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  1. Agree
    blck37 got a reaction from TennisPro35 in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  2. Haha
    blck37 got a reaction from musclestuduws in Overnight Rate   
    I think i might have overspent at >$2k overnight LOL
  3. Haha
    blck37 got a reaction from Muscleking in Overnight Rate   
    I think i might have overspent at >$2k overnight LOL
  4. Haha
    blck37 got a reaction from Muscleking in Overnight Rate   
    Echoing other poster that $2,5k for 5/6ho is $$$$$. Better be an epic sex for that rate.
  5. Agree
    blck37 reacted to BaronArtz in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    What you are paying for, is an illusion. 
    It is not a date.  It is not a job interview either.
    Have a good time and don't sweat the small stuff,
  6. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from Becket in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  7. Agree
    blck37 got a reaction from Walt in Overnight with an escort   
    Overnight with my regular always mean start from early evening till next morning after breakfast. But ultimately i reckon practice differs each provider. And also what $$ they charge.
  8. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from Muscleking in Overnight with an escort   
    Overnight with my regular always mean start from early evening till next morning after breakfast. But ultimately i reckon practice differs each provider. And also what $$ they charge.
  9. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from NYXboy in Vetting   
    I sincerely hope this is some sort of social experiment qs or purely for research purposes. 
  10. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from DWnyc in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  11. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from acks0104 in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  12. Applause
    blck37 got a reaction from Deadlift1 in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  13. Agree
    blck37 got a reaction from thomas in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  14. Haha
    blck37 got a reaction from BonVivant in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
  15. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from + Pensant in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  16. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from NJF in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  17. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from Johnrom in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
  18. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from + Charlie in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  19. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from + Charlie in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
  20. Agree
    blck37 got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  21. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Is LOTS of reviews a red flag?   
    I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.
  22. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Is LOTS of reviews a red flag?   
    I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.
  23. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from FaustOust in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
  24. Like
    blck37 got a reaction from FaustOust in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
  25. Agree
    blck37 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?   
    Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
    Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
    There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
    That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 
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