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Almost any new guy Tim and Matt get is new to the business altogether, and it seems they get a lot of these guys by chatting them up at the gym. So I wouldn't expect most of the brand new guys to be all that into escorting if at all. But someone who sticks around for more than a few months is likely to be a little more willing to partake in more than a lap dance.

Who cancelled, you or him? And if you, how much notice did you give?

I would not bother telling him you are turned off by the negotiating. That's just inviting further discussion/bad feelings and you may in the future if he starts advertising a rate that is acceptable to you wish to give him a try.

You could just thank him for the offer and say you had already made other arrangements if you don't want to accept it.

5. He had a last-minute cancellation and now has more free time. Basically the reverse of Uber's surge pricing.

I saw the ventriloquist in an off-Broadway show he did in the early 2000s talking about his career. It was called "My Two and Only" if I recall correctly. He noted that the writers of Soap clearly knew nothing about ventriloquism because they named the dummy "Bob" and the "B" sound is the only one you can't make without moving your lips, so ventriloquists avoid it.

I'd guess about half of them are available outside the club, the other half just stick to the lapdances as that's pretty good money without really having to go all the way and enter another level of risk. It's only 20 bucks to get a lapdance where you can get a feel for them and also just ask them discreetly if they do privates outside the club. I'd recommend that route over just throwing out a general inquiry here and hoping someone happens to have gone with one you happen to like.

There is no human intervention in those bills until someone calls and complains. It was lazy coding by some programmers. There should have been some basic reasonableness checks on the data. I would think she was not the only person to get a bill like that. What probably happened is somebody who was updating the rates assumed the decimal was implied on some rate per killowatt-hour and put in in as whole numbers.

You are a human being. It is one thing to not want to linger or use resources just to squeeze out a few more days or weeks of pain, but please don't think you don't "deserve" care.

I have a friend whose mother is in end stage renal disease and she has declared she wouldn't take a kidney even if one were available, because at 79 she thinks it would be an irresponsible allocation(her late husband was a doctor).

Fine, but lots of people don't bother to take the precautions you do.

Well it's possible he's in an S/M relationship with a dominatrix who is making him do it. But I agree it's unlikely. But I do think there are bi guys who are 90+% one way or the other, and I don't think it's really worth quibbling about it if they "round up" to straight or gay. So if, say, he does this once a year and is otherwise only involved with/pursuing women I think he's straight enough for horseshoes.

Well because in many cases the escort has your phone number and that's all they really need to find out your identity and make mischief in your life if they should be so inclined.

I don't know if they specifically expect it, but I would tip more on that day. If a regular even any time that week, really.

Er, aren't most of them straight?

I'm actually going to Vegas the following weekend. But I already changed my ticket once, I'm not shelling out another $200 to move it now.

So why would anyone pay when there will be plenty of volunteers in town?

There are plenty of places that view of it prevails today.

Your kids will be like. "Dammit I might have gotten into my reach school if I could have said I had two dads in my essay! You should have come out earlier!"

It's possible he just means he's okay with weed. I would think asking him about it would be a question for in person rather than via text though. If you've specifically said "no drugs" to him in the past you are certainly within reason declining upon the spot if you arrive and he's high.

I heard about them in college in the early 90s but being scared shitless of AIDS i wasn't about to do anything in one. I did occasionally go looking around the ones on campus but almost always seemed to be the only one there. Once I did jerk off while another guy and I watched each other through it, but when he started to crawl under the stall I freaked out and bolted out of there. It was another 6 years before I actually did anything with a guy.

It's not immediately obvious to me that there aren't some smaller guns that could be stopped by thick books, but...wouldn't you do a dry run first WITHOUT A PERSON BEHIND THE BOOOK??

If you have homeowners or renters insurance, be aware that you have coverage for "loss of use" of your dwelling and additional expenses you incur as a result of this. Call your insurance agent. They may put you up in a hotel, or reimburse you for any rent you pay your friend.

Also - lot of IT people are in IT partly because they are horrible dealing with people. throw in a tendency towards Aspergers and passion for "Rules" and they tend to get disproportionately upset about things being "wrong." The rules obsession is actually a useful trait for fixing problems with computers, but it tends to hamper their human interactions.

The Miss Manners rule is 9 am to 9 pm, with exceptions made for friends whom you know it's okay to call at other times, and you should always be prepared to have your call declined as the phone call is an intrusion. I don't think I'd call a business, unless it were a storefront with posted hours, after about 6 though. I think you were late to call but not outrageously so; he should have simply said, "My business hours are X to X; please call then." And if he DOES get that upset about variations, he should have them on his business cards/website/etc.