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To respect the admin and the forum guidelines, I wouldn’t respond to that. That’s just my opinion. I’d rather not discuss where I got that idea or notion from. I just don’t want to move in Pennsylvania. Period 🙂. It’s a nice state.

Idk where to ask my question but if there's any other thread where I should post this, let me know. Ok so just a quick one: let's just say that I've tried probably all types of sausages.... Ohh kidding, I mean all types of providers from white guys, to blacks, latinos, lots of chinese, an indian one, arab guys (twice, I think iranian one and a pakistani?), japanese, even french guy, Filipino (of course), russian, thai, I mean probably all types of cuisine... kidding... ish... Well anything but Korean. And I'm not talking about those korean grandpas who does massage in ksaunas, because as much as I appreciate how good their massage is, we all know what I'm looking for.. Lol... Massage of course! Please please please does anybody of you know a provider who's 100% korean... coz I wanna try Bulgogi ❤️ kidding! If it helps I live in Jersey near NYC, can travel, and I also have an upcoming trip to LA. Any suggestions (anywhere in the US) will do. I just wanna try an aunthentic korean.... massage.

"Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable." @pubic_assistance sadly most of my coworkers who's also asian/filipino says that it's not a good place to live in. Not a lot of diversity. It's hard but that's one factor I also have to consider. I just have to say this and I'm sorry I don't want to offend any race or anything, but majority if not all, in that state, are white people. With strong political views. And I'm just trying to stay neutral as an immigrant but with the current political climate here, I feel so unsafe. I am a permanent resident here. With proper documents and definitely no criminal records. But nowadays, those documents won't protect you from these purging situation of the immigrants. I came to the point wherein the paranoid me would wanna go back to the Philippines for vacation but is afraid that the system would come up with something like frame me for something so I could get deported. That's how scary I portray the current administration is 😩

Ok, so just a quick one.. I couldn't help but have another session with Peter because I really like the pressure of his massage. Reminds me so much of the traditional massage in my country. Very therapeutic and obviously more than sufficient for me. The ending, tbh, is way better than the first one, in fact, I'm gonna say that I didn't expect it to be really "interactive" lol! All my senses were awakened and then relieved after lol 😆 anyway he acknowledged what happened to me at yulong spa. He mentioned the names of the two guys who massaged me and used his name. My mistake probably is I didn't ask for his contact details from some patrons of him instead of directing to that spa. He actually apologized for them, and I said no, they should be the one apologizing, not him. Anyway I'd rather always have a session with him in flushing instead. But for clients who live in manhattan, to lessen the risk of getting scammed with the bait and switch thing, he want you guys to just text him thru his contact number (and never the spa number) so he can arrange the date he can be present in the spa because he said "he doesn't have fixed working days" there. (and never trust the spa's booking website, that f-ing annoying site lol). You know what to do lol.

I had this last December. Omg and I'm a side. I thought it was like what you see in porn. I never bottomed at all. So it was really painful. He didn't even ease into it, he just inserted his pointing finger. I got shocked lol

Hey guys, so I know I think it's better to post this kind of question on a platform like reddit, but maybe I can get a reasonable answer in here as well. Just to give you a background, I migrated here in the US around 2022. I am from the Philippines and I'm an RN. Uprooting my life from my country to this foreign land was difficult. Homesickness is like one of your enemies. Cultural differences also can be a factor. But thank God I think I am way past those... at the moment lol. So probably some of you guys know that Filipinos have nursing degrees. And I admit, income is better than some other jobs. But in this current economy and political climate, the cost of living is becoming worse. My main source of income is my job and my extras come from my per diem job. I am not lazy, though at times, I'm thinking about how other people in my age group are already talking about investments, and stocks, or running a business or probably content creating thru OF...LOL kidding. I am the type of person wherein I'm somewhat playing safe all the time. Even in stuff like business or investments. Probably because I grew up in a household wherein we're not rich, and that all of the small businesses my parents tried failed. I'm just telling this just to emphasize that for now, my main source of income would be my employment. So going back, I live in North Jersey. And I started in Central Jersey. The cost of living when I entered here vs now sky rocketed. Like from food and groceries, to rent, to probably gas. It seems like I'm trying to adjust myself to the world around me but my salary isn't actually keeping up with it lol. And as much as possible, I try to avoid any miscellaneous expenses like material stuff... Clothes or shoes or even vacation budget. But still, I can feel struggling and my savings are stagnant. So few months ago, I thought about relocating. One place that was suggested to me by my ex co worker was Seattle. I went there for a little trip, place was nice, the people were ok, as well as the weather, rent was also reasonable, but the food and grocery prices seems high as well as gas price (which is almost 3x than what we have here in Jersey). I have an upcominh trip in LA but I'm just considering California because the offer for RNs in California is way higher than what we have here in jersey or even nyc for that matter. And I know it kinda balances out with the cost of living, but maybe you guys have any other suggestions of places or whatever so I can save more money for myself. When relocating, I am hoping to find a place that has: 1. Good weather 2. Low to none crime rate 3. Low rent prices 4. Cost efficient in groceries and food prices as well as gas 5. Diversified place Any suggestions? I feel lost, financially speaking lol.

I can't 😂😂😂😂

Ok so I'm just gonna make a short review of the actual Peter that was beloved by a lot of his clients since then. So after I got scammed by whoever that young man in Yulong spa that introduced himself as Peter, but then did the switcheroo with an older guy, I vowed that I will never come back to that spa. Again, to that member who harassed me on dms and here on this thread, I will reiterate, I retracted my statement, it wasn't the actual Peter but somebody claiming that he's Peter. And I never tainted or especially destroyed anybody's reputation, so please, if you ever read this, do not comment or harass me again because I already included you in my ignored users and it's gonna be useless. Anyway thanks to another member who shared the actual Peter's personal number, I got a session with him in his Flushing place. Yes, he does acupuncture and yes, it wasn't the young guy I saw in Yulong but an older one. I didn't have any expectations with the session tbh. So I got into the table, and when he started the massage, let me tell you this, it was one of the best strong massage that I've had. I don’t know how he did that, but his hands are really strong and the pressure really is hard, but orgasmic lol! I never liked really hard massage, but this one, it was the right strokes, pressure and it was the best timing because I was having a bad stiff neck and shoulders. It wasn't the harsh use of pointy elbows that most asian masseurs does. It was like his weight was gravitating towards his hands and arms and evenly spreads in my back and glutes and arms. It was really the best massage I've had so far here in the US. He even mentioned that he had 20 years of experience like 10 in china and 10 here in the US and it shows. The sensual part was incorporated well towards the end of the massage. It was also great, I've had better tho, but the sensuality was more than enough for me to be satisfied 100%. I won't go into detail about that because I will be going back for more definitely... Anyway ok guys you can go back to talking about time square men spa. PS I've been there once but I forgot what happened honestly because it was 3 years ago. Just trying to be relatable lol (also another PS, his massage price is too cheap, but when I was giving more money he refused it like up until I was on my way out, we were like having a tug of war when he kept on putting back the cash on my bag, he was too kind and said "first time price" , like I really feel bad because he's refusing the tip because his massage is way better than the pricey massage chain, like honestly he deserves to charge more than them)

I agree with associating "edging" in contents to make sessions longer and more profitable. It's actually annoying because most of these OF creators are basically just jerking them off and trying to make the time longer. Edging sessions from way back was much better even in porn. And tbh, it actually should be a therapeutic approach to ED or PE and prostate health. Edging should be differentiated with handjobs or milking whatsoever. Sometimes even edging doesn't require release (na ah not for me I hate it when some does that lol)

I’ve said enough lol. Just go to thailand for an authentic whatever the hell he offers. He’s Filipino Canadian who allegedly learned Thai massage. xxx And he’s probably just focusing on what he can content on his channel/site. So just be careful. Edit: Guideline violation

I apologize on behalf of this Filipino “therapist”, even I am annoyed on what he just said on the video. Either he got pissed the guy came early, or he’s pretending to be a professional therapist on cam that he does not encourage ejaculation during sessions. Like are you kidding me, you touched the dick of course it’ll get stimulated. It’s written in the description of the genital detox thing Jab Karsai whatever that you shouldn’t touch the penis itself but the surrounding areas. And it originated from Thailand so it says, and he’s Filipino Canadian. Southeast asian most of the time look alike but trust me, we’re all different lol. If you want genital detox, just go to thailand to find an authentic one. In the Philippines, masseurs or providers are always promoting gimmicks that didn’t even originate in the country itself, like Nuru massage, which is from japan but there’s an all men spa there that allegedly practices “nuru” massage, even promoting them as nuru men (which sadly got raided lol). Also, almost all massage place in the Philippines, particularly ones with masseurs says they offer Lingam massage which is a massage to help eliminate erectile dysfunction, but again this originated in thailand. Yes, we are good at “scamming” lol and that’s sad, especially foreigners to that country wouldn’t really know the difference. But yeah, whatever the massage “therapist” on the video was blabbering about, he probably learned it on a youtube tutorial or something. Hot, but him responding to it like that, is a total turn off and quite frankly, disrespectful Btw side note: I had Lingam massage from a masseur who claimed to have studied it while he was in Thailand.. Dunno if that's true. But yeah, it's basically edging and milking but make it more sensual and p*nis focused. I really miss that because I think I lasted two hours on that session before I came... And then another one after a few minutes. I don't know how to do it, but it's hard for the therapist's part, because he has to be patient and at the same time just concentrated with the penis itself. Most of the edging videos I watch that were created by white people (sorry lol) are just plain teasing and stroking either lightly or in a normal jerking off manner.. Lingam is much more different, like movements I never knew existed... Honestly I badly need it again because I think I'm having PE despite my age lol. Sadly, idk where to find here in the US where most HE's are either straight up an*l or HJ lol.

I was eyeing this profile but then on rentmen he says "no full service" like hmm... Ok so boring plain therapeutic? Lol

I just had to share this because this is too funny for me. I recently had an encounter in the woods near a very famous cruising spot in north jersey around park closing time. Two guys were speaking in spanish and they seem kinda gorgeous, asking me if I was a top, bottom or verse, and I said side, so basically the tall guy, started whipping his c*ck out and then the gangster looking one as well. Long story short, I enjoyed big latino dcks that night, it was so hot that I was craving for more. So I went on sniffies and basically made like a field trip out of it. Then I remember this park that’s at the back of a mall, weirdly they say it’s cruising spot, and I’ve seen tons of activities on it from sniffies. So I went today, but there’s like nobody. Idk if somebody walks in there at night before closing because 1. It’s too dark but exposed to people from the mall parking lot and 2. Too much police activity according to some users, so I was just like taking some photos of the trees since it’s nice during fall. And then I saw THIS (zoom in): (b*tch somebody had a freaky night lol)

I had the typical vanilla type of experience from Jason that’s for sure, but upon checking the google reviews, it seems that they have more male therapists, saw names like kevin or david. And when I called earlier, they said they have 3, one named Leo and what I had again was Jason. Now you heard somebody named Neil? This spa is interesting tho lol. Anybody tried other masseur than Jason?

When I was in Seattle, a spa called Palace spa was a previously russian owned establishment, and I think they require to wear shorts for men, idk if it’s a tradition. But only the russian or straight men do wear shorts lol.

@Manhattan I sent a text prior and they said I could come earlier and he will accomodate me. He was there inside the spa and before he directed me to the bed (because there were no beds) and when I stepped foot in that spa I even asked the receptionist/the older guy if Peter will do the massage and he said "yes, follow him". And the reason why I texted instead of called is for them to use google translate instead because I know chinese people do that. If "Peter" is a famous massage therapist and he owns/manages that spa, don't you think he might have just: 1. Switched me with another therapist because he might have a VIP or a loyal client coming to see him and got double booked with my time or 2. He's giving a chance for his other colleagues to get a client that time which might be ok for some clients but I did not request for this old guy. Also there are countless of stories about asian spas switching masseurs mid session without informing the client and not just this one, which is UNPROFESSIONAL. And please whoever you are @Manhattan, don't compare this to that "Lukas/Cherish" situation last time, I know he's either you or your "favorite" because when I made that post, there are screen shots, with TIME STAMPS shown proving that I waited outside that f-ing foot spa if you could even call it that. And don't use that f-ing excuse that "you cannot come early because they have clients inside that they are attending to" b**ch again I WAITED RIGHT OUTSIDE THEIR DOOR for 26 mins after the agreed upon 4 PM schedule, don't you think whatever sh*t they were doing inside should have been ended in 26 mins after our AGREED UPON 4 PM schedule??? And the time stamps on the text exchange shows it. And please don't lecture me again about "if the provider is great, we should compromise whatever bull crap they are doing" yeah right. Your so called "Lukas" on Long Island thread, has tons of negative reviews as well fyi... And I didn't even requested him when I was supposed to have my first session there... The hell...

@luvhusky @NYMassageAddict pretty sure it’s Peter, I verified before I left after almost having an argument with him. He looks nice for a chinese middle aged man but there are plenty of fish in the sea. I don’t need to beg for a session with him lol. I was just curious about why he got good feedbacks, but clearly, being a massage therapist doesn’t include professionalism for him

They are actually Latinas. But they were polite and so nice, still smiling even if I left with my money refunded. If it’s any asian woman, I think they would fight for the no refund policy stuff. And I’m and asian so don’t come for me in the comments lol

I know, a lot of members messaged me about this and I answered this one already thru comments, it gives the sense of thrill or excitement of finding a male massage therapist in a spa vs directly hiring from rentmasseur or rent men. Believe me, for the past month, I’ve tried one from each app or site, and it’s not the same feeling for me. It also doesn’t help that both of those that I tried are like money boys, just in it for the pay and no effort towards the “job”. But yeah, going to massage parlors are like reminiscent of my country. Plenty of what they call “men spas” here. And some are 24 hrs. It’s the thrill of getting raided by the police ..KIDDING! In my country, sensual/semi erotic massage is like the new trend for each m4m spas and then you can mingle with co clients after in the wet area/ steam or sauna.

I was at Yu Long spa earlier. I requested for Peter at around 12 noon. But I got there early like 45 mins, so I texted if I could come early and if Peter can work that time, they replied yes I could come. When I went there, Peter was also just getting in the spa. I clarified the older guy at the front desk if he’s available, he said yes and to follow Peter. So he assisted me to my bed and I assumed it was him during the massage, when I turned over it was the f-ing older guy. I don’t wanna make a scene so I let him do his job but cut the massage like 10 mins early. When I went to the front desk, Peter was there and I questioned why did they switch? He doesn’t seem to understand me so I said I requested for you, why did you switch? He said, I have to massage client, I massage you next time. Like there was nobody there? Except the female masseuse and another client. I was super annoyed but then he started to frown and get angry, so I don’t want to make a scene and just gave my money and left. Patrons of Peter, like those who really are loyal clients, can you explain to me what is this behavior? What’s with the switch. Di he get confused with the time? Was it supposed to be me? Or does he really have another client???? All I can hear are positive reviews from him from his old spa days at renew, but is he not open to new clients???

I don’t know if it’s my fault or the masseuse whom I had a call with. So I am still hunting for a massage place here in Jersey that has a male therapist and does the “other” stuff too, so I ended up reading google reviews. Further down in jersey I saw a massage place in scotch plains called wellness massage spa. I thought I saw a review from a guy saying a masseur named Joel is good. So I basically called them, based from what I heard I thought she was an asian so I assumed it was an asian lady, I asked if they have a male massage therapist and they said yes, I even clarified it and they said yes. So it was like 44 mins away from me, I drove all the way to that area. And a latina lady probably in her 50s assisted me inside. Their massage place has like blacked out curtains so you cannot see anything from the outside. She said 100 dollars cash only, and I knew there was something sketchy going on. Cash? Lol and there was a shower room for clients. So I said can I shower first? She told me yes. All this interaction and conversation I didn’t think she had an issue with speaking in english or whatever. So I changed into a robe that was inside the room, which btw has sound proof foams sticked to the door, like wtf is going on? Lol and then I went to the shower area, finished showering, and this lady told me to lay down, but before that, she introduced me to another latina lady in her 50s and said they’re both gonna do the massage. I was startled tbh, told them I asked for a “male” massage therapist. And they both are looking at me like they are clueless to what I am saying. So I asked them, do you guys speak english, and they said yes, and before I pulled out my phone for google translate, the other lady said what do you want? I told her a male therapist, a “guy” a “man”, and that’s when she said hombre? I said YES! Lol, long story short, they don’t have a male therapist after I travelled so far, which is fine, but yeah, they returned my money and I tipped them like 10 bucks because I showered basically. They were nice and still apologetic after it. It’s just that it’s hard if you have this language barrier with providers or MTs. Sometimes, it’s hard to also describe or tell them what you really want during a session….

Three words: Chloroform, dungeon, slave. Good luck

Just had Timmy for the second time around, idk why but I really find him cute and handsome despite acting a bit fem. I mean, at some point, every gay guy has a capability to be effem. Still a stellar performance when it comes to sensual, but like minus 0.5 from my first try with him. Maybe because I was stiff at first because of the cold weather plus I a felt some stomach rumble during the massage, don’t want any accidents lol! But yeah, great massage and great HE, in fact, it was too wild for a s*de like me. Gosh I wanna be as detailed as possible but it’s really rated R lol. Still think his best suitable client would be a t*p, either power or verse, I think it will release his full potential. And the body smell, oh gosh, I don’t know what cologne or perfume he placed in his body but it’s not tol harsh, kinda smells like a baby, like I could be addicted to it. He smells so damn good, I felt embarrassed for myself because I just got off from work. Like I haven’t taken a bath…

B*tch the annoying pixelations of japanese nudity kills me lol. But I get the point, I just which there’s like a translation like what are the benefits or importance of stretching your b*llsack. I mean I’m pretty convinced at this point that every country wants to have their version of sexual techniques like the Kamasutra of India or the Linggam massage of Thailand or the Lomi Lomi of Hawaii kinda thing, which basically are just the same, foreplay for sexual arousal. Now if there are scientific benefits like longer life span or avoiding prostate cancer, then it would be interesting. Btw I wish I have balls that are hanging low like that. They’re usually small and shy lol

@DMonDude yes! Lol 😂 btw care to share your Filipino providers? I miss Native longanisa already 🤣 lol which is tagalog for sausage (and also spanish I think) . Dm me if confidential 🤣