RyanDean

I booked a rental car but SEPARATE TOPIC... I'm arriving Friday evening and, at this point, don't expect to book an appointment with a gent for that night. But I would love to connect for dinner/drinks/dessert with any forum folk who aren't -- ahem -- otherwise occupied. SO: FWIW.

Now you've got me wondering whether I should forego renting a car and just Lyft my way around for the weekend...

Not sure when I'll next be to LA, @toocoolforschool, but definitely keep me posted as you plot your next NYC jaunt!

@jjkrkwood: I'll opt to be clothed. @toocoolforschool: totally. I'm based in NY/NJ but travel for work to most of the major US cities somewhat regularly. Where are you based?

Indeed. A very good idea. So I just started this thread over in the Traveling Members forum to perhaps get some scheming/plotting started...

Inspired by @toocoolforschool's plea & @jjkrkwood's followup suggestion, here's a thread to plot and scheme shared adventures...

Alex Philly only offers therapeutic massage appointments. This is Duane Trade's ad: https://rent.men/DuaneTrade

The Adonis crew dances at Fubar on Sundays and Wednesdays.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/14/us/franklin-college-president-thomas-minar.html

I don't have specific information about any of those guys, and I don't know that I've seen any of them post RM listings, but both Alfie/Alfred and Lee Australia do pass through Adonis regularly (and Alfie also dances at Spunk, I believe). The general recommendation would be to (A) hit Evolve or the nude party when one or more of your priority guys are on the roster; (B) take your guy for a lapdance and © open the discussion regarding private meetups directly. You'll find that about 2/3 of the guys do take "privates" beyond the club but you should expect that most of the guys who work at Adonis are straight-identifying/heteroflexible. I've also had about a 50-50 response rate (even after they've given me their number with the expectation that I'd be contacting them). That said, if you are a truly big spender, you will likely do better than me. I'm not cheap, but I'm no DaddyWarbucks.

Plenty of Adonis guys do work beyond the events. Not all, but many. And the range of "interactivity" is fairly wide. Do you have your eye on any particular Adonis dancer?

I'm not hearing anything in your summary of why you want to participate or how the experience would make your lives better. I'm also hearing legitimate concerns about it being a disruption to your contentment and it pressing uncomfortably on your limits. My strong instinct would be to encourage you to decline for now, while possibly leaving a narrow window of possibility for you to initiate further contact (or vice versa).

Just confirmed some details with @Buff Daddy: Monday Gents Club happens every OTHER Monday night, with the next ones on January 20 and February 3, in a midtown loft. Saturday Gents Club happens the second Saturday every month, with the next on February 8, in an uptown space. REMINDER: these are private M4M events. Email BuffDaddy to join his info list: [email protected]

@Buff Daddy: Are the Monday Gents Club events every Monday? If not, do you have a schedule of the upcoming Gents Club nights?

Ditto.

Hi @DMICS -- I've interacted with all 3 at Evolve. Have seen Aston and PatrickNYC at the nude parties as well. (AlexP doesn't do the nude party.) Happy to answer whatever questions I can, either here or via DM.

Or resolve to make a modest (or immodest) MONTHLY donation! That's what I did in 2019 and will reprise in 2020.

Very attractive & good vibe, at least from a distance. He was kept quite busy & I didn't have occasion for a direct interaction (so dunno if he's game for "a private").

Not so crowded, at least not between 1030-12mid. Good ratio of unclothed/clothed. Easy to connect with the gents I wanted to.

Any forum-folk planning to hit this Saturday night's NYC nude party?

It was a typo, @Milo Farnsworth. In NYC, the rate at Adonis events is usually $20 a song.

I was living temporarily in a southwestern city and my trainer recommended the chiropractic services of this DC/CNP. I have never swooned so much in any medical office and would likely have become a dedicated patient had I not relocated.

https://www.queerty.com/another-antigay-church-leader-caught-trying-buy-sex-grindr-20191216 :rolleyes::oops:

Basically, but nothing nefarious/trollish. Entirely recreational...

For a few different reasons, I just set up a second/stealth account. But I have NO "FRIENDS"... So, as an FYI, if you're inclined: https://www.facebook.com/ryan.dean.376258