Lookin41

Yup. That doc is right IMO. Was a bit bunged up and straining, put the grandkids step under my feet, leaned forward a bit and glory be. It worked.

I think so much with my little head instead of my big head that I wonder how people stay in monogamous relationships. I am turned on by guys all the time, especially at the gym. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to narrow it down to just one guy to be faithful to in a committed relationship. I would probably just have to have an open one. Jacking off to porn helps get my mind off guys until the next day, then I’m horny again.

I thought it would diminish as I got older and my testosterone faded. The joke is on me. Just around the corner from 70 and I’m as horny as I’ve ever been. Still thinking about it all the time. I need to J/O or have an adult interaction at least once a day or I feel edgy. Especially after working out.

I cannot speak for providers, only that I have received no protests from any, but I share SOME degree of physique visual representation and offer a full frontal non-nude body photo with face clearly depicted. 6’ 180. I am not uninked. They inadvertently will know my true name, and I theirs, prior to meet-up. The latter same as any type of hook-up past half century, transactional or not, except first-run baths encounters in uni. I provide any medical info requested including health status and STI prevention playbook.
These fundamental descriptors are not contained in the same communication passes as service details and remuneration. I have had no complaints over decades in terms of info insufficiency or over-inclusiveness. I cannot think of one time when I myself did not follow through on booking after having commenced sharing of personal details.
Most recent, began with my navy briefs, in contrast to the model sporting same (appended). Blue bathing suit example, worn, on request. Emphasizing they are clean laundry unlike the ‘zine caption. Then added the clothed body&face portrait, offering more details if needed. Spent all of 10 minutes total to seal the deal. An hour later: in; an hour after that: done & dusted. 
I instructed them that I had CAD$200 and I did not mention awareness of the ad reflecting USD$350 in a recent American city. 
I don’t know what they want but they are not put in a position of running up against resistance regarding their curiosity or imperatives. 
I believe in normal common parlance this is termed 😘 💋 K.I.S.S.

Yup. That doc is right IMO. Was a bit bunged up and straining, put the grandkids step under my feet, leaned forward a bit and glory be. It worked.

OK, guys, I am enjoying this thread so much that I will share:
 
I was walking by a bookstore one evening in San Diego's Hillcrest neighborhood; it may have been June, because the window display had gay-themed books and I stopped to look; a young man walked by, and we started talking about one of the books; I don't recall what we talked about but somehow he ended up following me to my hotel where he spent the night; he was from Tijuana and it was one of the sweetest experiences I've had.

In the mid 80s I found myself in Hawaii on business with my boss for a couple of days. I was still very much in the closest, but had begun to look for adventure whenever I was not at home. On this occasion, having done my research, I sat myself on one of the benches adjacent to the beach on Kalakaua Avenue in Waikiki around midnight. A cute guy much younger than I but to all appearances of age was sitting on the next bench. I had never picked someone up in this fashion and wasn't expecting the young'un to take an interest in a guy in his forties. Well, he did, and we started talking. He was visiting with his older brother from western Canada and, like me, had left his hotel looking for some fun. We clicked and were soon walking toward the very upscale beachfront hotel in which my employer and I were staying. My new friend was suitably impressed with the hotel and with my room, which featured an enormous poster bed complete with canopy. Clothes were quickly shed, and a night of amazingly hot sex ensued. We fell asleep in each other's arms, but in the morning I was so worn out that I had to feign a case of food poisoning to avoid having to meet my boss. As my friend was leaving, he asked me how I had enjoyed my night with an 18-year-old teenager. I told him it had been the best tryst I had ever had. We promised to stay in touch, but my subsequent travels never took me to western Canada and I never saw my Aloha friend again except in my half-waking dreams. Such is life.

When I was quite young my boyfriend and I decided to take the summer off and go to California. We hitched rides from New York City to San Francisco and back. We were gone all of June, July and August. We had sex everyday ..every and anywhere. Most of the rides we got were long hauls.
Jerry was so handsome and wild. I was young and in love. So many great stories I don't have the time to write them all down now. Sad to say we had a huge argument...I left in the middle of the night by sneaking out a window. When we both landed back in Manhattan we worked things out..He died of a drug overdose at his Mom's home on Long Island one month later. I carry a photo of him on my mobile.

Most of my travel stories involve checking out new escorts or venues in a new city; not so much cruising for locals. I visited a bath house in Florida on a work trip. It was a very open layout, the sauna was in a building in a courtyard. There was one other guy in there with me, very much my type, a furry little cub, but didn't seem that interested in me. A HUGE rainstorm hit while we were in there, I said something like "looks like we're going to be trapped in here for a while, want to fool around?" and we had a fun time.

Wow. Those are some hot stories. I was on a cruise about 4 years ago with my fiancé at the time. I always have had an attraction to guys, but always have had to keep it discreet. One night we were out in the deck partying and dancing when I noticed the DJ was smiling and enjoying watching me dance. He was a very attractive Romanian. So I went up to request a song and as I was trying to tell him, he put his hand on my shoulder and pulled me to his ear so I could speak. That made me so hard and I know he noticed. Then he whispered back into my ear.. “ok sexy, but I wanna watch you dance this dance for me.” So I kept on dancing all night. My fiancé was tired and went to bed and I stayed out. After the party was over around 3 am the Dj and I spoke a little. And the flirtation was strong. He suggested I meet him on the third deck aft and directed me to a certain door and he would be waiting. When I went it was the housekeeping closet. He had make a makeshift bed out of towels and sheets and he started giving me the most amazing BJ. I returned the favor. Very nervous if I was doing it right because this was the first time I had experienced an uncut dick. We went on for a bit and then i topped him. I didn’t last long, but there again neither did he. We both came at the same time and smiled and gave one big kiss. I still say hi to him from time to time on facebook. And, yes, we are trying to plan a trip so our travel itineraries match once again.

When I was 22, 3 generations of my family took a cruise. It was my first. I was naive and had a girlfriend at home and knew I was attracted to men but didn't identify as gay. The last night of the cruise, I talked to a handsome Swiss bartender who offered to advise me on places to visit in Europe. He had dark hair, green eyes, some body hair, and was in his early 30s. I was very thin with a large butt, dark hair, hazel eyes, and a shy demeanor. He asked me to meet him after work, which was around 4 am. When I got there, he gave me some suggestions for travel and then he used his key to open the locked kitchen door. He put a blanket on the floor and we had sex. It was my first time fucking and I was the bottom. We stayed in touch through mail for awhile. He was a very nice guy who made my first time a positive experience. When I came home, I began my journey of coming out. I think being away and being naive gave me the perceived freedom to have sex without having to take responsibility.

My first trip to Europe was on Icelandic Airlines, because they had the cheapest fare: JFK to Luxembourg via Keflavik, for $270 roundtrip, an open-ended ticket good for six weeks. I arrived in Luxembourg City in early evening and checked into my hotel, then decided to go for a walk, because I was screwed up by jet lag and not ready to go to sleep. I had a map of the old town and was walking around, when I passed an attractive older man, who saw the map in my hand and asked if I needed help. I explained that I had just arrived, but the tourist sites had closed for the day, so I was just wandering around getting my bearings. He offered to show me around, and after some pleasant banter he led me under a dark bridge in a deserted area. I was young but far from innocent, and when he stopped and turned toward me, I was ready for the grope. The next thing I knew, we were on the ground behind bushes just off the walkway, with our pants partly pushed down, and grinding away. It was over in a few minutes; we pulled ourselves together, he gave me a quick handshake and pointed me the direction back to my hotel, and left me. I had been in Europe only a few hours, and already had my first sex there.
 
My last hours on that trip were very similar. I had decided to spend the last night of my six week tour of Europe in Reykjavik at the Hotel Loftleider, which was owned by the airline. As I waited in the lobby to be taken to the airport for the flight to NY, I made eye contact with an attractive young man in an airline uniform. He got up and headed for the stairs down to the basement, where the hotel restrooms were located. Naturally, I followed him down there, and we had quick sex in a men's room stall. I got back up to the lobby just in time to get the shuttle bus to the airport, for a relaxed flight back to America.

Yup. That doc is right IMO. Was a bit bunged up and straining, put the grandkids step under my feet, leaned forward a bit and glory be. It worked.

I love to start by sucking on his flaccid cock and let it start to swell up in my mouth and throat over a period of time, then take a teaspoon of mineral oil as he his fully hard so I can easily take him deeper into my throat.....  Hmm. all the sudden my mouth is watering!!

While doing it, I particularly love to tease the tip of the spurting dick with my tongue in slow circular motions. It is ultra sensitive then, and I find the moaning and the uncontrollable shaking of the guy under this “torture”, well…priceless. 

The weight of the extra fluid makes it fun to handle. Not hard enough to go shwing, but enough to make it look, feel and move like something more important than schmeckle. 

I love to continue to suck a semi hard cock after he's cum (waste not want not,). Anyone else,?

A fountain bidet. I never want to live without it. I haven't used toilet paper in years! Using it is so barbaric.

Short answer... yes, I have! (but I already knew that)
https://nypost.com/2023/06/27/have-you-been-pooping-wrong-your-whole-life-doctor-reveals-hack/

The bottom line here is you should douche if you’re going to engage in anal sex. You should plan to “clean out” a couple hours before the appointment. This allows for the water to fully absorb and prevents a runny residue situation.
 
Buy an over the counter enema product, pour out the saline and refill with plain warm water. To do this properly is not a one and done process. You may have to repeat this a few times to get a “clean” result.
 
I’m a top (stop laughing) in most of my encounters and I still douche before an appointment. I love getting rimmed and it’s just common curtesy to offer a partner a fresh and clean playing field for a guy to burry his face.
 
I’d advise the provider that you’re a novice bottom so he’s able to adapt his approach so to speak. Also, don’t hire someone who’s exceptionally endowed if you’re not a well adapted bottom. The last thing you need is to have pain and discomfort in this situation.

By all means, if you're wanting to get fucked for any amount of time please prepare properly.
 
Case-in-point...
 
I had two guys over the past month both want to bottom, each spoke highly of their skill in taking dick like they were auditioning for the lead role in a Kevin Spacey docuseries, but whaddya know: Only one of them- the one who took the time to douche-out- was clean enough to eat a French Laundry tasting menu out of. The other became an unfun situation real, REAL fast.
 
I always try to make it clear that if certain kinds of play are expected, I have my own expectations for the prep work. It's no different than asking someone for a round of piss-play and they show up not having consumed one drop of water in the past few hours.

By all means- "DOUCHE" prior to having anal sex! I like to bottom when with a hot escort and one who knows how to please the guy who's occupying the "bottom bunk." If you don't douche and have an accident, neither of you will have enjoyed the play session!
 
If the top really desires to "plow the field" deeply-- he wants to do this w/o encountering any unnecessary and undesirable "weeds" !!

Please douche. It’s an inexpensive and simple process. Not douching (purposely) when you know the process exist is rude and nasty. Also, please don’t run soapy fingers up your ass if you cherish your beloved anal lining. It’ll possibly make your experience bottoming a painful one.

I know.... I read it the first time you posted.
 
Again, whether you'll bottom again or you'll never do it in your life. You must douche!
 
Maybe you can just ask him to use his douche if you want to save $2 or $18.

There is no substitute for real dick, once you become comfortable you can feel pleasure you never knew was possible. 
I started with a butt plug set, if you're patient and use lots of lube it will start to feel good pretty quick.
I also got a dildo with a suction cup, took the top of my toilet and put it on a towel on my bed. Stuck the dildo to it, get on it. Very similar to riding a real cock and you control everything.