you really need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Literally. 
 
There is absolutely no “professional standard of care” for what is quite literally an illicit trade. Anyone can participate, either as a provider or a client, and set their own rules. If you do not like their seemingly arbitrary rules, they aren’t the match for you. 
And yes, some providers can (and do) focus on “elite” (define that how you want) clientele, choosing whom they work with based on criteria that may exclude you. You have absolutely no say in how some guy you don’t know chooses to conduct his own illicit business, and he isn’t obligated to conduct that business like some other provider (who happens to be more kind).
What on earth do some you accomplish with your interminable whining? 

Exactly.
Its perfectly REASONABLE that a provider should be forewarned that he is being tasked with fucking a hideous cadaver.
The entitlement of some people here is astounding when they say that to be a good escort, you must fuck anythjng that moves and it's NONE of their business to know that I'm 100 pounds overweight and only bathe on Thursdays. 
Obviously we ALL dislike rejection and HIRING is supposed to be the escape from that. However, there ARE limits to what anyone can accept as do-able. A provider has every right to know who/what he's meeting at the door. Doesn't mean he's treating you like a Grindr hook up and ghosting you because you're not a ripped Brazilian model. 

I had an interesting experience with Mr. Narssi.   I met him at his hotel, and I immediately had a bad feeling. We started talking, and I knew the chemistry was not good. We chatted for 15 minutes, hoping my immediate impression would change. It didn't, and I kindly told him I would leave because the chemistry wasn't there for me. Surprised, he started to get nasty at what he viewed as a rejection. He said no one has ever turned him down. Before he could get any meaner, I just said it would be best to keep his remarks and voice civilly. I compensated him for the 1st hour but insisted I pay for the three we had discussed. I told him no, and I left.    
He does look just like his pics dressed; it never got to the point of seeing everything, which was fine with me.

$500 for an hour, $800 to include his very hot friend Nick_William. Quick and polite response to my inquiry, but more than I’m willing to pay. I’ll just have to daydream about being sandwiched between those two 😝

Many years ago I arranged to meet him at the Folsom Street Fair. I was underwhelmed by his personality (or lack thereof) and face (unfortunately for guys who refuse to provide face pics, this kind of rejection is a risk). I walked away. 

I hire when I want fantasy experiences that I find difficult to get in hookups or dates. I’m a mid-40’s muscular daddy type (imagine stereotypical cop/firefighter vibe). I find it difficult to attract big, dominant, top men. In dating/hookup scenarios I mostly attract submissive guys and seem to scare off top men. So I hire. Daddy likes to be the little spoon sometimes. 

Jesus dude, I’ve never been more turned on on this site. DM me 😘

I hire when I want fantasy experiences that I find difficult to get in hookups or dates. I’m a mid-40’s muscular daddy type (imagine stereotypical cop/firefighter vibe). I find it difficult to attract big, dominant, top men. In dating/hookup scenarios I mostly attract submissive guys and seem to scare off top men. So I hire. Daddy likes to be the little spoon sometimes. 

Welcome! I would not take the risk of losing my status as an international student or future employment for pocket money and fun. My advice is to focus on your education and choose work that you don't have to hide.

For the most part I am pleased with photo representation. Things I have learned to watch out for/avoid:
1. Photos taken in weird angles, showing partial body parts. This is a trick used to cut out flaws. If you can’t mentally assemble the whole body in your mind, it’s because the provider doesn’t want you to. 
2. Bad lighting is also a trick. Don’t fall for this. 
3. Look for clues about the photo’s date (fashion, background, upload date). Using a five-year old photo usually means the guy isn’t proud of his current look. 
4. Extreme musculature is hard to maintain. Expect the provider to have just a little bit more “flab” than that ripped beach photo. No one walks around with their abs flexed 100% of the time. 
5. A provider’s marketing material (photos) are often indicative of his integrity. If your initial thought upon meeting is “you don’t look at all like I thought you would,” YOU SHOULD SAY SO AND FAST-WALK AWAY WITHOUT REGRET. You were lied to. 

I hire when I want fantasy experiences that I find difficult to get in hookups or dates. I’m a mid-40’s muscular daddy type (imagine stereotypical cop/firefighter vibe). I find it difficult to attract big, dominant, top men. In dating/hookup scenarios I mostly attract submissive guys and seem to scare off top men. So I hire. Daddy likes to be the little spoon sometimes. 

I hire when I want fantasy experiences that I find difficult to get in hookups or dates. I’m a mid-40’s muscular daddy type (imagine stereotypical cop/firefighter vibe). I find it difficult to attract big, dominant, top men. In dating/hookup scenarios I mostly attract submissive guys and seem to scare off top men. So I hire. Daddy likes to be the little spoon sometimes. 

On the contrary - ads don't list tongue length, so I find that a wonderful evaluation opportunity.

If you are fucking a bottom, you are equals, and are working together toward mutual sexual satisfaction. You’ll probably both cum. His needs matter as much as yours.
 
If you are fucking a sub, he is there to make the experience only about your satisfaction. His enjoyment comes from being of use to you. He needs to feel you in control. 

Jesus dude, I’ve never been more turned on on this site. DM me 😘