RyanDean

Twice a month, alternating between two regulars; When traveling, twice a week. 
 

My budget allows for once a month, but so far this year I've been breaking my own rules, so 8 times through today. That breaks down to 2 escorts(  and 6 massages, 3 of which were with my regular go-to (and 2 of those were with 4-hands, which he and I have been enjoying lately).  And have booked my regular for Saturday as well. 

It really varies.  I usually aim for once a month but last summer was once a week.  This summer will likely be the same.

I keep saying 2x a month at most and I keep breaking that rule.  This month will be 6.  

He’s a sweet guy. A little shy but his body from head to toe is amazing.
I only did muscle worship with him but he was very into it and he was aroused just about the entire time.
Id see him again but schedules have yet to synch up again.

@muscles44 - definitely find the mode and platform that's right for you. I do think being forthright about the kind of interaction you're offering is key. And if you're game to do the MaleThingsWorn thing, that might be another generative revenue stream.

I've been following his OF intermittently for a good while. He definitely gives me the clear impression that he's (A) definitely straight-identifying but (B) also a skilled professional bottom and (C) clearly inclined to role-playing and worship scenarios. 

Let us know when you launch, @muscles44!

And, yes, the cross-promotional presence between platforms seems key. One strategy that might be worth exploring might be to link your streaming to an OnlyFans profile. I've seen some content creators do well by hosting live Chaturbate shows, requiring pay-in to view on CB, which they either stream live on OF or repost later on OF as content. Indeed, it seems increasingly rare for successful CBers to NOT also have an OF.

I've not seen TheOutsiders yet (have tix in a couple weeks) but it definitely has the highest "cute boy" quotient of the season. (Though HeartOfRock&Roll displays a good deal of hunky eye-candy as well.)
I liked Appropriate a lot; I've seen previous productions and this one just nails it. 
 

Rimming is such an intimate activity I assume all providers will not do it, and am pleasantly surprised when they do. At the (extreme) risk of sounding arrogant, I'm a pretty good looking, in-shape guy with thick legs and a muscle butt. Like KensingtonHomo, I meet providers because I can afford it and I appreciate meeting the hottest guys when I want, where I want, usually when I'm traveling. More than once, when my pants drop, a provider mas made it very clear they want to play with my ass. The problem of course is that I'm a top, but one who enjoys getting my ass worshipped. Usually if I let them eat it, they want to fuck it, and somebody ends up disappointed.
One of my hottest encounters was with a provider in Miami a couple of years ago. Absolutely stunning, model material provider who went to town on my butt, and tried (in vain) to fuck it. He eventually shot a load with his face in my ass. Sadly, I think this guy has since retired from the biz.

This is what I hire for. Almost exclusively. But I'm a giver. Again, almost exclusively.

His countenance compliments his physique in its attractiveness.

I’ve missed your jealousy motivated snark on my comments. It’s good to be the subject of your contempt again. 

Let the games begin!

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

This is what I hire for. Almost exclusively. But I'm a giver. Again, almost exclusively.

We’ll if you ever want a volunteer! Just kidding.

This is what I hire for. Almost exclusively. But I'm a giver. Again, almost exclusively.

This is what I hire for. Almost exclusively. But I'm a giver. Again, almost exclusively.

I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
 

I agree with you.
It’s good to remember that it’s a business, on both sides. Too many Clients can get personally attached to Providers as well. That’s a bit further along than the opening line of the exchange though. But it’s true. Some Clients seem to forget that, although respect for each other as persons is obvious, it isn’t a friendship or “relationship.” It’s a business, which is a relationship, but not like that.
The best Client-Provider relationship is one that can feel like a friendship or “relationship” but maintains the boundaries of business. 

I anticipation of a recent hiring weekend in NYC I reached out -- via text -- to a total of six gents over a couple days. My ask was "Do you expect to be in town and available on these dates?" (about two weeks from the days I was texting). In reply...
two offered no reply at all one confirmed he would be away that weekend, in an exchange was pleasant and direct and confirmed my continued interest in this provider one said he might be available but wouldn't know until a few days before, in a manner that was fine but didn't stir my further interest two (one of whom I had booked some while back) said they would definitely be available; both were friendly and flirty in their exchanges, with the new-to-me gent being unusually gregarious, funny, and responsive... In my followup exchanges with the four who did reply (including the gent who was not available), I asked "how far in advance do you prefer to book"? All four gave their answer in a way that gave me a clear vibe/impression on whether/how I wanted to proceed. With the two (including the gent I had booked previously) who confirmed that they would be available and inclined to meet, I followed up as per their preferred timeline and "penciled in" separate appointments on two different days. At which point I confirmed my interests, my general location, and their hourly. 

On the morning of the respective appointments, I followed up to confirm everything. With the gent I had booked previously, everything proceeded gratifyingly. With the new-to-me gent who was so fun and sexy via text, things didn't proceed as simply and, unfortunately (for me), he ultimately proved to be a no-show.

All of which is to say: when communicating with providers, you never know what you're gonna get. And I've learned not to put all my horny eggs (or expectations) into one basket. 

 

Even still. By your reasoning, my number is there and showing up as an issue. I don’t have many providers NOT respond. Yet…some don’t. It doesn’t reasonably hold. What seems more reasonable is that some of the providers I contact who don’t reply are not great at responding. If I rarely got a response, Mr. Number issues would make more sense. But I do largely have responses. The few who don’t respond would therefore seem like they’re not serious about consistently providing.
Sometimes the issue isn’t the client. 

I saw it at Playwrights (and have yet to see it on Broadway) but, yes, it is an extraordinary piece of theatre. And I would agree that it's by far the frontrunner for the Best Play Tony and is also a real contender for Best Original Score