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That's so annoying, frustrating, unprofessional and unfortunate. I'd personally want to stop what I was doing, get dressed, let him know that I was leaving because he was showing little to no interest and that I was only going to pay him $X for his time. But then you risk a possible confrontation which no one wants. It's a tough situation to be in. Sucks having to pay full price when I'm sure you weren't even into it at that point. You probably just wanted to get off and go and have it all over with.
I probably would have done exactly what you did.
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On 4/18/2023 at 2:28 PM, Njguy2 said:
Have experienced the massage with one hand and checking the phone with the other but not recently.
Actually taking a call during a session was the one that was the worst. A guy who I had several sessions with before (Battery Park City NYC) back in the mid 2000's. He was talented and was trained gave a good massage and stretching session and typically provided a nice ending. On the last visit - the session started as normal, about 10 to 15 minutes into the session his phone started ringing he ignored it and it would ring again (repeat), he apologized and took the call. Conversation ensued and then some strong language back and forth on the phone and said he had to go give something to a friend in the lobby (from what I overhead sounded sketchy) about 10 minutes wasted here taking the call and his redressing. He left and about what seemed 20 minutes or so he returns. During the interim I was ready to just get dressed and leave. He came back and then continued with the session. Session finished and paid, even left a tip (albeit half of what I'd normally leave). Departed and in the cab ride back to my apt my phone starts ringing and he's calling me to say I didn't tip him enough, and that I need to come back and give him more money. Things went back and forth about the payment and I told him he wasn't going to get any more money and I just ended the call. He started calling again, went to voice mail etc, then the text messages continued his tirade, so to end this circus I just blocked him. I think he left the massage business not too long thereafter.
Totally unprofessional and annoying. How can anyone expect a tip after an incident like that? And then to go so far as to contact you, hound you, for a tip.
Others may feel differently but I rarely tip. If the provider wants to make $250 - $300 an hour then charge $250 - $300 an hour. Don't charge $200 and then expect a $50 or $100 tip. If the service is truly exceptional, then I will give a tip showing my gratitude and appreciation for the great service. Otherwise I pay the agreed upon rate.
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6 minutes ago, Harryinny said:
A real old-timer, lived in NYC before.
Ok so he is a "real old-timer" but have you ever had a recent session with him?
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Has anyone had a session with this guy? According to his About Me a session with him is a mind blowing experience and focuses almost exclusively on the prostrate. However there is a brief mention regarding an overall massage.
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Bumpity Bump!
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On 2/9/2024 at 6:28 PM, Dr.Daddy said:
Unfortunately it was just ok. He was so sweet, very nice, and ultra sexy. However, I was expecting a good massage and he didn’t deliver - he shorted me on time, as I was out of there within 40 mins. He tried to upsell me, asking to top me when I’m not a btm and it kinda messed up the vibe. If you just want a really good HE see him or if you’re a btm and willing to pay extra then he’s your guy.
Also, the face cradle on a shitty bed in a motel just didn’t feel right lol
Do you remember what you paid and how much for the upsell?
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On 3/18/2024 at 5:28 AM, ShortCutie7 said:
Exactly, as hot as many of these guys are, 48 hours with the same unfamiliar guy might not be the best use of your time/money. If I were in your position, I would probably hire three guys- one for day 1 (2 hours), one overnight (I assume that would be 12 hours… and the guy you would choose if you were to choose just one, and one for day 2 (2 hours).
Interesting yet solid approach to a 1st world problem.
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Any recent experiences? Within the past year?
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Anyone spent time with BigBrownX recently? I'm definitely interested in meeting up with him.
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22 hours ago, FredyRay said:
I’ve met with Ericso recently but in LA area. Overall great experience. Photos are accurate but not as that level ripped as posted in RM. Massage was great, pretty decent and also interactive. Also gives oral for HE which is what i didn’t expected. 60min for 200$, 90min for 280$. Full service is available but didn’t asked for it
Maybe you were not what he expected either and he didn't want to miss an opportunity. 😉. How was it? And how is he looking below the belt?
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4 hours ago, jmichaeliii said:
I'm newer to this, but I never tell a provider my physical attributes or age. I'm honest in my profile, but I have never seen a provider check my profile. Is it common to provide this in an intro?
I may not do that in the initial text but I definitely provide my stats and send a photo. As I say to them "I know a lot about you so it's only fair for you to know some about me." I think it's only fair, that way it eliminates an element of Surprise! Surprise!
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On 3/6/2024 at 8:51 AM, Monarchy79 said:
1.) Jack off
2.) Blast off
3.) Take a cold shower
You’ll be over it in less than 10 minutes.
So true. I've saved myself thousands of dollars going the #1 and #2 route. 😋
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The topic is "Thoughts on Deposits" which can be translated to "Opinions on Deposits". Can we just let folks state their preference and move on? Why does everything need to turn into a toxic back and forth. I've never been asked for a deposit nor do I think I would pay a deposit unless I was really certain that the meeting was going to take place. Just my answer/opinion to the question and I'm not going to argue with anyone if you feel that I am wrong.
Now have a blessed day 💗
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Okay let's get back to the basic question of follow or ignore.
I tend to follow the autoresponder instructions if I am really interested in the provider, understanding that he may not be checking the site regularly. I would even say that I like autoresponder because I get an instant response which provides helpful information in most cases. I also realize that providers aren't sitting in front of their laptop or staring at their phone waiting to reply instantly to messages on the app. At least when I text someone directly I know there is a better likelihood of him seeing the message sooner than a message left on the app.
Plus I'm a sub so I always follow orders/instructions.😈
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2 hours ago, Bruinguy said:
I met up with Ky (He also goes by Ayrton) for an erotic massage last night in San Francisco by Union Square and holy shit, lol. This guy is legit. Pics are definitely real. He apologized for "being fat" because he ate a lot on a recent trip and yet his body was still unreal. Touching his smooth skin over those tight muscles was... yeah it was like feeling silk over granite haha. He also has a killer smile that will disarm you.
I asked him about compensation for his time and he indicated he preferred to be paid up front and asked if I was ok with that. His reasoning is sound, he doesn't want the end of your time together to be about a transaction, he wants to end in pure bliss, which sounded hot to me. He also said if I see him again I can just Zelle him after if I was more comfortable with that, so it sounds like he's more flexible here than other posters have indicated as long as you prove you're a trustworthy client.
He definitely escorts as well and you need to be clear about what you're looking for and what you're not so that he can quote an appropriate rate for his time. I didn't sample from the entire menu but it sounds... extensive. For an erotic massage he asks $300 for 1 hour. I didn't ask about the other options. I will tell you he was absolutely worth it.
Personality wise he's actually very kind and easy going. His verbal English is better than his written and he's a great conversationalist. I could see going out to dinner and drinks would be a fun date night experience. He says he can cook as well, so that might be fun. He's back in school right now and just doing this on the side to make money for tuition. He also has some personal training experience so if you want some tips you can ask him. He even offered to meet me at the gym while he's here to work out together.
His massage was fantastic. In particular he can apply real deep pressure if you need it but be soft and gentle elsewhere. Yes, I'm a fan of erotic massages but I also want to get a real massage in the process and he can absolutely do both.
As I said earlier, if you're looking for more than your standard ending, you need to clarify that beforehand. While he won't "upsell" you on extras, you WILL be tempted to ask for more. It's hard to say goodbye to that smile and body.
I plan on seeing him again before he leaves SF on Monday morning. He said he still has some gaps in his schedule this weekend when he's not in the Castro or playing tourist, so if you're looking for a new a fun experience, you should text him.
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Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in San Francisco, CA - KY_FIT: KY_FITGreat feedback. He's always been on my list but have never connected. I'll have to sync up with him on his next visit. Fortunately he come to SF fairly often.
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2 hours ago, sfcal said:
i met him, he has a massage table and fairly good pressure, but let's just say a 90 minute sessions turned into about 10 minutes of massage and then moved straight to deli session and was showered and out in about 30 minutes... he also asked to film, which i declined. i believe he produces porn based on some searching i had done prior.
so not recommended for a real massage, but maybe if you're looking for a fast hookup. his english is limited. he also asked for a tip when the session length was about 1/3 of the time. i paid him the full amount he said for 90min.
So a 90 minute session only lasted 30 minutes?
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As a client I definitely do not want to give a deposit primarily based on the possible scam aspect therefore being out potentially 100 to $200. However, I can see why a provider would want some sort of deposit because a no-show definitely impacts your business and income stream. I would recommend not requiring a deposit and set expectations accordingly as well as create a little nest egg for when those clients suddenly become ghosts.
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On 3/1/2024 at 1:47 PM, StLouisOct said:
Almost too good to be true. 😲
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ApoloBig is a big guy, 6'1", and is in San Jose at the moment. He has no reviews so I was wondering if anyone has experience with him.
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Now in San Jose. Anyone have experience with him?
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Now in SF. Anyone have experience with them?
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I ended up contacting him requesting a full service erotic massage. He said it was $300 and included sucking and f*cking so he's consistent. I ended up not being able to go through with it due to scheduling conflicts on both ends. Hopefully next time.