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Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable.
Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.

We simply have a very different views. To me, such comment is a mind game, but a pro move nonetheless. Professional to me simply means one is excellent at what they do - are they honest or ethical? Thts beside their competency.
I simply see that sort of comments as part of escorting business - so a provider excell at such game is a pro from my pov. Whether or not I be keen to participate in the game is another story.

I would agree if it were any other field of business - one that doesnt resolve around sex and feeling. 
Honey baiting is also a professional (or at least a calculated) move on provider's part. Might not work on you, cant say the same for others. 
Some clients would open their wallet more on the back of a well designed illusion - heck perhaps they themselves are willing participants.
Is it professional? Depends on who you ask I reckon

More like he prefers you as a client (compared to his others). Think nothing of romantic feeling, you are simply a better client option. Why go for difficult client when a manageable one is willing to pay.
My regular would often reschedule his other clients to fit me in, but I wouldnt ever think he sees my anything more than a preferred client - akin of a priority customer at your bank. Doesnt mean your bank rep geniunely like you

My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted.
Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

How does a client measures provider's genuinity when sweet talking is literally within said provider's scope of work? 
Is it his real thought or just a way to butter my feeling? Human interaction is tricky enough between amateurs, now extra complication added when dealing with professional.
IMO just enjoy his compliments (nothing wrong with stroking one's ego now and then) but take everything with grain of salts - they all be hustling 💰

How does a client measures provider's genuinity when sweet talking is literally within said provider's scope of work? 
Is it his real thought or just a way to butter my feeling? Human interaction is tricky enough between amateurs, now extra complication added when dealing with professional.
IMO just enjoy his compliments (nothing wrong with stroking one's ego now and then) but take everything with grain of salts - they all be hustling 💰

How does a client measures provider's genuinity when sweet talking is literally within said provider's scope of work? 
Is it his real thought or just a way to butter my feeling? Human interaction is tricky enough between amateurs, now extra complication added when dealing with professional.
IMO just enjoy his compliments (nothing wrong with stroking one's ego now and then) but take everything with grain of salts - they all be hustling 💰

I don’t see how this compliment is meant to uplift me; it’s based on hypotheticals, not reality. The idea that I should take his words as validation to approach other hot men—simply because he’s attractive—feels patronizing and overlooks the complexities of my own experiences.

Echoing this sentiment. Baseline (for client) is getting what they paid for. Its provider's discretion to give extras (then or after) be it a discount, booking priority, special treatments etc.

This is perfect!!! 
For me, maybe I’m old school, it’s nonetheless important to feel like the provider is genuinely happy and enjoying himself because it makes the experience - for me - that much richer. THAT SAID, if he isn’t for any reason, then I expect the greatest performance of his life, one that leaves no room for doubt—because that’s what I’m paying for!
Too often, I see people approaching this with insecurity, thinking, “I could never have that” or “I could never satisfy someone like that.” But we need to move beyond that mindset. This isn’t a relationship; it’s a transaction where both parties bring value.
Everyone has preferences, but that’s irrelevant here—this is about fulfilling a specific need, in that specific moment, for however long you’ve booked.

There's some acting involved in the business.
Some escorts / masseurs like some clients more than others because of compatibility, looks, etc. 
Something wrong if he generally had a good time with you and maybe not the others? We don't hire slaves we want to respect them also.
You called someone for a massage and you ended up giving him head, always the same issue with masseurs about how far they will go.

My 2 cents, IMO, experienced providers are likely better at non-sex services - they seen a lot of ppl over the years and have much to talk about. Better at navigating conversation and playing the 'service business' game. 
New providers often get too much into their head and try too hard. They are eager to perform but not as smooth as veterans.
But that I mostly do multiple hours hire might play into my experiences above.

Your comments reveal a profound immaturity and a glaring double standard. By now labeling providers with numerous reviews as robots, you not only demonstrate a lack of understanding but also expose your own biases. It’s telling that you find it acceptable to sleep with a porn star, whose experience is likely far greater, yet dismiss providers based on their review count as if they’re less deserving of respect.
Your focus on my reference to nationality is a weak attempt to deflect from the hypocrisy in your stance. To assume that someone’s worth diminishes with experience is not only misguided but also reflects your inability to engage with nuance.
Having taken the painful labor of reading through your previous thread, it’s clear that you’re more invested in preserving your narrow view than in recognizing the rich complexities of the industry. This speaks volumes about your perspective and worldview. Ultimately, your refusal to confront these complexities reveals a limited understanding of human experience, prioritizing shallow judgments over the dignity of others.

My 2 cents, IMO, experienced providers are likely better at non-sex services - they seen a lot of ppl over the years and have much to talk about. Better at navigating conversation and playing the 'service business' game. 
New providers often get too much into their head and try too hard. They are eager to perform but not as smooth as veterans.
But that I mostly do multiple hours hire might play into my experiences above.

My 2 cents, IMO, experienced providers are likely better at non-sex services - they seen a lot of ppl over the years and have much to talk about. Better at navigating conversation and playing the 'service business' game. 
New providers often get too much into their head and try too hard. They are eager to perform but not as smooth as veterans.
But that I mostly do multiple hours hire might play into my experiences above.

Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable.
Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.

Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable.
Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.

I think in many cases, an escort has many reviews by the same clients. I know I review almost every time I meet with an escort and am personally responsible for the majority of reviews for a few guys. So even if they have like 100 reviews, it really could be maybe 60 actual clients making multiple reviews. 

This was a fucking masterpiece reply. 

It’s interesting that you’ve now posted about preferring guys with just the right amount of reviews, right after that long, convoluted thread where you emphasized being this Czech porn star’s first and only client and explained how he’s not an escort and isn’t jaded by the industry. It’s worth noting that as a porn star, it’s perfectly acceptable for him to have slept with many people, but when it comes to escorts, having multiple clients suddenly raises red flags for you? There seems to be a lot of effort here to separate your experience while imposing arbitrary standards on others.
But back to the topic of reviews, aren’t reviews, especially on platforms like RM, just a baseline? They provide merely a foundation of trust and transparency, helping people get a sense of the provider’s reputation and experience. Plus, it’s worth noting that not everyone posts reviews on RM—it’s not a fully accurate representation. It doesn’t account for regulars, aspects of their personal life, or the full spectrum of their connections. A lot can be learned through your own interactions, whether by text or, ideally, over the phone, and every experience with a provider is unique.
So, only having 6-10 reviews means they’re “safe,” but 100+ reviews means they’re somehow too experienced? Why the cut-off? Or are we trying to “slut shame” providers for doing their job? Let’s not go there. Rather than focusing on review counts, wouldn’t it make more sense to prioritize compatibility and the quality of connection? Real connection goes beyond the numbers, and reviews can simply ensure that your experience starts off on the right foot.

Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable.
Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.

you know, I've messaged RM reviewers looking for specific comments and, gee, they sure ain't the friendly bunch of dudes we have here at CoM!.......despite my usual charming and professionally non-threatening style, replies are highly sporadic and often vague/unhelpful........many reviewers never reply and one even blocked me for a mundane question!........this reviewer you mention not even wanting to describe the session might say more about himself than the provider (competing provider?, jilted boyfriend?, etc.)........

Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable.
Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.