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I was curious if any of you had gone through a period where you just didn’t feel like hiring escorts anymore. If so, I’d welcome any specifics you’d be willing to share (how long? reasons for it? what triggered a return? etc.)
 
I’ve hired twice in the last 12 months, most recently in August. Both sessions were good enough, but I just don’t have the urge to continue at this point. I’m 51, I own my own business so free time is tough to come by, and I’ve had a few of my regulars retire/disappear from the scene in the last couple of years. So all of those could be factors in my current headspace. But to be honest, I thought I’d get the desire again but it’s just not happening. To clarify, it’s not a lack of physical desire, but a lack of wanting to go through the “process” and effort that it can take to find someone compatible.
 
I’m likely overthinking the situation, which is something I often do in life. Just thought I’d check with folks to see if anyone had experienced similar feelings. Thanks for anything you’d like to share.

I was curious if any of you had gone through a period where you just didn’t feel like hiring escorts anymore. If so, I’d welcome any specifics you’d be willing to share (how long? reasons for it? what triggered a return? etc.)
 
I’ve hired twice in the last 12 months, most recently in August. Both sessions were good enough, but I just don’t have the urge to continue at this point. I’m 51, I own my own business so free time is tough to come by, and I’ve had a few of my regulars retire/disappear from the scene in the last couple of years. So all of those could be factors in my current headspace. But to be honest, I thought I’d get the desire again but it’s just not happening. To clarify, it’s not a lack of physical desire, but a lack of wanting to go through the “process” and effort that it can take to find someone compatible.
 
I’m likely overthinking the situation, which is something I often do in life. Just thought I’d check with folks to see if anyone had experienced similar feelings. Thanks for anything you’d like to share.

I was curious if any of you had gone through a period where you just didn’t feel like hiring escorts anymore. If so, I’d welcome any specifics you’d be willing to share (how long? reasons for it? what triggered a return? etc.)
 
I’ve hired twice in the last 12 months, most recently in August. Both sessions were good enough, but I just don’t have the urge to continue at this point. I’m 51, I own my own business so free time is tough to come by, and I’ve had a few of my regulars retire/disappear from the scene in the last couple of years. So all of those could be factors in my current headspace. But to be honest, I thought I’d get the desire again but it’s just not happening. To clarify, it’s not a lack of physical desire, but a lack of wanting to go through the “process” and effort that it can take to find someone compatible.
 
I’m likely overthinking the situation, which is something I often do in life. Just thought I’d check with folks to see if anyone had experienced similar feelings. Thanks for anything you’d like to share.

Based on my experience with both of them, they are unreliable with keeping appointments and have visible jealousy issues. If you have a burning desire to see them, my advice is to hire them separately, confirm the appointment multiple times in advance, and do not do an incall.

I would think it depends on the situation. If it was a regular I’ve seen multiple times I would ultimately handle differently than if it was a first-time hire.

Would you repeat?

Slightly different take: I’m always surprised to search on “Safe only” guys, and find some who list “PNP”. I mean, I guess it’s possible, but just seems an odd combination.

Slightly different take: I’m always surprised to search on “Safe only” guys, and find some who list “PNP”. I mean, I guess it’s possible, but just seems an odd combination.

Alec and Ryan are no longer together. I never met Ryan, so I don't know him, or how he's doing. Alec started seeing someone else last year, got engaged this summer, but has recently deleted his social media, so I'm no longer getting updates. But was doing great as of a few months ago.

Surprised he didn't get more mentions, but maybe 2 years into retirement people are starting to forget. But one of the nicest guys I've met, in or out of the business. Last I heard, had just gotten engaged to his boyfriend of the last 18 months, so retirement must be agreeing with him.

Surprised he didn't get more mentions, but maybe 2 years into retirement people are starting to forget. But one of the nicest guys I've met, in or out of the business. Last I heard, had just gotten engaged to his boyfriend of the last 18 months, so retirement must be agreeing with him.

I've been with my share of guys. There are *nice* guys, and there are *hot* guys, and when we're really lucky we find a guy that ticks both boxes.
 
The older I get, the more I find it's important to be with a nice guy. Friendly, chatty, warm, smiles a lot, considerate of you, etc. Where you've felt your time together was more than a transaction.
 
Who are some of the NICEST guys you've hired? I'm in the NYC area, but travel a fair amount, so I'm curious about all locations.

I've been with my share of guys. There are *nice* guys, and there are *hot* guys, and when we're really lucky we find a guy that ticks both boxes.
 
The older I get, the more I find it's important to be with a nice guy. Friendly, chatty, warm, smiles a lot, considerate of you, etc. Where you've felt your time together was more than a transaction.
 
Who are some of the NICEST guys you've hired? I'm in the NYC area, but travel a fair amount, so I'm curious about all locations.

When I inquired if a certain escort was versatile, he responded "If the chemistry is there". (I am a Top only.)
 
He looks great, is well reviewed, and points for being honest up front, I guess. And there's always oral. But I'm trying to decide whether to pass.
 
Just curious how others would handle if in my situation.

Saw him a couple of months ago. Enjoyed our time together, but not sure what you're looking for. At the time he didn't have a partner.

I intended this more as a witticism, not a truism.
 
Carry on.

You don't put a bumper sticker on a Mercedes.

You don't put a bumper sticker on a Mercedes.

You don't put a bumper sticker on a Mercedes.

You don't put a bumper sticker on a Mercedes.

You don't put a bumper sticker on a Mercedes.

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM. Although it does explain why some of my requests for more detailed info on an escort might go unanswered.
 
But as someone else mentioned upthread, I'm still scratching my head on the "divorce" thread, where the client couldn't figure out why he was dropped after tracking down personal info on an escort and then sharing it with him. Things that seem "common sense" to many of us might not be common sense at all. Thus the "this is not a toy" warnings on plastic bags.

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM. Although it does explain why some of my requests for more detailed info on an escort might go unanswered.
 
But as someone else mentioned upthread, I'm still scratching my head on the "divorce" thread, where the client couldn't figure out why he was dropped after tracking down personal info on an escort and then sharing it with him. Things that seem "common sense" to many of us might not be common sense at all. Thus the "this is not a toy" warnings on plastic bags.

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM. Although it does explain why some of my requests for more detailed info on an escort might go unanswered.
 
But as someone else mentioned upthread, I'm still scratching my head on the "divorce" thread, where the client couldn't figure out why he was dropped after tracking down personal info on an escort and then sharing it with him. Things that seem "common sense" to many of us might not be common sense at all. Thus the "this is not a toy" warnings on plastic bags.

Unfortunately, this is an example that shows me how naive I can be. Would never imagine that people are sharing PM info with the escort, or harassing people via PM. Although it does explain why some of my requests for more detailed info on an escort might go unanswered.
 
But as someone else mentioned upthread, I'm still scratching my head on the "divorce" thread, where the client couldn't figure out why he was dropped after tracking down personal info on an escort and then sharing it with him. Things that seem "common sense" to many of us might not be common sense at all. Thus the "this is not a toy" warnings on plastic bags.