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If I'm filthy rich I would definitely do this.

Went to the spa and had Chen. Almost like 40s guy. It seems like a rather "mild" approach when it comes to sensual massage. More like teasing and a watered down edging

Gay providers are picky, if not pickier, when it comes to clients. That's what grindr is for. Straight providers do their job and that's it. Some might be mechanical when doing the deed, but definitely there will be others who will do their best to keep their clients hooked, because it's their source of income. Massage itself is a form of relaxation. And "release" of stress. Why would I stress myself more to think if my provider will like me or not? Gay masseurs will do the massage, of course, you paid for it. But will they do their best? Maybe? If they like what they see... Physically. Let's be real. Some gay providers might have "certain" preferences. But would I waste time and energy to search for gay providers who will cater to me because I meet their "criteria"? Believe me, there are other parts of the world wherein majority of the provider or escort population are straight.

How does Chen look like? I wanna try him but I don't wanna be baited and switch with another masseur... Thanks!

@liny how did u find the sched? I thought their IG page is not posting anymore sched.. Do you have anymore schedule for them?

Anyway called prime last time, asked for who's working that day, and they mentioned "and Simon new"... Like a new guy probably. Who tried this Simon guy already? Anybody? Let me know and thanks!

@Beef-a-roni the customer probably pretended that he has somewhere to go and can't wait for an hour to finish your session, so this masseur of yours took advantage of you being too nice. Hun if that was me, I would have walked out already the moment I was put in that situation. I mean per my research, I know cherish in long island probably has the only option for "other choices" if u r not into asian men, but honestly, for me they charge less with the tip and they are more "flexible" with your needs 😂

This is is a big no no for me, double booking while you were waiting there, I mean, it would affect the “performance” for me, like I’m pretty sure he was all drained 🤣.

Story time: it happened like an hour ago and I was in shock. I’ve never encountered an exhibitionist in the flesh up until today. So I went back to this public park near my area which is highly known as a cruising spot. Last time I was there was back in October 2024. I’ve had some incidents in the past which prompted me to decide not to go back in that park, but I was trying to explore with some other cruising spots and my luck was like zerooo. So I thought ok maybe I’d go back to that specific park and just give somebody a helping hand for my spank bank. As much as possible, I am completely avoiding any oral intercourse of some sort due to a recent health scare (never tried an*l). So I went to the public restroom in the middle of the park and no luck. Few cars were in the parking lot, prolly because of the freezing 20 F weather. I already saw a guy in the urinal, not making some inviting actions. So I went inside the cubicle, when I got out, he was already playing with another dude, tried to be the third wheel but they don’t seem to be interested. Ok so I know that this park has another parking lot with a different restroom so went there… zero cruisers except those cars charging their EVs. I stayed there for a bit, hoping that there cruisers might come prolly in like a few mins. No luck. So I went back to the main parking lot and restroom, then I noticed this small white honda hrv like slowly circulating in the main lot, all of the other cruisers prolly already took the night off. It was just me, this white car and another one on the freaking far end corner that looks like a straight couple doing the nasty. I was curious as to why he keeps on changing his parking space, then he decided to park finally. I was in the middle and he was almost in the far left end of the lot. He got out, and I was wondering why he looks strange, like it seems that his clothes are too body fitting, mind you the lights were so dim in that main lot. But then I started to focus my eyes in him. It seems like his top was off… and he started touching his dick. When my eyes focused clearly, to my surprise, he was completely naked with only the shoes on, in the middle of this fckng winter. It just snowed the other day like WTF. So I got excited and went out of the car to approach him. But he suddenly went back inside, strangely, he started circling the lot again slowly. Driving in all of his naked glory. Btw, it was hot black guy, and yes, BBC is the appropriate description, which makes it a thousand times more horny. It looks like he just wants to play with his dick while somebody’s watching him. He parked back in the same spot, got out of the car and started his show again. This time he hand signaled me to approach him so I did, he looks like a big mature black dude that is so hot. And I was drooling to like touch and play with his dick. He asked me what do I want? I did not answer, I was hypnotized by his naked glory. So without permission, I started touching his dick. At first it seems ok to him, but he started backing out towards his car, saying he got oiled up and that he will go to the other parking lot because there’s a lot of like cars driving (which seems to be the complete opposite) so I backed out a bit too and respected him, before that I also kinda warned him about the security cams, but he said they were too far and out of his angle which was true, until I realized, maybe I have offended him or some sort of exhibitionism rule that maybe we’re not supposed to play with exhibitionists or something. It was hot. I thought I would never see him again. So I focused myself to some other cruisers. I caught somebody’s attention, another black dude, so fineeeeeee looking daddy with a long dong. Right then and there I like wanna sck it, but again, I’m practicing oral abstinence. So I just did the old trick: scking his nips while giving a helping hand. The dad brought out what I guess are poppers, and after a minute, he finished by himself. I thought my day was over after but then I started noticing the white honda again roaming. He was maybe thinking of finishing what he started. To cut it short, we were kinda circling the parking lots following each other and finding a peaceful spot for him to finish his show. ( there were 4 parking lots btw, 3 of them and restrooms, the other doesn’t. 10 pm, cops started showing for their patrol, park was closing, so I panicked and started to plan my exit until saw the car again, we went to parking lot without a restroom but with a pathway to some jogging trails. He got out of his car and started playing with himself again, this time smirking and enticing me, I did not stepped outside my car, I was just waiting for him to approach me as a form of respect, until he did, I warned him that cops are already patrolling at this hour, he said he’ll check if they are still there and he asked me to stay because he needs to fulfill one of his fantasies. To cut the story short, when he went back, he wanted to have a walk with me to the trail in the middle of the night while he was fully naked and I’m in my clothes on, which we did for like 30 seconds while him holding my hands. He said it’s the first time he did the CMNM thing. But he emphasized that he’s not the only exhibitionist in the park, another guy taught him to do it in that location, and that guys did the whole nine yards, literally like the whole trail without getting caught… I was shocked and we didn’t actually get to talk too much because he wanted to go back already, he just asked me if I also tried to do exhibitionism as well and I told him not yet ( btch in this weather? Not in a million years) so he thanked me after and said he’s hoping we could do it again for a longer time and he thanked me for fulfilling his fantasies. I was like, this hot black dude FULFILLED ONE OF MY FAVORITE PORN FANTASIES! CMNM and I was the CM, I was texting him thru text and yes I got his number, and I’m making sure that I will see him again… ( true story, up to you guys if u will believe it)

I think thailand would be the cheapest and has the most accessible locations for hiring escorts. I'd offer my country but there are a LOT of scammers (if you know, you know) there, even some escorts, not really safe for vacation but we have cheap priced escorts I think...

https://www.gayck.com/videos/57254/the-nerdy-lad-barber/?utm_source=pbweb I love how they are commited to the cutting of hair part of this porn, they really did shave some porn actor's head. But the transition was not smooth, not even one teasing foreplay scene before the action. Barber fantasies are one of my life goals to fulfill lol! And the "accidental" grazing of the bulge is like one of the must have foreplay of this fantasy! Come on! Haha

So he does manscaping by the client being on the sling? Is it like a cmnm situation kinda thing?

Does anybody have some amateur spanking photos? Like from their personal encounters? Just curious

Tried Aplus in medford. The most embarassing thing happened to me, while the masseur was wiping the oil from my as* crack, I f*rted lightly but like there’s a sound lol I was dying inside and I just apologized… like wtf.. tho I noticed something, I saw 2 huge bottles of medical grade mouthwash in their bathroom. Hmmm?? 🤔

Went to Prime at Franklin 3 times for the past 2 mos, I forgot the first one, 2nd was Kurt and 3rd was Chris. The first one used some glove thing which I heard from this post already, idk who that is but I didn’t like it. 3rd one was not so “pleasing” in terms of the massage and the other stuff, I just busted what needs to be busted for the sake of ending it. I was literally directing him what to do. 2nd one Kurt was the only one who, like for me, passed my standards, good with the massage and has a smooth transition to sensual touch. So this is me, from Jersey, finding a men spa that is not located from manhattan, and ended up in Long Island. A: I’m tired of commuting to the city, B: I don’t like using the masseur finder sites, they charge based on how they appear, more guns, more bucks, C : no men spas in jersey, or even a massage place with a male masseur that offers something “above and beyond”, D : I like the vibe of massage parlors, gives you the feeling of excitement but at the same time, discretion is a must, like being a young boy again (gosh this is hard to keep it PG) So I was reading this thread further and found some details about Bliss men’s spa, which only has one male masseur now. TBH, I love how teasing he can be, despite the twunky asian look that’s not really my type. He also seems a nice guy, my time was cut short because he said he has another appointment and he discounted the standard price. And also, I kinda finished unexpectedly lol. Seems to me that if the session was longer, the further it can go *wink wink* wise. I might go back for more…. any intel abt Aplus? Seems farther than the 2 I’ve mentioned, can you DM me spicy details? Lol thanks!

Ok, I went to prime men spa on Christmas day. Seems like a deserted place to me. No masseurs to be found, just one guy who works both at the front desk and a masseur as well. He said his name is Sam. The massage is adequate but the sensual, teasing portion was lacking. He just got some disposable gloves and some oil, and did some "digging" which I didn't enjoy at all. Seems mechanical. Come to think of it, if you live in manhattan area, men spas in the city might be better.

How can I contact this prime/aplus/ciao spa? Everybody says the link is not working anymore, can somebody dm me? Thanks

You should have demanded even for like a discount, since he cut your session short. Did you even finish?

Was wondering the same thing. Been here for 2 yrs and I couldn't find anywhere nearby

Located in Fort Lee in North Jersey, it's my first time going there after trying some neighboring spas in the vicinity. I know... I ain't looking for a scrub or massage so let's talk about the other stuff. I heard that they closed the steam section permanently due to indecent acts.. Yeah we can't help it, whoever getting it on the steam should have been more discreet. But I read from reddit about an online article that a massage therapist sexually assaulted a client in the spa (dunno if client was male or female, article didn't specify), which prompted them to close the steam too so that the DOH won't be at their backs, which drove some of their patrons out?... So it's my first time there and as a male entering the facility, they have the men's wet section where you have to be completely naked, and downstairs is the coed area like the other types of saunas, lounges and restaurants. I was literally observing the types of patrons that they have. It's a mix of asian, prolly korean, that are only there to scrub, some straight men (I guess because when I went downstairs, I saw their gfs or wives or friends or whatever) and what surprised me, are a few gay patrons. I can tell by the look in their eyes. But like my huge question is, how?? The door entry dividing the locker area from the wet section is half open, and there's a staff member guarding the door and handing out towels. Idk if it's been that way forever? Or was it after the indecency issues. Saw cameras on the locker section, like wtf? They can see people undressing and free balling. Jacuzzis and pools are in the middle of the floor, exposed to everyone. Korean scrubber who always has a customer. And the sauna room facing toward the door entry. The bottom half of the glass door of the sauna was painted maybe for modesty purposes but the light is so bright, you can see everybody from the inside like an aquarium. Showers and other sections are pretty much exposed as well. So how can they get some action inside?? I'm so curious? Or maybe I'm just misreading everything, and those are just some gay guys pretty much having their relaxation time? Anybody from NJ or NYC area who's been going there recently?

In front of an older guy… So I have been horny lately, and I’ve been craving for a good sensual massage which I am fond of. For some reason, I couldn’t find a decent legit one that is close to what we have back home. Been searching for places near NYC, jersey and other surrounding vicinities. And tbh, burning cash just because I’m in the search for a good teasing and edging is not the best way, my last one was in NYC in some men spa that I’ve had a year ago, but it definitely wasn’t as sensual as before. So I gave up. But the sexual tension was already built up and I’m really frustrated. It’s been fun sucking somebody’s dick or playing with it since I am a pleaser, but what about me?… So my biggest insecurity is my asian dick size, and living here in the US, you can’t really help but feel ashamed if you have a smaller cut. Like asian small. And I’m so insecure about it that I don’t wanna feel any rejection. So lately I’ve been to saunas/bath houses near our area, and it’s fun to be the giver, but then again, I’ve been craving for some good release with help. With sauna/spa/bathhouse places that are crowded, it’s hard to compete with well endowed individuals that are getting into action. If you have a smaller cut, chances are, they always expect you to do the kneeling.. and since I mentioned earlier, I was already sexually frustrated… So I planned on going in this korean sauna place wherein the reviews says that there’s literally zero traffic during weekdays and only active probably weekends. And most of the patrons are older korean grandpas… When I got there earlier, I instantly noticed the things that would prevent you from doing the sketchy stuff, like thin curtains as entrance in the men’s sauna, or the staff entering and cleaning without any notice, as well as cameras in coed sections like the sleeping area. You know that it’s gonna be hard to do the naughty shit in a place like this, and oh, they ask you to surrender your ID. But despite those “security measures” people still comment that they’ve done it in that spa, you just have to be really really sneaky. So ok, literally, nobody except an older white guy and a korean grandpa was inside the sauna section when I entered. The white guy was nice enough to explain to me the different sections of the spa, which is really small tbh, and I know for a fact that he was just being friendly and is straight because he was leaving when I came in, and it was still mid afternoon. Gay guys, or even older gay guys would definitely have stayed if they know they haven’t gotten any action yet in a secluded spa like that. After him, nobody came in. Like it was just me and the korean grandpa that was just waiting for his scrub session. And it went on for like 2 hours, and I was about to call it a day, so I sat in the scrub bed in the middle of the sauna that was almost parallel to the mirror outside the locker room, that reflects the curtain entrance. I stayed in that position (thinking that if somebody catches me then I would see them in an instant). So I started pleasuring and jacking myself, but then this another korean grandpa came in. I didn’t calculate how exposed I was in that mirror but I just sprang from the bed and covered myself with the towel beside me. I know that guy saw me and is definitely straight, because when I went out in the locker room, slightly panicked, he was undressing with a disgusted facial grimace and covering himself with a towel then went straight to the bathroom. At that time, I was still hoping that he can be a little bit playful, because I badly needed to bust a nut. So I went back inside and dipped in the pool while waiting for him to come inside. When he got out of the bathroom, he went straight to the steam room and never went back out. So, being that I’m having an intense blue balls that time, I was just about to bounce again, stepped in to the shower, trying to jack off, but afraid to get caught by the korean guy, went out in the locker to check my phone, when another old asian guy entered. Not korean for sure. I noticed with my side vision that he was glancing at me. So I went in front of the mirror and pretend that I was fixing myself while I’m looking at him. He really looks like a creepy old perv with a bulging belly. But at that time, I was so determined to unload some frustration. So when he entered the shower area, I was supposedly gonna shower beside him, but then he entered the steam where the korean grandpa was in. I stepped into the pool while waiting for the creepy perv to come out, like a minute after, he got out of the steam and went straight to the other pool. Then I noticed he was glancing at me again and smirking, so I went out of the pool and went straight to the nearest shower where he could see me. I started stroking myself in the shower while I was looking at him smiling at me from the pool. But then I remembered, that the korean grandpa was inside the steam and if he’s in the right position, he could definitely see me. So I went back to the other pool, and just when I was about to give him a show, the korean dude came out of the steam and went straight to the shower. He was facing the wall, so I started to rise above water level, just enough for my dick to show while the creepy perv is staring at me. I started stroking again even if I’m scared to get caught by the korean dude. The creepy perv was concentrated on watching me, and I started to get really really horny, when the korean dude finished showering, wiped himself and went straight to my pool section, so instantly I submerged myself while he was entering. The korean went to the opposite corner and covered his face with a towel. So I went out, while signaling the creepy perv to follow me, hopefully to the bathroom. It was like a minute and he wasn’t getting out of the pool. So I peaked in the glass door while stroking myself, giving the perv a show, so when I went back to the bathroom entrance, door open, I went the perv getting out of the pool. So I started stroking myself again, then when the perv saw me from the bathroom entrance, he was already wiping himself but still watching me jack off. He was smiling, and I was signaling him to approach me but then he said he’s ok. I hand gestured jacking me off but he refused, he just signaled no but still watching me and smirking. He even went to his locker area and started to dress up with the spa provided clothes. And then after that he went towards me again while I was still jacking off. He was just there, watching me, all clothed, while I was jacking off. Take note that I was draped in a towel with only my dick showing out. I feel like a thousand times horny in that position. I feel so exposed and vulnerable. Now I get the rush of people and the CMNM vibe. So he was really smirking and sarcastically smiling. And going back and forth with the glancing. I said screw it, I’m really horny, so I completely dropped my towel without thinking if somebody might catch me in that compromising position. And then I started moaning and my mouth was wide open while I started shooting my cum. It was intense, and he was just there, almost like a laughing smile. It was really hot at that time. But then here comes post nut clarity. I immediately wiped the cum off the floor with a towel, with him still standing there. And throwing the towel to the bin. I started to rush to my locker, and got dressed. I noticed he walked out before I could even walk out. So I rushed to the front desk, thinking that he will snitch me from the staff, surrendered my keys and went straight to my car. I felt so humiliated that I did that because of all the sexual frustration I’ve been having for the past days. But now, after all that, it became clear to me more, why cmnm fetish exists. Mix of excitement, the feeling of humiliation, like the other person is in control of you sort of. I hope I could meet more dirty pervs who will play with my small asian dick in places like those, like CMNM style. I just wish that perv dude played with my dick at least. Maybe he likes big dicks.

I mean, there are several providers I could find thru rent masseur or masseurfinder. But then, whenever I am checking for men spas, there's like zerooo. A lot of sketchy asian spas with female masseuse tho... I always find myself going to NYC for a men spa... Is it like illegal in the jersey state? Do you guys know any men spas in any location in jersey? Thanks!

Palisade park? You mean like sauna? Or are there male masseurs who does the trick too?

Idk but for me you have to be careful with choosing which spas/saunas to try because sometimes, you’ll never know if the crowd are gay men or straight. I witnessed before that somebody was thrown out of the facility because he was trying to make a move with another guy (probably straight/probably gay). Either the gay guy was pushy and he’s not interested, or he’s really straight. But you’ll see some signs, if you have a gaydar, you should have a straightdar as well 🤣

Ohh, yeah I was really expecting that based on reddit, but to my surprise, it was jam packed, and I’m the type that is shy when someone’s watching 🤣 and it’s a Tuesday so I’m also weirded out