peterhung85

Huh. I only really know the NYC scene, so can’t say how it differs elsewhere, but a number of guys I’ve met here have reached out afterwards, kept in touch, let me know about travel schedules, etc. But that applies to visitors as well as to local providers; so really, I’m inclined to think that the tendency to “cultivate” good clients is based more on individual provider personality and business philosophy, and less on geography. Interesting question, though, and I hope we’ll see other responses.

That is exactly what I have been experiencing ever since I started doing this line of work. Vegas itself is a very unique market and I have a handful of clients here, maybe 10 appointments A YEAR! Obviously, most people come to visit this city for convention or vacation and that's when I meet them (with the exception of me freelancing in certain other cities). Many escorts are here to turn a quick dollar but never care to put in an effort into providing a quality service (exceptions always apply of course) but what these guys forget is that even though someone only comes once a year, that is one regular he may gain and if he just finds one guy every day who comes only once a year, then in a year this escort will gain 365 regulars and those people may keep him busy for life. In a lucky scenario, this gentleman may even fly you out where he lives or you may take trips with him... So, yes... it is defintiely not a geographical thing, especially not in my case. If you build a great relationship with a client and there is a mutual desire to spend time together, you will find a way to make it happen wherever in the world you both are!

But how can he be the best kisser? He doesn’t have a face!

That's true... but don't forget that "in-person", my face is a lot less blurry

@TruHart1 & @sexymonk : Thank you very much for your sweet words, but the truth is that it is easy to be good at something when you enjoy what you do!

Thank you Gentlemen for all the praise... as the old saying goes: "It takes two to tango!"

Making the souls happy from 2008! What more can we ask for? .

10 more years.... Just kidding!

Actually, I need to make a retraction ... Celebrating 10 years this year! I have come to the realization that I started back in 2008

...and I thought I was saying a lot by celebrating my 10th anniversary next year!

Humans! People will have casual sex with no problem but fight over money. Just watch "Judge Judy" about people who have shacked up and now separated and who are squabbling over the pettiest things like who paid for something and the other now wants money.

 

But escorts combine sex and money; the best of both worlds!

Wait.... are we supposed to get paid too??

And how about reimbursement for transportation to/from the airport? I assume that is covered on top of the escort fee, esp in cities like London where cabs to the airport are expensive, right?

Your assumption would make perfect sense, however, based on my experience, usually only 1 out of every 10 client offers reimbursement for that. They probably forget about it, but that's really no big deal to me, since I am already compensated very well for those trips, so I consider it "cost of doing business".

Thanks!

I completely agree with BN. Generally, when I meet clients at a destination of their choice I fly on economy and there is always a possibility for an upgrade on the domestic leg(s). When travelling together, it is usually in the same cabin, which - up until now - has always been on business/first. At the end of the day, I really don't mind sitting on economy and that's what my initial expectation is, anything above (and beyond) that is just icing on the cake and much appreciated!

Overnights are common, and weekends are fairly common. Entire weeks aren't unheard of, but I'm curious, and so I ask our current working men....

 

...what's the longest amount of time you've been hired by (and spent time with) a client?

 

I'm not asking about how long have you had a person hiring you consistently. I mean that you quoted them a price for X amount of days/weeks/months and things progressed from there.

It is rather frequent where I get hired for about 7-10 days with one client which generally involves in traveling with such person to a destination of his choice. I really enjoy those getaways!

The longest I have ever been hired was for 1 month... We have visited 7 different locations in Oceania and with the exception of 4 days when he had to fly back home to take care of something, we were together the entire time.

Oh my goodness, since I am planning on doing something in my backyard soon (build a pathway, etc)...the plane ticket's on it's way!

Hahahaha... bring it on! You wouldn't be the first who connects work with pleasure

So are we talking about real botanical bushes or....

:eek: You are hopeless....

90% means French kissing.

BFE looks better as an initialism than FK, which would seem to stand for Fuck, so we invented BFE.

 

On planet Earth, boyfriend experience more often means picking up someone else's clothes and doing their laundry.

I have no problem doing that. Actually, it happens rather frequently (talking about few day/1 week hires) when I help my client do some kind of housework, like trim the bushes (talking about the real stuff in the garden) or tree branches, perhaps fix something and get a rather surprised reaction when I offer to help with those things without hesitation. I always end up telling my clients: Hey, you paid for my time and it is full-service. It is only normal that those activities are also included in my offering...

I doubt if I’ll ever forget about any moment I’ve spent with you @peterhung85 . However, I’d love to repeat/be reminded of that in any “non-technological” way you can think of.

Let me see what I can possibly come up with....:D

Yeah, as @TruHart1 said I'd love to hear any of the escorts here on the forum describe what their definition or expectation of a "BFE" would be. My personal definition of this is very "narrow-minded" and I think it's because of me being picky regarding the choice of my hires, like besides sexual encounters I really want certain level emotional or even intellectual connection there. And I'm not sure if it's just me but for me "BFE" is like a two-way street, like I also want to please this man I'm with in any way possible. So for me a successful BFE for me requires lots of preparations. Though it's time-consuming, it's definitely fun for me to really spend some time talking to the person I'm going to meet, maybe also realizing what he might like, preparing some small gifts and choosing a place/restaurant we'd both like. I just really want to treat it as a real date. Maybe that's just my thing though.

Boyfriend experience = what we did last time my dear but I don't want to explain this, if you forgot it we may as well just have to do a repeat!

Not really. I’ve never been limited by text. If one text ends it continues to another text. Maybe you’re thinking of Twitter.

No, I am not.

Peter is one of a kind. A couple of years ago I was considering a potential trip to LV for a reunion and was asking in the forum about the city and its opportunities. He didn't know me from Adam but said words to the effect that if things weren't working out call him and he'd make things right. My trip didn't happen but he had been gracious and friendly since then. For me, that's a winning approach.

Sorry, I tried to hit 10 likes but it only registered one... maybe I should alert the mods?

Look forward to a future opportunity to connect. Thank you for your thoughtful contributions. I appreciate reading them. Cheers!

Very kind of you and likewise!!!

I have found that strictly keeping all contact via telegram has been effective. Truly an underrated form of communication.

I don't understand why ya'll need to use technology.... This is about "LOVE" and the best method of contact when it comes to that.... Has NOBODY ever heard of pigeon post?????? It's a lot more romantic IMO!

As a client, this approach has yielded the best results overall of maintaining privacy as well as developing understanding when interacting with a provider. I can’t always text and am not in an environment where my phone is completely in my own hands. I understand the advice for google voice and I agree with it, but I appreciate providers who understand this like @peterhung85, and, at least for me, providers who understand and are comfortable interacting in that way tend to be good matches for me. @peterhung85, I guess that means I need to find my way to Las Vegas.

Yes Sir, I believe that you have just described the best call to "action" here!

maintaining

How can one express himself better in an email than a text?!

Simple, text has a certain amount of character limitation and emails don't. Hope this answers your question.

Interesting...

I don't text with clients for the most part but it depends on the particular person too. Obviously someone I know for 10 years gets a different approach, but I don't even post my phone number in my ad. I actually prefer email interaction, since you can express yourself better and many times clients prefer to explain at lengths of what a great session would entail for them which I highly welcome because it makes my job easier and makes our encounter a lot more enjoyable in the end. Furthermore, I can attend to emails whenever I have time and don't feel pressure by unanswered texts and to top it all off, I also prefer privacy when it comes to giving out phone numbers, so it is definitely a two-way street.

Not tacky at all. I do it all the time for my regulars as well as newcomers whenever I am out of town, which - due to my sometimes busy travel schedule with clients - happens quite often. I prefer to make sure they have a good time while they are in Vegas, since as you all know, hiring is rather a gamble sometimes

I guess I am a softy, I will be here in Canada for about 10 days when this trip ends and with the exception of my US client who I have met here for 5 days and the local client I have for 4 days who always pays me in USD as well I had 1 day to do freelance and meet people online and I felt so bad that the CAD was weaker that I ended up charging them the same in CAD that I charge in USD which means the money I made was a lot less.

Of course this never goes both ways, nobody has ever told me, hey, here is an extra $100 since the CAD is so strong compared to the USD... but that's just my soft heart...