RyanDean

Once again, I find myself in the market for a massage in Hell's Kitchen. In part because I know I'll want to shower, so I've limited my list to those indicating "shower" as an amenity for their in-studio massage services. So if any of y'all have opinions, experiences or thoughts you'd like to share -- I'd be most appreciative. Your recommendations/suggestions also very welcome, either on thread or via PM. Steve: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38706/ JR: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36830/ Tommy: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/3568/ Jon: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32922/

I learned early on to specify my hopes to the gent directly (ie when arranging the appointment) if I did indeed want to witness/experience his cumming.

Crowne Plaza Times Square can be a bit of a zoo but *nobody* clocks comings and goings. HK adjacent, too. Connected with a gent there recently. Seemed almost purpose-built for the hobby. Many of the mid-tier hotels have locations along 40thSt near 9thAve, many of which have little outdoor seating areas (for smokers) -- which are also good spots to connect with a gent before heading upstairs (all these sorts of hotels seem to have keycard controls on the elevators). The HotelTonight app can be handy for a quick/easy price-check on the going discounts at different hotels. Prices look sensible for the coming week or so.

This. Plus I get to "choose my own adventure" with a broader range of gorgeous & talented men, who generally prioritize the highest level of discretion. And, yes, it's just so much easier/efficient/convenient.

No such email for me.

While I do enjoy the Adonises and look forward to partaking of some Spunk soon, I do long for a NYC venue with the "at all hours" approach of the Gaietys & ShowPalaces in days of yore.

You can pretty much count on a veritable smorgasboard of beefy Latinos at Adonis events. And a steady supply of visitors from Spain, Italy, Brazil... At Evolve, there are no partitions. Certain nooks/crannies afford more privacy than others. And, yeah, I can never tell when one song ends and another begins so I am very clear at the start ("let's go for three songs") and sometimes check ("where are we in our song count"). Since I started doing this, I've never been caught by surprise -- though at least one dancer has been quite "generous" with me in terms of how he tallied the songcount. (He didn't upcharge me, but I did tip him extra -- not for the time exactly, but also because he was generous in other ways as well.) If you're worried about the song count, you might consider trying Spunk at Monster. I've not checked it out for myself (yet) but -- in this thread -- @Boy4 describes a per-minute screen system that seems to take the guesswork out. LOTS of dancers hit both Spunk and Adonis, including -- it seems -- the beefy latinos. Not sure about whether there is a partition set-up at the Monster.

Thinking back to when I was briefly on SeekingArrangement, I seem to recall that many (if not most) of the really jacked dudes listed "sponsorship" among the arrangement possibilities they were seeking.

My interest in a particular gent led me to his page on https://newtumbl.com/ Which is full of old-tumblr style deliciousness, but also improved in interesting ways...

Ha. Indeed. It is a lovely way to be. Though I realize I've always thought (fondly) of @purplekow as a "GENEROUS SLUT"... Does that make him "vers"?

@sdvjm might have information (at least that's my impression based on this recent thread)

I would encourage you to flip your script, @treatyoself. It sounds to me like you're looking for someone (who's got fitness and sexwork experience) to provide personal coaching to confront your mental roadblocks and to help motivate you to connect with your body in a different way. This is a little bit different from hiring an escort for a fantasy-scene, but I suspect there are a number of gents in the game who would be well-equipped (and possibly inclined) to set up an arrangement for this kind of work. I happen to know an NYC-based guy that I suspect would be perfect for you. He no longer advertises on RMen or comparable sites, but his personal/life coaching business appears to be going strong. I'll DM you the details.

Just finished a fun meetup with KarlB. Feel free to DM if you’re considering...

Not sure if he's chub (or tall) enough for this particular scene, but this gent came immediately to mind: https://rent.men/WillFoster

My idiosyncratic standard list of travel items: box of safety matches reusable flexible plastic cup with lid & straw bluetooth speaker 1/2 dozen hardboiled eggs travel salt shaker peripherals (at least one "extra" usb cable, wall adapter, pair of ear buds, extension cord, etc) exercise bands

I was just reminded that one "cold calling" technique that definitely gets my attention is when a gent sends me a message that includes "something extra." Moments ago, one gent who I don't remember noticing before sent a message with the code for his private pics. Earned not just a click but a buddylisting from me, even though he's not exactly my usual type. I also appreciate it when gents attach pics or links not posted in their public profile. Or include language that indicates they've looked at my Rentmen profile. I may be an easy mark but such little "something extra" touches actually go quite far in stoking my serious interest...

And if no experience, any thoughts on the profile? Or the RMen reviewers? (The messages I have exchanged with the gent have sent no red flags, but I welcome y'all's collective wisdom.)

Probably depends on who you ask, @Rvarghcrna. But @Kurtis Wolfe is referring to scammers using AW's likeness/etc to create false profiles.

Possibly odd request, I'll admit, but... Currently seeking recommendations for NYC-area physique photographers. I'm looking to set up a photoshoot for sometime in October. Particularly interested in getting some B&W "artsy" (but not explicit) shots made by a patient/kind male photographer. So if you have a photographer whose work you enjoy looking at (or -- even better -- who you've enjoyed being photographed by), I'd be grateful if you'd share their name, website or IG or whatever. (As always, feel free to DM me.)

@big-n-tall: do you have a sense of whether their rates run higher as a result of the middleman? or are they in the standard-going-rate ballpark?

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I suspect the line was something like "someone who's more than a brother but less than a wife" which comes when the DiCaprio character is "breaking up" with the Pitt character. I didn't read there being anything "extra" necessarily, but did see the film as being -- in part -- about the bond between two (emphatically straight) guys who are soulmates...