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They do walk around with everything fully on display. Hard and soft and everything in between.

I expect to be to tonight's nude party event (August 31). Let me know if (a) you will be too or (b) if there's anyone you want a report on...

I booked with Steve, as his location's ideal for when/what I need. And I have been pleased with the ease, clarity and professionalism of the communication. Thanks to all for your guidance.

The second loop in Falcon's The New Breed (1981) is a "money on the dresser" scenario. It's not an especially remarkable scene, but it holds a special place on my porn-loving heart. It was the first hardcore gay porn scene I ever saw. (It happened in a dingy boothstore in ABQ in the mid1980s. I was maybe 16 years old and stunned that they let me into the booths. I used all the coins I had on me to catch the last seconds of the previous loop, all of this one and the first moments of the next.) I sometimes wonder whether my interest in hiring (which I've nurtured since my teens) was activated or fortified by my early encounter with this scene.

Thanks for introducing yourself, @AndrewRojas! Do you have an ad or listing posted anywhere?

For Jack fans: https://str8upgayporn.com/sean-cody-jack-gay-porn-interview/

I've wondered about him. I enjoyed meeting him at a PalmSprings gathering and looked forward to connecting and then...POOF! He was gone.

It wasn't a tweet. Nor was it off-the-cuff commentary, but a pre-written segment on the morning program.

Thanks for the profile number tip, @EVdude. I tried doing their names and, well, you can imagine...

Once again, I find myself in the market for a massage in Hell's Kitchen. In part because I know I'll want to shower, so I've limited my list to those indicating "shower" as an amenity for their in-studio massage services. So if any of y'all have opinions, experiences or thoughts you'd like to share -- I'd be most appreciative. Your recommendations/suggestions also very welcome, either on thread or via PM. Steve: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38706/ JR: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36830/ Tommy: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/3568/ Jon: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32922/

I learned early on to specify my hopes to the gent directly (ie when arranging the appointment) if I did indeed want to witness/experience his cumming.

Crowne Plaza Times Square can be a bit of a zoo but *nobody* clocks comings and goings. HK adjacent, too. Connected with a gent there recently. Seemed almost purpose-built for the hobby. Many of the mid-tier hotels have locations along 40thSt near 9thAve, many of which have little outdoor seating areas (for smokers) -- which are also good spots to connect with a gent before heading upstairs (all these sorts of hotels seem to have keycard controls on the elevators). The HotelTonight app can be handy for a quick/easy price-check on the going discounts at different hotels. Prices look sensible for the coming week or so.

This. Plus I get to "choose my own adventure" with a broader range of gorgeous & talented men, who generally prioritize the highest level of discretion. And, yes, it's just so much easier/efficient/convenient.

No such email for me.

While I do enjoy the Adonises and look forward to partaking of some Spunk soon, I do long for a NYC venue with the "at all hours" approach of the Gaietys & ShowPalaces in days of yore.

You can pretty much count on a veritable smorgasboard of beefy Latinos at Adonis events. And a steady supply of visitors from Spain, Italy, Brazil... At Evolve, there are no partitions. Certain nooks/crannies afford more privacy than others. And, yeah, I can never tell when one song ends and another begins so I am very clear at the start ("let's go for three songs") and sometimes check ("where are we in our song count"). Since I started doing this, I've never been caught by surprise -- though at least one dancer has been quite "generous" with me in terms of how he tallied the songcount. (He didn't upcharge me, but I did tip him extra -- not for the time exactly, but also because he was generous in other ways as well.) If you're worried about the song count, you might consider trying Spunk at Monster. I've not checked it out for myself (yet) but -- in this thread -- @Boy4 describes a per-minute screen system that seems to take the guesswork out. LOTS of dancers hit both Spunk and Adonis, including -- it seems -- the beefy latinos. Not sure about whether there is a partition set-up at the Monster.

Thinking back to when I was briefly on SeekingArrangement, I seem to recall that many (if not most) of the really jacked dudes listed "sponsorship" among the arrangement possibilities they were seeking.

My interest in a particular gent led me to his page on https://newtumbl.com/ Which is full of old-tumblr style deliciousness, but also improved in interesting ways...

Ha. Indeed. It is a lovely way to be. Though I realize I've always thought (fondly) of @purplekow as a "GENEROUS SLUT"... Does that make him "vers"?

@sdvjm might have information (at least that's my impression based on this recent thread)

I would encourage you to flip your script, @treatyoself. It sounds to me like you're looking for someone (who's got fitness and sexwork experience) to provide personal coaching to confront your mental roadblocks and to help motivate you to connect with your body in a different way. This is a little bit different from hiring an escort for a fantasy-scene, but I suspect there are a number of gents in the game who would be well-equipped (and possibly inclined) to set up an arrangement for this kind of work. I happen to know an NYC-based guy that I suspect would be perfect for you. He no longer advertises on RMen or comparable sites, but his personal/life coaching business appears to be going strong. I'll DM you the details.

Just finished a fun meetup with KarlB. Feel free to DM if you’re considering...