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You should have offer cancellation fee for his inconvenience. That said, time to move on. He block you, so dont be acting creepy.

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I can see why provider's rate is getting higher and higher 😂

No provider will remove his tattoos solely for a client 😂 unless that client is prepared to pay 💰💰💰

With provider's rate (in US metro cities) closing to 450/500 per hour - and without 'broker cut' + uber paid by client for outcall. I would only tip for exceptional service. I havent encounter provider (who is charging premium rate) asking for tips (neither implied nor expressly). They mainly focus on securing longer session/ overnight/ multi-days hire by offering interesting fees package.

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Hard truth is his feeling for you is in an entirely different category than yours to him. As a baseline, his 'feeling' is that of an obligation to deliver service for which he is being compensated for. And as is any business, he is understanbly looking for a repeat customer. Taking further steps, if he deems you as a good customer and you were keen to repeat order, his 'feeling' is that of a preference to work with you (who is a good and a repeat customer) than to work with other customers who might not be as a pleasant. That doesnt meant he has romantic feeling for you but rather you are simply a 'preferred customer'. From his pov, whoever the client is he would be compensated nonetheless - so might as well work with someone who is more pleasant, just like any business out there. When you firmly become his regular (thus generating stable income), he might provide 'above and beyond' services or acts eg off-clock activities or bit lax on cut-off time or jigging his schedule to match yours - his 'feeling' is that of maintaing/ servicing client relationship for his 'preferred client'. As many business would do for their big clients. A hiring relationship can only, against all odds, become a real romantic relationship if and only if there is absolutely no monies involved.

As a professional, my hourly rate is flat notwithstanding the occasion. So I will gladly adopt the same approach ie pay whatever rate the provider quoted. If the provider quoted different rate for sex/ non-sex activities, thats 100% his discretion. What I can decide is whether I have the necessary financial means to pay. If not, keep browsing. On the topic of off-clock activities, thats entirely up to the provider, he is the decision maker. If not discussed upfront, best assume its 'on-clock'. One of my regular would pick/drop me from/to airport free of charge whenever I visit his city - he offered and made it clear that it would be 'off-clock'.

When I am traveling or plan to visit a city, I often browse through RM multiple times (including checking ads) way in advance (3/4 weeks) to make a short list of potential hire. I would then closer to the travel date (3/4 days) revisit the ads in that short list to make my final decision, amd only then would reach out to the chosen provider.

Well I never use this forum as the primary source of browsing page. Instead would go to RM to search for providers in my area, identify providers i am interested in and only then run those providers' RM's handle names using the 'search' feature in this forum simply to check if any thread on those providers posted here for references. Seems to me that would be much more efficient than going through this forum to identify providers in my area.

Wouldnt it be easier to search by their RM's handle name?

Unless I misread your situation (and noting there is no other alternative timing feasible) I prolly would have just stay and enjoy the 60mins session. Room is booked for the night so thats a fixed cost nonetheless. I will pay his rate for 60mins + (depending on service rendered) tips. Seems to me that scenario actually cost less financially. Something is often better than nothing.

Vids "bottoming" vids are much better than his "topping" ones.

Just be upfront that this is your first hire and you would like to ask some qns. Clear communication is key. Never assume, always ask and clarifies where needed.

Mate if all my fee quotes were accepted, I will earn 5/6 figures monthly. I earn quite signifiant amount and live a comfortable life, do I want more monies....heck yeah. That said, i am deff not disfrenchised in any manner whatsoever. If me saying better to donate than to throw monies to non-performing provider hurts your ego, i suggest you to look deep inside.