
Pygian
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Pygian got a reaction from borgerback in Favorite Chicago escort
My two favorites:
Mario_X
A little sad he moved out of the city. Such a sweetheart.
CHI_JOCK
I see he's gotten mixed reception here, but I've enjoyed each of our meetings.
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Pygian reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
The headline was troll bait. Plain and simple.
And it worked. Surprise, surprise.
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Pygian reacted to BuffaloKyle in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
After reading all the replies on here I'd like to clarify that my stance is that if I had the money I'd hire him in a heartbeat. It wasn't a knock at him not being hot enough for instance to charge $1k. As a big name porn star I can totally understand why he charges $1k. I just stick to guys in the $300 range.
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Pygian reacted to SirBillybob in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
Au contraire, a leading question masquerading as a statement. It implicitly offers safety in numbers regarding the judgement. The ad asks for a leap of faith because he is making one based on viewer screening. OP leap of faith is that others corroborate a view of ad audacity as filtered through one subjective perspective of appeal against price.
A more neutral approach would be to simply inquire a 411. You’d have yielded the leading question through introducing a starting gate with answers to a question that was not actually posed.
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Pygian reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
The usual setup for these threads.
Start with a high price and then dogpile on the guy.
Rinse, repeat.
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Pygian reacted to Yukon21 in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
No. Nobody in this business is worth that to me and having his ad up for almost two years with no reviews means Im not alone in that thinking.
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Pygian reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Findom
You clearly have no clue how this works. It's all smoke and mirrors (if it's being done correctly).
You give the alpha a burner cc with only so much limit on it. You don't open the full coffers to a perfect stranger.
Any good sub knows that- way in the back of their mind- they actually have all the control in the situaiton.
A good/smart/talented alpha convinces them otherwise, even if temporary. It's a show.
Are there awful people out there who do awful things? Yep.
Is the findom scene a healthy and safe way to scratch an itch if done properly? Yep.
It's possible for two things to be true at the same time.
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Pygian reacted to AngusStevensxxx in 411 on AngusStevensxxx
Hey guys - Angus here:
To everyone that has left me kind words, thank you. The people I have actually met and had a booking with I am sure can attest - I have real pics, am on time, hygienic, and I treat everyone I see with kindness and do my best to make people happy. I appreciate so much that you have taken the time to say something nice about me. I do try to go above and beyond to satisfy my clients.
I have no problem with someone posting that we didn't click - sometimes the chemistry is just not there for whatever reason regardless of the effort I have put in and that is fine, but I don't like the outright lies. But people here are lying about me and my integrity, and I have the receipts.
I have been trying to avoid this for a while now, hoping that it would just go away on its own, but now this is getting to the point where it is just too much. Perhaps I have let it go too far. Someone (I suspect MCR himself) reached out to me and told me what was being said. I am going to just stick to facts and defend myself.
When I arrived I was contacted by MCR to set up an appointment - I had only just landed and was still a bit jetlagged, he asked me to get a COVID test, and contrary to his comments here – not only did I agree to this request, I photographed the results of the tests I had taken and sent it to him. (see pic below) I tested negative but did not want to see anyone as I still wasn’t feeling 100% anyway, and we arranged to meet up in a few days after I had acclimatized and the jetlag was done.
However, it didn't take long and I woke up and felt significantly worse – it was clear it was more than just jetlag. Instead of another at-home test, I went to a testing center and did another PCR test – which this time returned as positive.
Unlike what MCR has said – I NEVER refused to get a test - I also shared this test with him and sent a copy of my results, so he knows this. (see pic )
During the course of the next few days, I was INUNDATED with messages from MCR. Hundreds of text messages. Mostly friendly chats, but often demanding face photos, and amongst other things, he had explained he had a lot of bad experiences with other providers and went through a litany of complaints about this– mainly that he had once seen a provider who left after 10 minutes and took the full rate, but also that he was rarely satisfied with providers in general. The messages were streaming, constant, and also quite negative, and it got to the point where I eventually had to ask him to give me space as, understandably I was unwell with COVID, and I needed to focus on my health, rest, and recover. (see pic)
Once my quarantine period was over, he was still keen to meet. So much so that he slipped up had forgot that after I asked him to give me a little space to recover - instead of respecting my boundaries he had started messaging me from multiple numbers, asking all kinds of variations of the same questions, pretending to be other people in a way I now recognize as trying to ‘trip me up in lies'. (See pics)
This deception made me EXTREMELY uncomfortable. The multiple messages from other numbers pretending to be different people after I had asked for space to get better was a clear example that this was not someone who respected boundaries or consent, which was alarming and my tipping point. He started accusing me of being a liar - I explained to him that I was uncomfortable, and his behavior made me feel like we would not be a match, and suggested he should seek someone else that he would be better suited to, and wished him well – (see pics)
Instead of that being the end of it - This began a campaign of harassment that has now gone on for over two years and still happening today with these posts defaming my character and calling me a liar. He has created this story that I was refusing to take the COVID tests- ALL because I declined to see him.
He threatened to call the police on me (see pics)
He threatened to have me deported unless I had sex with him ( see pics)
He then threatened to set up fake appointments with me and taunted me that I would never know if the person contacting me was a genuine client or him pranking me – (see pics) This action he followed through with. He would text and send me to hotels throughout the city, sometimes multiple times a week only to stop messaging once I arrived. He sent me in an Uber to the middle of Harlem at 1 am only to send me a pic of him laughing about it telling me it was a fake address. This went on for MONTHS. Sometimes multiple times a week. I would shower, shave my face and balls, get on clean clothes, travel to hotels, and then sit in the lobby waiting for no reason- all because I declined to see him once.
Months later, almost a year on - one night I got a call from another provider “I have a client here with me who is vers, I am a top and he is looking for a bottom – are you available and are you happy to host?” I agreed and gave them an address a block away from my apartment (a practice I had to install due to MCR’s harassment so he wouldn't have my exact address). When they arrived I went to meet them and saw MCR – who after months of this obsessive harassment campaign was now standing in front of me- the first time I had ever seen him in person. I was furious and scared in equal parts - and screamed at him to just LEAVE ME ALONE. He left and I showed the other provider (who is also an immigrant) the messages MCR had sent me threatening to get me deported to warn him to be careful: This is a dangerous person who will not accept NO for an answer. (see pics from other escort apologizing for bringing him over to my apartment)
Despite finally meeting me face to face and me making it CLEAR I was not interested: the harassment escalated via burner numbers and rentmen accounts -
It oscillated between threats and begging -
He sent me messages saying it wouldn’t stop unless I let him fuck me for free Begging me to see him offering double my normal rate He offered to have another provider come and he would just watch us Asked me to just come and talk with him so I could ‘just see he is a nice guy’ and then he would leave me alone. (see pics - I don't have pics from all of these conversations as he constantly generates new profiles)
He asked other providers that I have worked with about me, and when they talked to me I was transparent about his behavior. They asked him to stop this and he then messages me about it – saying crazy things like “You just enjoy hurting people don’t you?” (see pics)
Extremely disturbingly he messaged saying he had taken tablets and even threatened to kill himself unless I saw him. (see pics)
The harassment has faded over time, but it often comes and goes in waves. I fear him following me around and I don’t know exactly how far he will go or what I can do to have him just PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE.
MCR has affected my life, and I am genuinely afraid.
It has created a lot of barriers and resulted in a lot less work for me that's for sure- all because I declined his request for a booking, nothing more. That is what started this harassment campaign.
I would never leave a note on Mr.Number unless the behavior was egregious.
I have tried pleading with him, I have tried yelling at him, I have tried everything I can think of but he won't leave me alone.
I believe this guy needs help, I'm not sure what I can do.
Unfortunately, nothing has worked, and as a result, I'm having to post this here to defend my character - I would never post lies about someone. I'm a good person, I treat people with kindness, I go out of my way to be a good person and I don't deserve to be treated this way: No one does!
I'm upset that this has infected this thread and to be honest very embarrassed that people will read this.
I refuse to let this experience stop me from sharing myself with others and doing what I love.
@Admin - My preference would be for the admin to just delete his comments and account so he can't use this forum as a tool to continue his harassment. Please don’t allow this to continue or encourage it further. I have provided the receipts that the man is harassing me, stalking me, defaming me, and threatening me. I genuinely fear for my safety: please help me.
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Pygian reacted to TJMS in 411 on AngusStevensxxx
There have been excellent providers who for some reason don’t work out for everyone. It is better to say it did not work out and please DM me for the reasons why it did not.
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Pygian reacted to ptownboy in 411 Jakkub (NYC and LA/Beverly Hills)
His OF account SUCKS. Boring content. 99% of the clips are under 1 min. Waste of money. The guy is a scammer.
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Pygian reacted to rvwnsd in !!!WEALTHY MEN ONLY!!!
Moderator's Warning: Enough with the attacks and off-topic posts. The thread is now locked.
Don't carry the arguments elsewhere.
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Pygian reacted to Medin in 411 on Jared_Cross in NYC
This may all sound good on paper but in reality (especially with this provider), I'm not sure my role as a client is to develop an escort's business model. This is a luxury service industry. At $300+ per hour, I expect some of the basics such as being able to communicate, perform, being polite, punctual, hygienic, etc. The list goes on. If he hasn't yet "developed" his skill set, he should be charging a lot less than $350/hour until he gets there. I don't go to a restaurant, drop $350 on a terrible meal and then tell management I can't wait to come back to give them a second chance and teach them how to properly cook A5 wagyu. That is their job. If I'm paying for 60 minutes I expect the session to last close to 60 minutes. I have met this particular provider and had the same experience as several others in this thread. It was one of my worst experiences and I've had plenty.
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Pygian reacted to Danny-Darko in LeoMuscle 411
Call me practical but I'd never hire for an overnight or weekend anybody I haven't met at least once or twice for at least an hour session. I've noticed the odds are always better not to mention the reviews when the client already has had a feel for the escort (no pun intended), and they are at least somewhat acquainted. It doesn't guarantee anything, but at least the client is less likely to hire somebody they are not compatible with or have little chemistry with or get scammed. I've noticed most clients scammed are the ones who hire guys for multiple hours, overnights or weekends they have never met and only seen profiles of. Plus it helps to only hire those well reviewed by credible people on this forum.
And rather than send them money to fly them out, I fly myself out and go to him even if it's to return later in the day or the next morning. It just works out better and more economical. If the escort stands me up I look for a backup option there or hit the local clubs and scene. At least I wasn't scammed by a no-show in my city and out a plane ticket and a deposit. Just my two cents! ?
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Pygian reacted to LA90046 in 411 Gabriele_Top
This is indeed a better means of verification.
Also, there was a time I suspected a guy on Grindr was catfishing with stolen pics so I asked him to send me a selfie holding up three fingers. Instead as 'verification' he sent a pic holding up a piece of paper with my name on it. Not the verification I asked for and I could tell my name had been photoshopped on to the paper in the pic.
Not at all suggesting Gabriel is being deceitful here -- I believe him and the pic -- just sharing a scam to make you all wary of.
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Pygian reacted to NYXboy in Your legitimate review surrounded by a sea of fakes
so you had a good experience, the provider ASKED you to leave a review - and you so much of yourself, that you were SO special, that the provider didn't ask the same of the next two people he saw and so they MUST be fake.
Ok.
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Pygian reacted to mike carey in Your legitimate review surrounded by a sea of fakes
Language inflation is a thing in the US (and elsewhere, of course) that is pervasive when people are offering assessments of many things, not just escorts and masseurs. Four out of five in a restaurant review? Heaven forfend! I can remember over 30 years ago as a foreigner working with the US armed forces, anything other than a maximum 9 score in any of the many questions on an annual report was seen as a kiss of death. There was even a perception that different superlative words had a ranking of which were the best superlatives to use or what each of them actually meant!
Yes, everything being amazing means that nothing really is, but consider the alternative of saying that something was 'good' or 'very good'. It might well prompt the question of what was wrong with them that you only say they were 'good'. You can't win
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Pygian reacted to Ali Gator in Any info Cxcesarin in Chicago
An update from last I posted about him on Feb19.
He has not been in my area since early 2024. I knew he was moving to Manhattan, and then his plan was eventually off to Chicago where is family lives. By his ads, it looks like that is what he did.
Rather recently, I received a 'Hey, how are you ?' text from him. I responded, thinking maybe he was heading back this way for a weekend or week and I'd get a head start for an appointment (some travelers do that with clients). But the text was not about his visiting here - he asked me for a 'loan' to help him out with rent, because business wasn't as good as he hoped and he had his own apartment in Chicago. He reminded me he had Venmo, and promised to 'pay me back' as soon as things turned around. I told him I'm not in the position to ever do that, and have since blocked him.
Just an FYI. I thought it odd he'd be reaching out to me, as someone who hasn't seen him in over a year. (My first appointment was in September, 2023 my second was in January, 2024).
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Pygian reacted to oclatin92xxx in 411 on David_CALE
It’s crazy how many fake posts (you can tell by the users that posted the same day their accounts were created and are basically written in the same style) are on this thread which were obviously made by the provider. I get that you’re running a business but that type of self/false promotion is a major turn off/red flag. Guy might have a good body but if he has to come on here and make fake posts then that just proves that there’s something off with the way he does things.
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Pygian reacted to caramelsub in Which escorts have the best ass in person?
Bodybuildingcolo - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Philadelphia, PA | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Philadelphia, PA - Bodybuildingcolo: Hello and welcome toxperience... Thinking about this guy’s ass always makes me dizzy!😵💫 It’s just as nice in person.
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Pygian reacted to CuriousByNature in Kindness can never be overrated - who is the kindest?
That is sad to me on a number of levels. We clearly have very different perspectives.
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Pygian reacted to ChasingGirth in Kindness can never be overrated - who is the kindest?
Sad to hear, him being addicted or on drugs doesn’t take back the time he was kind to you.
I think we are not stupid here, guys are nice because we pay them. But not all are nice and kind. And you can feel when a guy is giving you more than his time. Are they kind because they want to get hired again? Maybe but who cares because what matter is the time we spend with them and if they are kind, we’re having a good time.
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Pygian reacted to Monarchy79 in Tops with ass photos??🤔
The male physique is a wonder of the world. Seeing a man with a properly proportioned body, with a nice, firm butt (regardless of his sexual position) is a great thing.