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Someone just "like" one of my post here...so it brought me back to it. I thought that I would share an update here...and note my latest encounter at giving free massage. I posted this on another board...and am repeating here.
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New massage "clients" have been slower to come by these days. I have exhausted most of the pool of guys in my vicinity of my posting on the apps (Grindr, Jackd, and Scruff). My posts on DoubleList result is the same trolls responding within minutes of my posting. I had some success sneaking in ads on Craigslist in the Community/General section but now those ads get deleted as son as they are posted. I recently tried a paid ad on Craigslist unders Services/Health&Wellness. That has been pretty much a bust because people are weary of me giving a Free massage under a paid ad. However, I did have one experience this week that was worth noting.

The Bodybuilder: A guy reached out to me from my DoubleList ad to set up a session. He said that he was 45yo, straight, MWM. He used to be a professional body builder, but says he now just has a dad bod. He was visiting my area for the day and would like to schedule a session if he could. He included a picture of him from his BB days. I looked through my old emails. I always do this to see if I have had a positive or negative communication history with people that respond. I found a similar email from him last year...almost to the day. We had tried to coordinate a time last year, but it didn't work out. Luckily we were able to connect this time. We set up for mid-day so that I could conduct the session over my lunch break.

When he arrived, he looked shorter than his pics...bu he was hot! If he considers his current state a dad bod...I would bet that every dad would be inline to get one of those. Although he was not still jacked from his pro BB days, he was still very well built...just a little softer. He commented that he was glad that I was a big guy. That means that i could give him the pressure that he needed. We did some more small talk. He quickly got nude and covered his dick with his hands as he walked to the massage table. I asked my general questions about areas to avoid and he said that all places were good.

I was very cautious as I worked on this muscle guy. He was straight, he was married, and he was big enough to break me in two! He began to give me verbal feedback immediately with some slight moans. This helped me relax as well...knowing that he was enjoying himself. I asked if he minded if I took my shirt off. I said that it was a bit warm and I hoped that he didn't mind my hairy belly. He said, no problem. It's your home. Get comfortable. I laughed and replied that I am always nude at home to be comfortable. No comment from him. He didn't take the bait. I slipped off my shirt and continued with the massage. As I worked on him, I gave him plenty of body contact. Certainly he felt my dick poking him here and there...and even landing in the palm of his hand. No response either way. He didn't pull away...but he didn't grab me either. No signals...so i kept things tame.

Now it was time to work on his legs. I started at his feet and worked my way up. As I reached the nice crevices where the legs meet the groin...I got another one of those moans. He said that no one ever touches you there. I asked if it was too much. He replied that it was great and to keep going. He spread his legs further apart. Nice! His ass was spectacular. I wanted to play with it and get a taste...but I held back. I did make sure that I hands went in his crack and grazed his hole. Still no positive signs...so I moved on. I worked his other leg. Same progression, his legs went even wider...but I was still guns shy to pull the trigger. I moved on and finished with he backside. Now it was time for the flip.

His front side was nice as well. He was no longer hiding his dick. It was average in length...but had a good thickness to it. I worked on his chest, shoulders, and stretched his arms. I then started working on his legs. I like to do some stretches when clients are in this position. It allows me to get in real close...while at the same time opening them up and making them a bit vulnerable. He went with the flow...and I noticed his blood started to flow as well. I grazed his dick a couple of times...and got another nice moan out of him. I teased him a little more until he was rock hard and pulsing...and then I backed off. Time to work the other leg. Same stretches except this time, I grazed his hole. I got a moan from that touch as well. I thought...well...It's now or never. I played with his hole a little and started pressing on it. No resistance...so I pushed a finger in. I much bigger moan this time. I explored with my finger and started to slide in and out. With my other hand, I started to stroke his dick. He really started getting into it, and I could see his excitement rising. I watched his balls as they got tighter and tighter and almost disappear into his body. I knew that he was on the verge of cumming. I worked harder and harder...but he didn't climax. I removed my finger from his hole and continued to work on his dick. He spun around sideways on the table and straddled his raised legs on either side of me and said "Fuck me Daddy". I thought...What the Fuck? Did I just hear that? I still had my shorts on, but my dick was right there at his hole. I started to dry hump him. He said...yeah...that's it, Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me Daddy. I continued my thrusting motions as my untied shorts started sliding down off my body. "Yeah...I can feel you. Please Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me. My hole is throbbing for you." Two seconds later he came...everywhere. It covered his stomach, his chest, and some hit his face.

He then sort of snapped back to reality. He asked if he could shower and I threw him a towel. He showered quickly, gave me a big hug, thanked me, and exited. I will certainly be looking for him again the same time next year!
 

I saw him this past week for a 120min session. He is Outcall Only. He is in the MD burbs just outside the beltway. Rates are reasonable and he will metro or uber to you.
60 min 145 $
90 min 175 $
120 min 200$
Sweet and lovable guy. Handsome, great body, and a great massage.  I am a bigger guy and he was able to give me the pressure that I need.  I don't know if he travels with a table because I told him that we could use my table.
We had great conversation too. He struggles a bit with English verbally...but he is smart enough to get his point across. He followed up with me the next day to see how I was doing...and we had an extended conversation. I can't remember the last time a masseur did that.
Yes...maybe more than therapeutic, but YMMV. I will definitely see him again.
 

I saw him this past week for a 120min session. He is Outcall Only. He is in the MD burbs just outside the beltway. Rates are reasonable and he will metro or uber to you.
60 min 145 $
90 min 175 $
120 min 200$
Sweet and lovable guy. Handsome, great body, and a great massage.  I am a bigger guy and he was able to give me the pressure that I need.  I don't know if he travels with a table because I told him that we could use my table.
We had great conversation too. He struggles a bit with English verbally...but he is smart enough to get his point across. He followed up with me the next day to see how I was doing...and we had an extended conversation. I can't remember the last time a masseur did that.
Yes...maybe more than therapeutic, but YMMV. I will definitely see him again.
 

You are correct.  After a session with him, I told him that his session is NOT sensual...and that he would have dissatisfied customers. He still insisted that it was. I told him to get on the table, and I would show him what a sensual massage was. I proceeded to give him a few mins of sensual massage with increase body contact and hands brushing in/around the naughty bits (this was back when he would do the sessions nude). He said that he would not do that kind of massage as they had frowned upon it in school (I guess in school they said it was OK for him to be naked. LOL).
With all of that said, he gives a great massage, at a great rate. Even without the extras, I still book him.

I don't think that he is barking up the wrong tree. There are several guys on Thumbtack in the DMV that I have seen advertise on other M4M Massage venues and I have had sessions with them.
Masseur Shar/Bethesda, MD (Fully Vaccinated)   Best Massage Baltimore   Bodywork Therapy by Roger Engle Cheung  

I see that he is in SF soon.  Please avoid at all costs.  Old pics and was trying to use his phone while massaging me, thinking I wouldn’t notice.  

There is no real way to tell. You can read their ad, you can read their reviews, you can ask folks here, and you can ask the provider. NONE of those will guarantee how your session will go.
High price does not mean that sex is included Nude pics doesn't mean that you will get to experience that big dick or that juicy ass. Someone's experience/review here or elsewhere is no guarantee that you will have the same session and experience. As commonly said here: Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV). You can ask the provider. However, some may not discuss extras via phone/text. I have had sessions where I was promised things ahead of time and they were NOT delivered. I have had sessions where the Masseur stated that there were no extras...and it was a fuckfest. It's unfortunate, but you have to use ALL of these tactics in combination with your own instincts. It can be trial and error...but you will start learning to read the signs and read between the lines.
I would say that this FORUM is your greatest tool in helping you navigate the waters. One of the best benefits is that this FORUM tells you who to AVOID. The search function can be your best friend.
 

Usually if they use a table is a good indicator that they’ve some idea. 

There are apps (Fake GPS, GPS Emulator, ...) that allow people to spoof the GPS on their phone to make it appear that they are anywhere. He could have been half way around the world.

I agree. For all of the details that he gives on the massage types, he does not give an idea of location. He also does not list a phone number. 50% discount on massage for paying a $5 registration fee. Also, the appt booker does not check day/time availability. It would allow me to select dates in the past. It would also allow me to select any time I wanted to book (2:31am?).
Um yeah. Stay away from this one.

I agree. For all of the details that he gives on the massage types, he does not give an idea of location. He also does not list a phone number. 50% discount on massage for paying a $5 registration fee. Also, the appt booker does not check day/time availability. It would allow me to select dates in the past. It would also allow me to select any time I wanted to book (2:31am?).
Um yeah. Stay away from this one.

I saw him this week while he was visiting DC. He travels with a table, and looks like his pics. Very nice and personable. Eastern European, but not one of the scammers.
MN, MT & HE. Not Full Service (FS).
I would definitely repeat.

full service?
 

I saw him this week while he was visiting DC. He travels with a table, and looks like his pics. Very nice and personable. Eastern European, but not one of the scammers.
MN, MT & HE. Not Full Service (FS).
I would definitely repeat.

Really frustrated of guys advertising in rentmasseur when they really should be advertising in rentmen.
Why do they do it? Obviously if I'm looking for an escort I would go to rentmen.
If I'm looking for a masseur with some sensual / erotic aspect rentmasseur is the place to look.

I agree. I keep getting the escort vibe more and more with their ads. And it shows in their rates . I notice more ads in the  $180 - $300  range popping up which is ridiculous for a massage. 

Someone just "like" one of my post here...so it brought me back to it. I thought that I would share an update here...and note my latest encounter at giving free massage. I posted this on another board...and am repeating here.
==
New massage "clients" have been slower to come by these days. I have exhausted most of the pool of guys in my vicinity of my posting on the apps (Grindr, Jackd, and Scruff). My posts on DoubleList result is the same trolls responding within minutes of my posting. I had some success sneaking in ads on Craigslist in the Community/General section but now those ads get deleted as son as they are posted. I recently tried a paid ad on Craigslist unders Services/Health&Wellness. That has been pretty much a bust because people are weary of me giving a Free massage under a paid ad. However, I did have one experience this week that was worth noting.

The Bodybuilder: A guy reached out to me from my DoubleList ad to set up a session. He said that he was 45yo, straight, MWM. He used to be a professional body builder, but says he now just has a dad bod. He was visiting my area for the day and would like to schedule a session if he could. He included a picture of him from his BB days. I looked through my old emails. I always do this to see if I have had a positive or negative communication history with people that respond. I found a similar email from him last year...almost to the day. We had tried to coordinate a time last year, but it didn't work out. Luckily we were able to connect this time. We set up for mid-day so that I could conduct the session over my lunch break.

When he arrived, he looked shorter than his pics...bu he was hot! If he considers his current state a dad bod...I would bet that every dad would be inline to get one of those. Although he was not still jacked from his pro BB days, he was still very well built...just a little softer. He commented that he was glad that I was a big guy. That means that i could give him the pressure that he needed. We did some more small talk. He quickly got nude and covered his dick with his hands as he walked to the massage table. I asked my general questions about areas to avoid and he said that all places were good.

I was very cautious as I worked on this muscle guy. He was straight, he was married, and he was big enough to break me in two! He began to give me verbal feedback immediately with some slight moans. This helped me relax as well...knowing that he was enjoying himself. I asked if he minded if I took my shirt off. I said that it was a bit warm and I hoped that he didn't mind my hairy belly. He said, no problem. It's your home. Get comfortable. I laughed and replied that I am always nude at home to be comfortable. No comment from him. He didn't take the bait. I slipped off my shirt and continued with the massage. As I worked on him, I gave him plenty of body contact. Certainly he felt my dick poking him here and there...and even landing in the palm of his hand. No response either way. He didn't pull away...but he didn't grab me either. No signals...so i kept things tame.

Now it was time to work on his legs. I started at his feet and worked my way up. As I reached the nice crevices where the legs meet the groin...I got another one of those moans. He said that no one ever touches you there. I asked if it was too much. He replied that it was great and to keep going. He spread his legs further apart. Nice! His ass was spectacular. I wanted to play with it and get a taste...but I held back. I did make sure that I hands went in his crack and grazed his hole. Still no positive signs...so I moved on. I worked his other leg. Same progression, his legs went even wider...but I was still guns shy to pull the trigger. I moved on and finished with he backside. Now it was time for the flip.

His front side was nice as well. He was no longer hiding his dick. It was average in length...but had a good thickness to it. I worked on his chest, shoulders, and stretched his arms. I then started working on his legs. I like to do some stretches when clients are in this position. It allows me to get in real close...while at the same time opening them up and making them a bit vulnerable. He went with the flow...and I noticed his blood started to flow as well. I grazed his dick a couple of times...and got another nice moan out of him. I teased him a little more until he was rock hard and pulsing...and then I backed off. Time to work the other leg. Same stretches except this time, I grazed his hole. I got a moan from that touch as well. I thought...well...It's now or never. I played with his hole a little and started pressing on it. No resistance...so I pushed a finger in. I much bigger moan this time. I explored with my finger and started to slide in and out. With my other hand, I started to stroke his dick. He really started getting into it, and I could see his excitement rising. I watched his balls as they got tighter and tighter and almost disappear into his body. I knew that he was on the verge of cumming. I worked harder and harder...but he didn't climax. I removed my finger from his hole and continued to work on his dick. He spun around sideways on the table and straddled his raised legs on either side of me and said "Fuck me Daddy". I thought...What the Fuck? Did I just hear that? I still had my shorts on, but my dick was right there at his hole. I started to dry hump him. He said...yeah...that's it, Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me Daddy. I continued my thrusting motions as my untied shorts started sliding down off my body. "Yeah...I can feel you. Please Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me. My hole is throbbing for you." Two seconds later he came...everywhere. It covered his stomach, his chest, and some hit his face.

He then sort of snapped back to reality. He asked if he could shower and I threw him a towel. He showered quickly, gave me a big hug, thanked me, and exited. I will certainly be looking for him again the same time next year!
 

Someone just "like" one of my post here...so it brought me back to it. I thought that I would share an update here...and note my latest encounter at giving free massage. I posted this on another board...and am repeating here.
==
New massage "clients" have been slower to come by these days. I have exhausted most of the pool of guys in my vicinity of my posting on the apps (Grindr, Jackd, and Scruff). My posts on DoubleList result is the same trolls responding within minutes of my posting. I had some success sneaking in ads on Craigslist in the Community/General section but now those ads get deleted as son as they are posted. I recently tried a paid ad on Craigslist unders Services/Health&Wellness. That has been pretty much a bust because people are weary of me giving a Free massage under a paid ad. However, I did have one experience this week that was worth noting.

The Bodybuilder: A guy reached out to me from my DoubleList ad to set up a session. He said that he was 45yo, straight, MWM. He used to be a professional body builder, but says he now just has a dad bod. He was visiting my area for the day and would like to schedule a session if he could. He included a picture of him from his BB days. I looked through my old emails. I always do this to see if I have had a positive or negative communication history with people that respond. I found a similar email from him last year...almost to the day. We had tried to coordinate a time last year, but it didn't work out. Luckily we were able to connect this time. We set up for mid-day so that I could conduct the session over my lunch break.

When he arrived, he looked shorter than his pics...bu he was hot! If he considers his current state a dad bod...I would bet that every dad would be inline to get one of those. Although he was not still jacked from his pro BB days, he was still very well built...just a little softer. He commented that he was glad that I was a big guy. That means that i could give him the pressure that he needed. We did some more small talk. He quickly got nude and covered his dick with his hands as he walked to the massage table. I asked my general questions about areas to avoid and he said that all places were good.

I was very cautious as I worked on this muscle guy. He was straight, he was married, and he was big enough to break me in two! He began to give me verbal feedback immediately with some slight moans. This helped me relax as well...knowing that he was enjoying himself. I asked if he minded if I took my shirt off. I said that it was a bit warm and I hoped that he didn't mind my hairy belly. He said, no problem. It's your home. Get comfortable. I laughed and replied that I am always nude at home to be comfortable. No comment from him. He didn't take the bait. I slipped off my shirt and continued with the massage. As I worked on him, I gave him plenty of body contact. Certainly he felt my dick poking him here and there...and even landing in the palm of his hand. No response either way. He didn't pull away...but he didn't grab me either. No signals...so i kept things tame.

Now it was time to work on his legs. I started at his feet and worked my way up. As I reached the nice crevices where the legs meet the groin...I got another one of those moans. He said that no one ever touches you there. I asked if it was too much. He replied that it was great and to keep going. He spread his legs further apart. Nice! His ass was spectacular. I wanted to play with it and get a taste...but I held back. I did make sure that I hands went in his crack and grazed his hole. Still no positive signs...so I moved on. I worked his other leg. Same progression, his legs went even wider...but I was still guns shy to pull the trigger. I moved on and finished with he backside. Now it was time for the flip.

His front side was nice as well. He was no longer hiding his dick. It was average in length...but had a good thickness to it. I worked on his chest, shoulders, and stretched his arms. I then started working on his legs. I like to do some stretches when clients are in this position. It allows me to get in real close...while at the same time opening them up and making them a bit vulnerable. He went with the flow...and I noticed his blood started to flow as well. I grazed his dick a couple of times...and got another nice moan out of him. I teased him a little more until he was rock hard and pulsing...and then I backed off. Time to work the other leg. Same stretches except this time, I grazed his hole. I got a moan from that touch as well. I thought...well...It's now or never. I played with his hole a little and started pressing on it. No resistance...so I pushed a finger in. I much bigger moan this time. I explored with my finger and started to slide in and out. With my other hand, I started to stroke his dick. He really started getting into it, and I could see his excitement rising. I watched his balls as they got tighter and tighter and almost disappear into his body. I knew that he was on the verge of cumming. I worked harder and harder...but he didn't climax. I removed my finger from his hole and continued to work on his dick. He spun around sideways on the table and straddled his raised legs on either side of me and said "Fuck me Daddy". I thought...What the Fuck? Did I just hear that? I still had my shorts on, but my dick was right there at his hole. I started to dry hump him. He said...yeah...that's it, Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me Daddy. I continued my thrusting motions as my untied shorts started sliding down off my body. "Yeah...I can feel you. Please Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me. My hole is throbbing for you." Two seconds later he came...everywhere. It covered his stomach, his chest, and some hit his face.

He then sort of snapped back to reality. He asked if he could shower and I threw him a towel. He showered quickly, gave me a big hug, thanked me, and exited. I will certainly be looking for him again the same time next year!
 

Someone just "like" one of my post here...so it brought me back to it. I thought that I would share an update here...and note my latest encounter at giving free massage. I posted this on another board...and am repeating here.
==
New massage "clients" have been slower to come by these days. I have exhausted most of the pool of guys in my vicinity of my posting on the apps (Grindr, Jackd, and Scruff). My posts on DoubleList result is the same trolls responding within minutes of my posting. I had some success sneaking in ads on Craigslist in the Community/General section but now those ads get deleted as son as they are posted. I recently tried a paid ad on Craigslist unders Services/Health&Wellness. That has been pretty much a bust because people are weary of me giving a Free massage under a paid ad. However, I did have one experience this week that was worth noting.

The Bodybuilder: A guy reached out to me from my DoubleList ad to set up a session. He said that he was 45yo, straight, MWM. He used to be a professional body builder, but says he now just has a dad bod. He was visiting my area for the day and would like to schedule a session if he could. He included a picture of him from his BB days. I looked through my old emails. I always do this to see if I have had a positive or negative communication history with people that respond. I found a similar email from him last year...almost to the day. We had tried to coordinate a time last year, but it didn't work out. Luckily we were able to connect this time. We set up for mid-day so that I could conduct the session over my lunch break.

When he arrived, he looked shorter than his pics...bu he was hot! If he considers his current state a dad bod...I would bet that every dad would be inline to get one of those. Although he was not still jacked from his pro BB days, he was still very well built...just a little softer. He commented that he was glad that I was a big guy. That means that i could give him the pressure that he needed. We did some more small talk. He quickly got nude and covered his dick with his hands as he walked to the massage table. I asked my general questions about areas to avoid and he said that all places were good.

I was very cautious as I worked on this muscle guy. He was straight, he was married, and he was big enough to break me in two! He began to give me verbal feedback immediately with some slight moans. This helped me relax as well...knowing that he was enjoying himself. I asked if he minded if I took my shirt off. I said that it was a bit warm and I hoped that he didn't mind my hairy belly. He said, no problem. It's your home. Get comfortable. I laughed and replied that I am always nude at home to be comfortable. No comment from him. He didn't take the bait. I slipped off my shirt and continued with the massage. As I worked on him, I gave him plenty of body contact. Certainly he felt my dick poking him here and there...and even landing in the palm of his hand. No response either way. He didn't pull away...but he didn't grab me either. No signals...so i kept things tame.

Now it was time to work on his legs. I started at his feet and worked my way up. As I reached the nice crevices where the legs meet the groin...I got another one of those moans. He said that no one ever touches you there. I asked if it was too much. He replied that it was great and to keep going. He spread his legs further apart. Nice! His ass was spectacular. I wanted to play with it and get a taste...but I held back. I did make sure that I hands went in his crack and grazed his hole. Still no positive signs...so I moved on. I worked his other leg. Same progression, his legs went even wider...but I was still guns shy to pull the trigger. I moved on and finished with he backside. Now it was time for the flip.

His front side was nice as well. He was no longer hiding his dick. It was average in length...but had a good thickness to it. I worked on his chest, shoulders, and stretched his arms. I then started working on his legs. I like to do some stretches when clients are in this position. It allows me to get in real close...while at the same time opening them up and making them a bit vulnerable. He went with the flow...and I noticed his blood started to flow as well. I grazed his dick a couple of times...and got another nice moan out of him. I teased him a little more until he was rock hard and pulsing...and then I backed off. Time to work the other leg. Same stretches except this time, I grazed his hole. I got a moan from that touch as well. I thought...well...It's now or never. I played with his hole a little and started pressing on it. No resistance...so I pushed a finger in. I much bigger moan this time. I explored with my finger and started to slide in and out. With my other hand, I started to stroke his dick. He really started getting into it, and I could see his excitement rising. I watched his balls as they got tighter and tighter and almost disappear into his body. I knew that he was on the verge of cumming. I worked harder and harder...but he didn't climax. I removed my finger from his hole and continued to work on his dick. He spun around sideways on the table and straddled his raised legs on either side of me and said "Fuck me Daddy". I thought...What the Fuck? Did I just hear that? I still had my shorts on, but my dick was right there at his hole. I started to dry hump him. He said...yeah...that's it, Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me Daddy. I continued my thrusting motions as my untied shorts started sliding down off my body. "Yeah...I can feel you. Please Fuck me Daddy. Fuck me. My hole is throbbing for you." Two seconds later he came...everywhere. It covered his stomach, his chest, and some hit his face.

He then sort of snapped back to reality. He asked if he could shower and I threw him a towel. He showered quickly, gave me a big hug, thanked me, and exited. I will certainly be looking for him again the same time next year!
 

I know that you didn't ask me, but I am doing the same as @7829V. However, you said that you are trying to figure out what type of guy gets these responses. I have been doing the same, but am 2+ years into the game...with similar results...and I am not the Hot Otter with great chest and a 9" dick.
 
I would be characterized as a Daddy Bear. Mid-50s, beard, moderately hairy, thick build with a belly. Masculine with a very "str8" appearance. I do have a good face and a thick 8". I wear a t-shirt & thin shorts with no underwear. Sometimes guys ask me to get nude as well. I typically don't, but that does give me the green light...if things go in that direction.
 
My ad only shows a pair of embraced hands. I do share a face pic and pics of my setup (table, oils/lotions, ...). I do not speak sex either. If they come sexually aggressive, I pass them by. If they ask if more than massage is offered (depending on how the communication has been with them), I will respond with "The focus on the session is massage. However, sometimes things may pop off depending on the vibe".
 
One of the challenges that I find is that grindr is location based. Therefore, after a while, you exhaust all the potential clientel unless you are in a very transient area. I have expanded to Craigslist (yes you can still carefully advertise there) and Doublelist since these have a wider geolocation.
 
Oh...and I know this forum is M4M, but I get M/F couples and sometimes single women responding to my ads as well. The couples can be lots of fun.

I saw him last night in DC.  He is real and the pics are real. The session was just what I was looking for LAST NIGHT. I had just had an incredible Legit massage from a hot Asian guy (thanks Sve/Borgata) a couple days earlier. I was missing that "other" part of the massage. Julian/ManMasseur fits that bill. If you want to spend time with a nice guy, with a hot body,  that is supercharged, at a decent rate...AND massage is NOT your top priority, then give him a shot.  I would definitely repeat...if that is what I was looking for.
Hot Hot Baby! Yes...you are not far off. However, that is not slam. I think that Vanilla Ice is a hot guy...and he actually seems to be a nice guy. Yes Julian/ManMasseur has a little swag to him, but it is all good.

There is no real way to tell. You can read their ad, you can read their reviews, you can ask folks here, and you can ask the provider. NONE of those will guarantee how your session will go.
High price does not mean that sex is included Nude pics doesn't mean that you will get to experience that big dick or that juicy ass. Someone's experience/review here or elsewhere is no guarantee that you will have the same session and experience. As commonly said here: Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV). You can ask the provider. However, some may not discuss extras via phone/text. I have had sessions where I was promised things ahead of time and they were NOT delivered. I have had sessions where the Masseur stated that there were no extras...and it was a fuckfest. It's unfortunate, but you have to use ALL of these tactics in combination with your own instincts. It can be trial and error...but you will start learning to read the signs and read between the lines.
I would say that this FORUM is your greatest tool in helping you navigate the waters. One of the best benefits is that this FORUM tells you who to AVOID. The search function can be your best friend.
 

There is no real way to tell. You can read their ad, you can read their reviews, you can ask folks here, and you can ask the provider. NONE of those will guarantee how your session will go.
High price does not mean that sex is included Nude pics doesn't mean that you will get to experience that big dick or that juicy ass. Someone's experience/review here or elsewhere is no guarantee that you will have the same session and experience. As commonly said here: Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV). You can ask the provider. However, some may not discuss extras via phone/text. I have had sessions where I was promised things ahead of time and they were NOT delivered. I have had sessions where the Masseur stated that there were no extras...and it was a fuckfest. It's unfortunate, but you have to use ALL of these tactics in combination with your own instincts. It can be trial and error...but you will start learning to read the signs and read between the lines.
I would say that this FORUM is your greatest tool in helping you navigate the waters. One of the best benefits is that this FORUM tells you who to AVOID. The search function can be your best friend.
 

There is no real way to tell. You can read their ad, you can read their reviews, you can ask folks here, and you can ask the provider. NONE of those will guarantee how your session will go.
High price does not mean that sex is included Nude pics doesn't mean that you will get to experience that big dick or that juicy ass. Someone's experience/review here or elsewhere is no guarantee that you will have the same session and experience. As commonly said here: Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV). You can ask the provider. However, some may not discuss extras via phone/text. I have had sessions where I was promised things ahead of time and they were NOT delivered. I have had sessions where the Masseur stated that there were no extras...and it was a fuckfest. It's unfortunate, but you have to use ALL of these tactics in combination with your own instincts. It can be trial and error...but you will start learning to read the signs and read between the lines.
I would say that this FORUM is your greatest tool in helping you navigate the waters. One of the best benefits is that this FORUM tells you who to AVOID. The search function can be your best friend.
 

I had a Masseur that I was seeing regularly for years. He was a straight guy that would tease me each time showing/doing a little more each session...but we both ultimately knew it wasn't going to go "all the way there". He was catering to bi/gay cliientel and making money off of his good looks. I tipped him well and we had a good rapport. Sometimes he would even give me little gifts at the end of the session (he was also a nutritionist). We would sometime just chat via text and email.
Then one day he just ghosted his massage clients (I talked to a couple others). He has/had a constant social media presence so I know that he was still around and doing business. It seems that he just shut down the "sensual" part of his "business empire". He then resurfaced and had opened his own Crossfit/Personal training type gym. Seems that massage was just a stepping stone to greater things (much like a stripper working her way through medical school). He's moved on. I had to get over it. You do too.