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If Anttoane gave an A+ therapeutic massage I might pay $300/hour, but that's not his market or his reputation. I'm well past my "will he or won't he" years. He won't. Why pay for blueballs? 

The current pricepoints, along with the escalating tattooing and piercings craze, have greatly diminished my appitite for hiring.

I live in a big city but I guess I'm much pickier than the average person. If I'm going to spend money on a guy, I want to be into both his face and body and a lot of times the RM availability will hit one or the other, but usually not both. Sadly I just haven't been too interested in any guys in a while. There are some men in other towns and internationally that look fantastic, but it's just not worth the time to travel for that kind of fun.

https://rentmasseur.com/southernmanhands

https://rentmasseur.com/southernmanhands

If Anttoane gave an A+ therapeutic massage I might pay $300/hour, but that's not his market or his reputation. I'm well past my "will he or won't he" years. He won't. Why pay for blueballs? 

That description has more red flags than a May Day parade in Pyongyang.

I can understand your feelings.  I've lived enough decades to have noticed/experienced the steady decline of mutual respect and/or neutral civility across-the-board in society.  I'm not sure where to place the blame...social media/politics/stress factors, other things, but I sense that it is escalating and pollinating into the younger generations.  Maybe, hopefully it's a cycle.
                                                                                                                                                                     

https://rentmasseur.com/southernmanhands

Starting a session with a joint shower is hot AF, IMHO.  It achieves multiple purposes, including:
ensures you are BOTH as clean as possible allows you to explore each others bodies creates an ice-breaker gets you revved up for the apres-shower experience I love the process of getting someone all soapy!  Sliding my hands all over their body.
Hell, if the vibe is right you could complete your entire experience there (in the shower).
I do recommend letting your provider know that's how you'd like to start the session.
Jump in!
 

Darling, you’ve probably just dodged a bullet. I understand the disappointment; it’s happened to many of us. Consider yourself lucky. Give yourself a day or two and then start planning your next encounter. Thank you, also, for telling the community about your experience. 

I saw Chris many times when he lived on the east coast, but he moved to California a few years ago. He was always sweet and soft spoken and not at all the kind of person to send an unsolicited sexual picture to a first time client. Maybe times have changed. L A is expensive.  But he is real, super handsome, tall and his massage skills are top notch.

He's not fake.  I have hired him.  He looks like his public pics. For example: 

The average stated age on rentmasseur listings is 34. Do men that old get trafficked? 

He's not fake.  I have hired him.  He looks like his public pics. For example: 

Personally if the dick is important to me I’m hiring and escort not a masseur. 

he has been in the business for at least 20 years. i haven’t seen the equipment but i've heard he knows how to use it it.

how can we identify them?  How can we help them? if this problem is happening in our community we need to shine a light on it and rescue the victims. 
 

It's mostly because of hair loss. A big side effect of the...supplements they take to get all those muscles is that it thins their hairline hence the cap 24/7.

I'm sorry, but the name is a total turn off. 

He describes his service as "gentle stretching".

He doesn't care whether you're gay. And he doesn't care whether you're attractive. He knows the score. Just contact him outside of work. "I saw your ad in rentmasseur.  Great pictures. Do you offer any sensual options when you see private clients outside the spa?" Be polite, friendly, respectful, and appreciative. I promise he won't dump you as a client (at the spa) for asking for an erotic massage. He is paying for that ad. 

Sometimes all I want is a snack. 😋   

Sometimes all I want is a snack. 😋   

He doesn't care whether you're gay. And he doesn't care whether you're attractive. He knows the score. Just contact him outside of work. "I saw your ad in rentmasseur.  Great pictures. Do you offer any sensual options when you see private clients outside the spa?" Be polite, friendly, respectful, and appreciative. I promise he won't dump you as a client (at the spa) for asking for an erotic massage. He is paying for that ad.