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  1. Tried Aplus in medford. The most embarassing thing happened to me, while the masseur was wiping the oil from my as* crack, I f*rted lightly but like there’s a sound lol I was dying inside and I just apologized… like wtf.. tho I noticed something, I saw 2 huge bottles of medical grade mouthwash in their bathroom. Hmmm?? 🤔
  2. Went to Prime at Franklin 3 times for the past 2 mos, I forgot the first one, 2nd was Kurt and 3rd was Chris. The first one used some glove thing which I heard from this post already, idk who that is but I didn’t like it. 3rd one was not so “pleasing” in terms of the massage and the other stuff, I just busted what needs to be busted for the sake of ending it. I was literally directing him what to do. 2nd one Kurt was the only one who, like for me, passed my standards, good with the massage and has a smooth transition to sensual touch. So this is me, from Jersey, finding a men spa that is not located from manhattan, and ended up in Long Island. A: I’m tired of commuting to the city, B: I don’t like using the masseur finder sites, they charge based on how they appear, more guns, more bucks, C : no men spas in jersey, or even a massage place with a male masseur that offers something “above and beyond”, D : I like the vibe of massage parlors, gives you the feeling of excitement but at the same time, discretion is a must, like being a young boy again (gosh this is hard to keep it PG) So I was reading this thread further and found some details about Bliss men’s spa, which only has one male masseur now. TBH, I love how teasing he can be, despite the twunky asian look that’s not really my type. He also seems a nice guy, my time was cut short because he said he has another appointment and he discounted the standard price. And also, I kinda finished unexpectedly lol. Seems to me that if the session was longer, the further it can go *wink wink* wise. I might go back for more…. any intel abt Aplus? Seems farther than the 2 I’ve mentioned, can you DM me spicy details? Lol thanks!
  3. Ok, I went to prime men spa on Christmas day. Seems like a deserted place to me. No masseurs to be found, just one guy who works both at the front desk and a masseur as well. He said his name is Sam. The massage is adequate but the sensual, teasing portion was lacking. He just got some disposable gloves and some oil, and did some "digging" which I didn't enjoy at all. Seems mechanical. Come to think of it, if you live in manhattan area, men spas in the city might be better.
  4. How can I contact this prime/aplus/ciao spa? Everybody says the link is not working anymore, can somebody dm me? Thanks
  5. You should have demanded even for like a discount, since he cut your session short. Did you even finish?
  6. Was wondering the same thing. Been here for 2 yrs and I couldn't find anywhere nearby
  7. Located in Fort Lee in North Jersey, it's my first time going there after trying some neighboring spas in the vicinity. I know... I ain't looking for a scrub or massage so let's talk about the other stuff. I heard that they closed the steam section permanently due to indecent acts.. Yeah we can't help it, whoever getting it on the steam should have been more discreet. But I read from reddit about an online article that a massage therapist sexually assaulted a client in the spa (dunno if client was male or female, article didn't specify), which prompted them to close the steam too so that the DOH won't be at their backs, which drove some of their patrons out?... So it's my first time there and as a male entering the facility, they have the men's wet section where you have to be completely naked, and downstairs is the coed area like the other types of saunas, lounges and restaurants. I was literally observing the types of patrons that they have. It's a mix of asian, prolly korean, that are only there to scrub, some straight men (I guess because when I went downstairs, I saw their gfs or wives or friends or whatever) and what surprised me, are a few gay patrons. I can tell by the look in their eyes. But like my huge question is, how?? The door entry dividing the locker area from the wet section is half open, and there's a staff member guarding the door and handing out towels. Idk if it's been that way forever? Or was it after the indecency issues. Saw cameras on the locker section, like wtf? They can see people undressing and free balling. Jacuzzis and pools are in the middle of the floor, exposed to everyone. Korean scrubber who always has a customer. And the sauna room facing toward the door entry. The bottom half of the glass door of the sauna was painted maybe for modesty purposes but the light is so bright, you can see everybody from the inside like an aquarium. Showers and other sections are pretty much exposed as well. So how can they get some action inside?? I'm so curious? Or maybe I'm just misreading everything, and those are just some gay guys pretty much having their relaxation time? Anybody from NJ or NYC area who's been going there recently?
  8. In front of an older guy… So I have been horny lately, and I’ve been craving for a good sensual massage which I am fond of. For some reason, I couldn’t find a decent legit one that is close to what we have back home. Been searching for places near NYC, jersey and other surrounding vicinities. And tbh, burning cash just because I’m in the search for a good teasing and edging is not the best way, my last one was in NYC in some men spa that I’ve had a year ago, but it definitely wasn’t as sensual as before. So I gave up. But the sexual tension was already built up and I’m really frustrated. It’s been fun sucking somebody’s dick or playing with it since I am a pleaser, but what about me?… So my biggest insecurity is my asian dick size, and living here in the US, you can’t really help but feel ashamed if you have a smaller cut. Like asian small. And I’m so insecure about it that I don’t wanna feel any rejection. So lately I’ve been to saunas/bath houses near our area, and it’s fun to be the giver, but then again, I’ve been craving for some good release with help. With sauna/spa/bathhouse places that are crowded, it’s hard to compete with well endowed individuals that are getting into action. If you have a smaller cut, chances are, they always expect you to do the kneeling.. and since I mentioned earlier, I was already sexually frustrated… So I planned on going in this korean sauna place wherein the reviews says that there’s literally zero traffic during weekdays and only active probably weekends. And most of the patrons are older korean grandpas… When I got there earlier, I instantly noticed the things that would prevent you from doing the sketchy stuff, like thin curtains as entrance in the men’s sauna, or the staff entering and cleaning without any notice, as well as cameras in coed sections like the sleeping area. You know that it’s gonna be hard to do the naughty shit in a place like this, and oh, they ask you to surrender your ID. But despite those “security measures” people still comment that they’ve done it in that spa, you just have to be really really sneaky. So ok, literally, nobody except an older white guy and a korean grandpa was inside the sauna section when I entered. The white guy was nice enough to explain to me the different sections of the spa, which is really small tbh, and I know for a fact that he was just being friendly and is straight because he was leaving when I came in, and it was still mid afternoon. Gay guys, or even older gay guys would definitely have stayed if they know they haven’t gotten any action yet in a secluded spa like that. After him, nobody came in. Like it was just me and the korean grandpa that was just waiting for his scrub session. And it went on for like 2 hours, and I was about to call it a day, so I sat in the scrub bed in the middle of the sauna that was almost parallel to the mirror outside the locker room, that reflects the curtain entrance. I stayed in that position (thinking that if somebody catches me then I would see them in an instant). So I started pleasuring and jacking myself, but then this another korean grandpa came in. I didn’t calculate how exposed I was in that mirror but I just sprang from the bed and covered myself with the towel beside me. I know that guy saw me and is definitely straight, because when I went out in the locker room, slightly panicked, he was undressing with a disgusted facial grimace and covering himself with a towel then went straight to the bathroom. At that time, I was still hoping that he can be a little bit playful, because I badly needed to bust a nut. So I went back inside and dipped in the pool while waiting for him to come inside. When he got out of the bathroom, he went straight to the steam room and never went back out. So, being that I’m having an intense blue balls that time, I was just about to bounce again, stepped in to the shower, trying to jack off, but afraid to get caught by the korean guy, went out in the locker to check my phone, when another old asian guy entered. Not korean for sure. I noticed with my side vision that he was glancing at me. So I went in front of the mirror and pretend that I was fixing myself while I’m looking at him. He really looks like a creepy old perv with a bulging belly. But at that time, I was so determined to unload some frustration. So when he entered the shower area, I was supposedly gonna shower beside him, but then he entered the steam where the korean grandpa was in. I stepped into the pool while waiting for the creepy perv to come out, like a minute after, he got out of the steam and went straight to the other pool. Then I noticed he was glancing at me again and smirking, so I went out of the pool and went straight to the nearest shower where he could see me. I started stroking myself in the shower while I was looking at him smiling at me from the pool. But then I remembered, that the korean grandpa was inside the steam and if he’s in the right position, he could definitely see me. So I went back to the other pool, and just when I was about to give him a show, the korean dude came out of the steam and went straight to the shower. He was facing the wall, so I started to rise above water level, just enough for my dick to show while the creepy perv is staring at me. I started stroking again even if I’m scared to get caught by the korean dude. The creepy perv was concentrated on watching me, and I started to get really really horny, when the korean dude finished showering, wiped himself and went straight to my pool section, so instantly I submerged myself while he was entering. The korean went to the opposite corner and covered his face with a towel. So I went out, while signaling the creepy perv to follow me, hopefully to the bathroom. It was like a minute and he wasn’t getting out of the pool. So I peaked in the glass door while stroking myself, giving the perv a show, so when I went back to the bathroom entrance, door open, I went the perv getting out of the pool. So I started stroking myself again, then when the perv saw me from the bathroom entrance, he was already wiping himself but still watching me jack off. He was smiling, and I was signaling him to approach me but then he said he’s ok. I hand gestured jacking me off but he refused, he just signaled no but still watching me and smirking. He even went to his locker area and started to dress up with the spa provided clothes. And then after that he went towards me again while I was still jacking off. He was just there, watching me, all clothed, while I was jacking off. Take note that I was draped in a towel with only my dick showing out. I feel like a thousand times horny in that position. I feel so exposed and vulnerable. Now I get the rush of people and the CMNM vibe. So he was really smirking and sarcastically smiling. And going back and forth with the glancing. I said screw it, I’m really horny, so I completely dropped my towel without thinking if somebody might catch me in that compromising position. And then I started moaning and my mouth was wide open while I started shooting my cum. It was intense, and he was just there, almost like a laughing smile. It was really hot at that time. But then here comes post nut clarity. I immediately wiped the cum off the floor with a towel, with him still standing there. And throwing the towel to the bin. I started to rush to my locker, and got dressed. I noticed he walked out before I could even walk out. So I rushed to the front desk, thinking that he will snitch me from the staff, surrendered my keys and went straight to my car. I felt so humiliated that I did that because of all the sexual frustration I’ve been having for the past days. But now, after all that, it became clear to me more, why cmnm fetish exists. Mix of excitement, the feeling of humiliation, like the other person is in control of you sort of. I hope I could meet more dirty pervs who will play with my small asian dick in places like those, like CMNM style. I just wish that perv dude played with my dick at least. Maybe he likes big dicks.
  9. I mean, there are several providers I could find thru rent masseur or masseurfinder. But then, whenever I am checking for men spas, there's like zerooo. A lot of sketchy asian spas with female masseuse tho... I always find myself going to NYC for a men spa... Is it like illegal in the jersey state? Do you guys know any men spas in any location in jersey? Thanks!
  10. Palisade park? You mean like sauna? Or are there male masseurs who does the trick too?
  11. Idk but for me you have to be careful with choosing which spas/saunas to try because sometimes, you’ll never know if the crowd are gay men or straight. I witnessed before that somebody was thrown out of the facility because he was trying to make a move with another guy (probably straight/probably gay). Either the gay guy was pushy and he’s not interested, or he’s really straight. But you’ll see some signs, if you have a gaydar, you should have a straightdar as well 🤣
  12. Ohh, yeah I was really expecting that based on reddit, but to my surprise, it was jam packed, and I’m the type that is shy when someone’s watching 🤣 and it’s a Tuesday so I’m also weirded out
  13. Located in North Jersey, around Fort Lee? Near NYC. I saw it on hole hunter, and I was expecting it to have like 1 or 2 patrons inside the wet area, I was f-ing surprised when I saw a lot of gay men. Soon as I walked in, there’s like tons of gays in action, in the steam, in the sleeping area and showers. I saw this white hunky guy, real head turner with his abs and all, but he’s like all over the place, kneeling and doing the deed like there’s no tomorrow 😅 I wasn’t able to approach him because based on his interactions with other patrons, he’s more into white guys with huuuuge dongs.. hahaha so, an asian small dcked bitch never stood a chance. Scored a latino cutie tho… will definitely come back. Don’t ask me about the massage, will never do it again with that spa… who here has stories from that spa??
  14. Actual CMNM 🤭
  15. Why are all men spas in NYC are run by Chinese people? I mean yes, massage industry are mostly consisting of asians.. And I'm asian.... But I just wanna try some different guys... (and dcks jk 😂)
  16. Went earlier, had somebody named Terry. Massage was average. Actually, just typical swedish. I don't even think that its a well thought of massage routine. More of like gliding at my back. He should've just focused on my glutes and the nether region 😅. Typical HE as well. He asked for a certain amount of tip because the massage was "cheap" and that it all goes to the owner and that they're relying on tips. Not surprised because he said all of the are young chinese men... What kind of Chinese Mafia runs all the men spas in NYC? 🙄 Like the other guys are either in rent men, rent masseur or masseur finder cuz asian masseurs are dominating the city
  17. Had a massage here earlier, been there like 3 times already. 1st 2 massages I had was (what's close to) sensual massage leading towards HE. I like a good sensual massage with swedish moves.... I went there expecting that all masseurs have the same routine with sensual touches. I had someone named Jason which I'm pretty sure is not his real name 😅 had a good sports massage in the beginning and no hints of sensual or erotic massage. He had a his thing bumping at the top of my head but not so much "tease" which what I crave for these days.. A great sensual massage for me is something that resembles a foreplay 😅 I had HE though... The usual... Though kudos to a great sports massage
  18. Gay Massage Woodland Park by Sal | Best Male Massage Woodland Park WWW.PERSONALTOUCH.DIRECTORY Book your gay massage with Sal Panicci, Male Massage Therapist in Woodland Park, New Jersey. Read... Saw him on this site. Says "gay massage". He seems like an italian guy in his 50s? When I asked him, he said he does "Real massage and not rub" Anybody tried him?
  19. Located in Fairlawn NJ. Storytime: I badly needed a massage so I reserved a masseur earlier for a spot. Initially, I didn't notice that the length of time I reserved was 30 mins, and there's no option to cancel it. So when I went there, I explained to the front desk that will avail an hour instead of just half. She was checking the masseur's sched and said that I can be accomodated. Looking at the sauna or wet area, it seems coed and there's no separation for boys and girls, so it's weird to have any actions in between patrons. But if there's a will? Haha.. Ok so I just went there for a massage and they said there's a separate fee for the sauna and pool amenities.. The masseur came down and his name is E*****. He seems like an old russian guy in his early 50s with a beer belly. I was not expecting any hanky pankys because he seems like the type of masseur that's too conservative for any action. So he directed me to the massage floor across all the wet area section. I had a decent private spa room with a nice dim lighting and most probably, it was also convertible to facial room since I saw equipments. Masseur E was in his loose shirt and jogging pants so you already know, percentage of having any sketchy stuff is almost zero. He asked me to strip naked and lay on my back face down. I'm used to stripping everything including undies because in our country, massage places especially those that cater M4M massage always requires you to strip everything. I just heard that here, therapists will sometimes ask you to be either in your undies or a spa provided shorts. So he started with my back as usual. And what I noticed abt him is that he's really skilled and knows good strokes. You know that he's been doing this for probably more than 10 yrs.... And then I noticed him adjusting the level of the massage bed lower. And the bulge game started. I was hesitant to make any moves because the spa seems like a legit kind and I don't want to get thrown out. At first I thought that maybe it was just his beer belly or the garter of his pants sliding across my palm and elbow. But as it was getting more closer and defined, I noticed that it was his bulge. If it was back in my country, I would have pulled his garter closer and put his pants down. But I said no hahaha since this is a legit spa and not some men spa you could find in NYC, I kept my cool. His bulge actually kept on bumping my head after that and I know that these were already signs. But I chickened out. There were times that when he was grazing it in my palm, I was trying to cup it with my pinky and ring finger, but it's too faint for him to notice. He went down to my legs and I was expecting him to be more sensual but I guess since I wasn't responding to him, he gave me a regular leg massage. In fact it was too draped that he never touched my inner thighs or bum area... After that, he said, 30 mins was done. And I told him I availed an hour, while trying to get out of bed and covering my dck and ass. I was too ashamed to like get up without any proper cover since I already made it awkward. He might have taken this as a signal that I wasn't interested for any hanky panky that when he came back from the front desk, he proceeded with the usual massage strokes and draping me more. I really don't know if it's a missed opportunity. Because I'm pretty sure they have gay patrons just by scouting the wet area, I've seen older gay men lying around. And when there are gay patrons in a massage place, you already know what happens. He assisted me downstairs and directed me to the wet area to check out the facilities (which I didn't avail). There's too many old men. Some with their wives, and some are noticeably hunting for action. I'm the type of person that is discreet even in looking for some action. In saunas or spas like that, I'd rather have co patron action if it's only less than a handful of people on the floor. But earlier, it was too jampacked for me with old and family men. Maybe I'd go there some other time like morning when it's less crowded. So any patrons who tried this spa before?
  20. So I was trying to search for gloryholes in NYC, and I've seen in hole hunter some options like those adult dvd store and sex shops with arcade booths that has holes in them, but when I got there (Jayasara?) it was like permanently closed? Like with chains and lock. Then I went to another one, a few blocks away from port authority and same thing.. It was only like 8pm.. Are they illegal and like did they close these establishments permanently for a reason?
  21. Ok, so I'm not really a grindr user, probably only for less than a year now. I just started using it since when I moved here in the US. Finding hook ups is hard especially to an asian guy like me. And I'm the type of person who doesn't send face pic for two reasons: first, I'm paranoid about everything concerning privacy. Even if it's like an expiring photo or something. And second, I have a lot of body insecurities, from head to toe. So, finding somebody who would agree to meet up anonymously is like very rare. And I chatted with this one guy who seems to have a decent description in his profile and he's black. I've never had a BBC before so like my excitement is through the roof. My first rookie mistake that day was agreeing to meet up in his place and not mine. My thoughts are like, what if he's a scammer or thief that can rob me? Somethin like that. So he told me his address, and when I got there, it seems like your typical grandparent's house. When I saw him, he looks decent and like your typical bear body type. So when he saw me, he didn't say anything at all, he just signaled me to keep quiet and go straight upstairs. That means he lives in his parent's house.... And ok I entered the door, which btw is unhinged from the wall, and I saw this horrific dumpster like garbage everywhere. It seems like a college dorm room x10000 omg... He said sorry for all the mess and I was pretending to be ok. But it's like a huge turn off for me. Luckily when he undressed, that's when I saw his huge snake, like porn like dick. I'm afraid that I couldn't DT it. I'm a side btw. And it's directly posted in my profile that at most, I do everything except anal, receiving and especially giving. I discussed it with him prior, but still, black guy like him with that kind of dong, must have high hopes at the back of my mind. When I first sucked his dck, it had an unpleasant taste to it, but I kept thinking that I dreamed about trying a black dck before so I should just suck it up, literally. He said I should undress too so he could suck my dck, but I said it's really asian size, and I wasn't getting hard because of all the mess.. So when he saw it, he kinda got disappointed. My personality is, I'm a people pleaser, so when I saw his face, I just suddenly offered to do more kinky stuff like rimming him... So he turned around and he had a really huge ass, like you could really get suffocated. And yes, I tasted sh*t, and almost gagged.... Oh god, I said to him, can you maybe wash your down there for a bit.... So he went to the bathroom and when he got back and I continued rimming him, it still tastes like sht mixed with like an old spice cologne or something. Then I asked him, did you put something in there? And he said he used an old spice type of body wash..... Oh god, I just said to him, maybe you could turn around so I could continue sucking his dick.... Luckily, I think my mouth already got rid of all the musty odor and weird taste from his dck, so like back to a regular tasting dck. Yeah, then he probably got turned on by that so he started forcing me verbally to be anally fckd. It was like a good 15 mins before he gave up... I mean, even if I agree, hypothetically, to get drilled that day, a lot of messy stuff had already been done that was kinda of a turn off for me. So I went back to sucking his dck and him watching a porn in his phone, when all of a sudden, his phone rang, I think it was like the bank calling him and literally the girl on the other line said he had to pay like a negative balance or something from his credit card, which he declared missing. After the call ended, he started kissing me and asked if he could borrow some money for me... At this point I thought, I might get beaten up if I wouldn't give him any money. But I said, I just paid my bills and had sent money to my parents etc... He was asking as well if he could live in my place temporarily, which I said is impossible because I have a roommate... So he went back to concentrating on his porn and me getting him off. After that, he insisted to cuddle and started asking me again about borrowing some money, which at this point, I just made up some stories just so he could get the hint that I am not gonna lend him anything. When I went home, we just texted our good byes with each other and all that thank you stuff but like 3 days later, he texted if he could meet up again. Btch I blockd him.. I can't. We both got disappointed.
  22. Yeah sending your personal photo had something to do with it. Either he's not into you or something worse. Which shouldn't be the case because legit MTs shouldn't base accepting clients with their faces. That's what grindr is for... 🙄
  23. Says on the review the admission fee is expensive, didn’t even know there’s supposed to be a fee? And are there gloryholes or something? 🤣
  24. 1963 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
  25. He's visiting here in NJ right now. Any info about his massage specialties? Thanks https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/42295/
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