ShortCutie7

My mother tried to have a conversation about the topic today out of nowhere (I came out to her well over a decade ago)… “so you don’t like women at all? Why?” (There’s no “why”, why don’t you like women?) “So if you don’t want to get married or have children, who will you leave your money to when you die?” (I really don’t think I’ll die with enough money to leave someone)… I eventually told her that she’s not going to like any of my answers which got her to stop asking questions. But my point is that the coming out never stops, even with people you have already come out to.

My mother tried to have a conversation about the topic today out of nowhere (I came out to her well over a decade ago)… “so you don’t like women at all? Why?” (There’s no “why”, why don’t you like women?) “So if you don’t want to get married or have children, who will you leave your money to when you die?” (I really don’t think I’ll die with enough money to leave someone)… I eventually told her that she’s not going to like any of my answers which got her to stop asking questions. But my point is that the coming out never stops, even with people you have already come out to.

My mother tried to have a conversation about the topic today out of nowhere (I came out to her well over a decade ago)… “so you don’t like women at all? Why?” (There’s no “why”, why don’t you like women?) “So if you don’t want to get married or have children, who will you leave your money to when you die?” (I really don’t think I’ll die with enough money to leave someone)… I eventually told her that she’s not going to like any of my answers which got her to stop asking questions. But my point is that the coming out never stops, even with people you have already come out to.

Yep, when discussing potential activities in advance, I always say something along the lines of “if I top you I would have to wear a condom”. Not to beat a dead horse on here, but I still can’t imagine being anti-condom.
And exactly, even if STIs didn’t exist, I’d still probably want a barrier between my dick and the poop 💩 

Is there not value to pointing out easy-to-miss red flags (for some) that those looking at his profile may not notice (as OP posted, he did not)?  Both in what he selected and did not select?  Beyond whatever I or anyone else might think (some could find his selections a turn-on), this is an analysis of his profile and is relevant information to someone looking to meet him.

He also has a 212 phone number, which is not likely to belong to a 31 year old who is new to town.

Yep, when discussing potential activities in advance, I always say something along the lines of “if I top you I would have to wear a condom”. Not to beat a dead horse on here, but I still can’t imagine being anti-condom.
And exactly, even if STIs didn’t exist, I’d still probably want a barrier between my dick and the poop 💩 

He also has a 212 phone number, which is not likely to belong to a 31 year old who is new to town.

He told me I was a gross person if I couldn't show up showered.  Being that i don't live near him, but my place of work is close to where he hosts; I can't guarantee being freshly showered at 5P after a full day of work.  Offering a touch up shower would be nice instead of writing me off as a disgusting person. 
 
He also presenting a menu of "massage" services, and then unsent that message when he opted out.

Hannah was not even in the top 5 contestants vocally and I did expect Jordan to win.  The fact the 3 of the five final contestants were people of color was surprising for this show which has had a few breakout stars of color but is known for white teenage boys with a modicum of talent winning the show.  

Nobody other than the men I hire and on this website. It’s not something I am personally embarrassed about nor ashamed of, but a lot of people in my life would feel that on my behalf or be otherwise judgmental. Frankly even the handful of friends who know [for a fact that] I’m gay would deem it as risky/illegal behavior and not “me”.

A client asking a provider, or a provider offering to a client, to bring another provider for group play is totally normal and happens often. It's not ridiculous or crazy at all. The provider in the review you quoted also just did it very very incorrectly. They basically pressured the client into it and then lied to them about the pricing, creating an awkward situation for the client. 
Bringing in other providers to a session shouldn't happen unless the client specifically asks the provider for a group session. Or if the provider offers it, the client needs to say yes for it to proceed. You then would choose the second provider yourself or let the provider show you options that you say yes or no to. And the other provider always would be paid still. Providers don't do this work for free obviously. Every step of this was done incorrectly by the provider in the review you quoted.
In line with what Jamie21 said. Me personally, any time i have had a provider bring another provider, it's always discussed ahead of time before the session. The main provider i hire either asks me if i have anyone i want to bring or they show me ahead of time who they want/recommend to bring and i say yes or no. If i'm the one with a second provider i want to bring, i reach out to set it up. If i say i want my provider to bring/recommend someone, they show me their pick and if i say yes, they reach out to them and set it up for me. They make the offer to the other provider and they figure out pricing amongst themselves and then i say yes or no.
So far in my experience, anytime my regular provider brings another provider, the second provider always takes the same rate that i pay my regular. If the other provider needed more or whatever the case may be, then my regular would come back to me and let me know about that and i would have to agree or disagree. Communication and consent is always the key and that's what was lacking between client/provider in the review you quoted.
And my regular provider i was doing this with wouldn't just bring any one, he usually would only bring either guys he knew personally (he has a lot of friends who also are providers and we've basically run through his whole friend group together 🤣) or other guys who are very well reviewed or he's worked with for other clients who are into group sessions before. Or he also trusts my pick if i want to bring one of my other regulars (but i let him know he can veto if it's someone he has beef with or something like that).
Have never had any issues doing it 🤷‍♂️
Yeah i don't think that's what OP is saying either. OP saw the review and I think it's just maybe the first time they've heard that people are doing threesomes/group sessions in general and are simply citing the review as the source of inspiration for the question about "is this something people are doing and why?".

Why is this being interpreted as the client wanting the provider to recruit another provider? Unless I’m missing something, it’s pretty clear that the provider wanted to invite another particular provider to join them, and expected the client to agree to it and magically produce the money for the other provider.

Why is this being interpreted as the client wanting the provider to recruit another provider? Unless I’m missing something, it’s pretty clear that the provider wanted to invite another particular provider to join them, and expected the client to agree to it and magically produce the money for the other provider.

Nobody other than the men I hire and on this website. It’s not something I am personally embarrassed about nor ashamed of, but a lot of people in my life would feel that on my behalf or be otherwise judgmental. Frankly even the handful of friends who know [for a fact that] I’m gay would deem it as risky/illegal behavior and not “me”.

I’m still confused how anyone can read that review and come to the conclusion that the client wanted a threesome?  I understand the question being asked, but what does it have at all to do with the review that inspired it?

Why is this being interpreted as the client wanting the provider to recruit another provider? Unless I’m missing something, it’s pretty clear that the provider wanted to invite another particular provider to join them, and expected the client to agree to it and magically produce the money for the other provider.

Nobody other than the men I hire and on this website. It’s not something I am personally embarrassed about nor ashamed of, but a lot of people in my life would feel that on my behalf or be otherwise judgmental. Frankly even the handful of friends who know [for a fact that] I’m gay would deem it as risky/illegal behavior and not “me”.

Nobody other than the men I hire and on this website. It’s not something I am personally embarrassed about nor ashamed of, but a lot of people in my life would feel that on my behalf or be otherwise judgmental. Frankly even the handful of friends who know [for a fact that] I’m gay would deem it as risky/illegal behavior and not “me”.

Nobody other than the men I hire and on this website. It’s not something I am personally embarrassed about nor ashamed of, but a lot of people in my life would feel that on my behalf or be otherwise judgmental. Frankly even the handful of friends who know [for a fact that] I’m gay would deem it as risky/illegal behavior and not “me”.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

Why is this being interpreted as the client wanting the provider to recruit another provider? Unless I’m missing something, it’s pretty clear that the provider wanted to invite another particular provider to join them, and expected the client to agree to it and magically produce the money for the other provider.

I met a friend from out of town and his (male) fiancée in a gay bar a couple months ago… I untagged myself from the Facebook pics so people wouldn’t think about it at all.

As far as I can tell, he is based in NYC and does not host.

My last hire started our session in his shower, and having him wash my dick and watch it get hard in his hands was incredibly erotic, and more so than I would have expected- that is an activity I would definitely repeat!