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That’s not stealing.....that’s taking out the trash.
 
You should thank him.....and get real adult bath products.
 
Grin

I recognized the handle for one of the RM reviewers; I've corresponded with him, previously about a different escort. I sent him a msg, I will let you know if/when he responds.

Agree. Subtract 3 from dick size and add 3 to age

Agree. Subtract 3 from dick size and add 3 to age

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-anthony-in-la.135925/
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-rob-palm-springs.159091/
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-connor-in-la.159630/

I have provided a pic once. It was to an escort that I had seen once, 2 years prior. The escort asked for the pic because he couldn’t remember me. Not sure if the pic played a role, but I did have a great second encounter.
 
This is one of the reasons that I like to suggest a 15 min coffee meetup, beforehand. It’s not always practical, particularly if I am traveling to the escorts city, but at home it has saved me so much grief. I get to assess the escort (as he does me) and the escort makes $50-100 for having coffee with me.

I have provided a pic once. It was to an escort that I had seen once, 2 years prior. The escort asked for the pic because he couldn’t remember me. Not sure if the pic played a role, but I did have a great second encounter.
 
This is one of the reasons that I like to suggest a 15 min coffee meetup, beforehand. It’s not always practical, particularly if I am traveling to the escorts city, but at home it has saved me so much grief. I get to assess the escort (as he does me) and the escort makes $50-100 for having coffee with me.

There's also always libraries and churches

I have provided a pic once. It was to an escort that I had seen once, 2 years prior. The escort asked for the pic because he couldn’t remember me. Not sure if the pic played a role, but I did have a great second encounter.
 
This is one of the reasons that I like to suggest a 15 min coffee meetup, beforehand. It’s not always practical, particularly if I am traveling to the escorts city, but at home it has saved me so much grief. I get to assess the escort (as he does me) and the escort makes $50-100 for having coffee with me.

It does seem as though we are conflicted about being in the market for a physical therapist or a fuck-partner.

It really depends on the policy. If it is an employer based plan, the OON benefit is usually a fixed %. However, if you are purchasing a private plan, you can typically structure different benefits based on cost. That said, Empire (parent company is Anthem), typically applies OON benefits without any hassle. Whereas, UHC, in my experience, makes the process a little more difficult; they may require pre-authorizations, etc depending on the type of care. Both have excellent and easy to use appeals process which is important in this age. All things considered, I would probably choose Anthem, but that could change based on cost and OON benefit offered. Finally, be very careful when discussing cost with providers. OON care may not follow negotiated rates. For instance, Anthem or UHC may have a negotiated rate of $200 for a physician consultation; the physician must accept the insurance payment + any copay/deductible. That rate may not apply to OON benefits, meaning the insurance may only pay a % of gross charges (some physicians may have a gross charge of $1,000 for the same consultation that was negotiated as $200 for in-network care).
 
PPO plans, Anthem or UHC are definitely the way to go if you think you’ll need OON care.

Fresh, under BC home/host rules, if a provider, hospital, physician or other service is a provider for Anthem BC of CA and you are physically located in CA, at the time of service, Anthem should cover the benefit as in-network,subject to whatever in-network rates Anthem has negotiated with the individual provider. In fact, in this scenario, Empire wouldn’t process the claim. Rather, the provider would bill Anthem of CA, under the home/host rule and Anthem of CA would process the claim. The key is to make sure that any provider you see, is contracted with the local Anthem plan.

It really depends on the policy. If it is an employer based plan, the OON benefit is usually a fixed %. However, if you are purchasing a private plan, you can typically structure different benefits based on cost. That said, Empire (parent company is Anthem), typically applies OON benefits without any hassle. Whereas, UHC, in my experience, makes the process a little more difficult; they may require pre-authorizations, etc depending on the type of care. Both have excellent and easy to use appeals process which is important in this age. All things considered, I would probably choose Anthem, but that could change based on cost and OON benefit offered. Finally, be very careful when discussing cost with providers. OON care may not follow negotiated rates. For instance, Anthem or UHC may have a negotiated rate of $200 for a physician consultation; the physician must accept the insurance payment + any copay/deductible. That rate may not apply to OON benefits, meaning the insurance may only pay a % of gross charges (some physicians may have a gross charge of $1,000 for the same consultation that was negotiated as $200 for in-network care).
 
PPO plans, Anthem or UHC are definitely the way to go if you think you’ll need OON care.

And it loves you back.
Even when you were in the dreaded sights of FFF‘s caustic criticism, you responded with style and grace.
That’s wasn’t always an easy thing for some of us to do.
And I’ve never once been steered wrong by one of your recommendations on here.
You're a Prince in my book.

100% agree. I think this is especially true in the "Spa." Most of us are probably looking for a level of technical skill followed by a level of sensuality. Seems as though it is reasonable to grade the technical skill, but for me, I am not comfortable to go beyond "MT/HE." If someone wants more info than that, they should feel free to book a session with the provider. And, frankly, if they are looking for additional services beyond those, they would probably be better served by doing their shopping/investigation in the "Deli." Sadly, I suspect many of these inquiries, seeking all the details, are probably less about decision making (hiring) and more about satisfying a fascination or fetish.

100% agree. I think this is especially true in the "Spa." Most of us are probably looking for a level of technical skill followed by a level of sensuality. Seems as though it is reasonable to grade the technical skill, but for me, I am not comfortable to go beyond "MT/HE." If someone wants more info than that, they should feel free to book a session with the provider. And, frankly, if they are looking for additional services beyond those, they would probably be better served by doing their shopping/investigation in the "Deli." Sadly, I suspect many of these inquiries, seeking all the details, are probably less about decision making (hiring) and more about satisfying a fascination or fetish.

100% agree. I think this is especially true in the "Spa." Most of us are probably looking for a level of technical skill followed by a level of sensuality. Seems as though it is reasonable to grade the technical skill, but for me, I am not comfortable to go beyond "MT/HE." If someone wants more info than that, they should feel free to book a session with the provider. And, frankly, if they are looking for additional services beyond those, they would probably be better served by doing their shopping/investigation in the "Deli." Sadly, I suspect many of these inquiries, seeking all the details, are probably less about decision making (hiring) and more about satisfying a fascination or fetish.

100% agree. I think this is especially true in the "Spa." Most of us are probably looking for a level of technical skill followed by a level of sensuality. Seems as though it is reasonable to grade the technical skill, but for me, I am not comfortable to go beyond "MT/HE." If someone wants more info than that, they should feel free to book a session with the provider. And, frankly, if they are looking for additional services beyond those, they would probably be better served by doing their shopping/investigation in the "Deli." Sadly, I suspect many of these inquiries, seeking all the details, are probably less about decision making (hiring) and more about satisfying a fascination or fetish.

I just don't reply when I feel uncomfortable sharing explicit details.
 
I don't have the feeling of urgency to reply to every single private message. If it's a regular poster, I feel more at ease. But someone new, I just ignore them.... ;-)

I’m the same.
 
I don’t get into specifics because there are so many variables with massage of this type and it’s definitely a “YMMV” situation - what happened during my session might not happen in your session and I wouldn’t want to create any expectations in the mind of a client that a provider may not want to live up to.
 
I will give general info and whether I’d repeat or not.

Hello all
 
Many of you know me here. I have been around a while and have hire my share of masseurs. I have shared some great feedback (which I have been recognized for both publicly and privately).
 
Lately it seems that when I get PM'ed i'm asked very specific and sexually explicit questions.
 
For me I am mostly here for the massage and NOT sex. I'm also a private person who can get uncomfortable at times sharing my personal experiences when I hire someone.
 
I have received several recently that I have responded to in a not so friendly way. I honestly do apologize for that. But understand lately I have been getting an influx of similar requests.
 
I will give any information about the person, massage styles, fees and maybe some sensual aspects. But I won't answer any specific sexual questions. I ask that this please be respected
 
My thoughts are if you are asking such a detailed sexual question then perhaps you should be hiring an escort not a masseur.

It does seem as though we are conflicted about being in the market for a physical therapist or a fuck-partner.

I wonder how many 22 yr olds can afford to live in an expensive gay urban neighborhood and hire escorts. When I was that age I had to nurse one beer through an evening at a bar.

This has worked for me as well. Typically, the guys who haven't done a lot of private meets will ask something akin to, "what would that entail." Or, the more experienced guys simply say "yes" and quote a price. Interestingly, I haven't ever had a dancer, outright decline a private meet.

This has worked for me as well. Typically, the guys who haven't done a lot of private meets will ask something akin to, "what would that entail." Or, the more experienced guys simply say "yes" and quote a price. Interestingly, I haven't ever had a dancer, outright decline a private meet.