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"Now the gays went and ruined dementia!"

I'm sure you could substitute making them DO anything and get similar results.

It's unusual today in that it's rarely carried out. So this is a case of the law staying the same but circumstances changing.

Doesn't he live somewhere they execute gays? He probably has to take down/change his ad periodically for safety reasons.

He's also quite well endowed.

Is there any chance people HE knew were in the area and he doesn't want his friends/family knowing what he's doing? You mention him bolting after meals that were apparently not with your friends. Alternately...the guy could have some general anxiety issues and have been having panic attacks and it really had nothing to do with you at all.

I remember him from the Club 20 days he was always friendly. I never went for more than a standard lapdance so can't speak to anything more than that.

I think several of the Adonis Lounge dancers are Jersey guys whose "day job" is personal training. You might try going there and chatting them up.

The truth is I do take issue with some of the "fat acceptance" pushers. It's certainly true that there is some wiggle room in the weight guidelines in that you're better off being someone 30 lbs overweight who exercises every day than an "ideal" weight desk jockey with no muscle, but when you are 70+ lbs overweight...you might with great effort maintain aerobic fitness - I've done it for periods of time, but that excess weight is doing bad things to your organs and joints. You can't exercise your liver, kidneys, pancreas. They are designed to carry a lower throughput than you are giving them when you are overweight. Even the heart can fail - it happens a lot to bodybuilders.

I wouldn't say I "celebrate" it. I just don't make an issue of it. I'm NOT happy about my weight and am working on it with mixed success due to mobility issues(the mobility issues actually are what led to the weight gain - used to work out hard 2-3 hours a day then couldn't do that any more). But ultimately I'm at a level of weight that is definitely not healthy and I don't think it's right to pretend otherwise. I have a couple of acquaintances in their 20s who decided to just go full-on bear and are now deliberately making themselves morbidly obese(like one of them you can barely see his eyes any more- I'm not exaggerating) and I want to pull them aside and lecture them but I keep my mouth shut. They're young enough that they don't understand what that weight is going to feel like in ten or twenty years when their joints are tired of carrying it. Maybe they'll be lucky and not have problems, but at the rate they are going I highly doubt it.

Actually they're horrible for not stopping the stupid kid.

I worked in insurance and the data is not at all clear. Women actually have MORE accidents, but because they are slower, the dollar value of damage is less severe. Guys are more likely to total the car, it's true.

Yeah while acknowledging it's stupid, I'm not going to press it and risk the guy backing out....

Why, pray tell, does liking stripper chicks with big fake tits mean he can't also like some guys? Bisexual doesn't mean "doesn't like women." I'm not saying what his split is, I'm just saying there's at least one dude I saw him with that he was into. I saw him snuggling with this guy, a twink Asian fellow dancer. I'm quite confident that he wasn't doing it for the money or because people were watching. this was a weeknight where there weren't too many people there. He may not be "out" about this in general or even to himself. Lots of bi guys aren't.

Well I do think many men compartmentalize sex and "relationships" and that's what they are talking about when they say they like sex with men but aren't "gay." I don't find it hard to believe there are guys who enjoy sex with men but have no desire to share a life with one. There seem to be many guys who feel that way about women....they just want to fuck them and otherwise seem to want nothing to do with them. I have one perpetually single guy friend who hasn't yet grasped that that's the reason he's single. He fundamentally doesn't respect women but he loves their bodies.

Not saying it's okay, just that the male victims may - on average - perceive less damage.

If you're an Asian twink he might be a lot more interactive, judging from how I used to see him interact with a fellow dancer at Krave when it was still open... I suspect he's one of those bi guys for whom a particular kind of male really turns him on, but everyone else does absolutely nothing for him. .

I think they're entitled to know if you are having sex with other people while you are seeing them, and if you want to continue to do that. As for the past that's up to you whether to disclose. I mean if there's a chance they will find out from someone ELSE you probably should spill the beans.

My maternal grandmother was one of 11 most of whom if not all were involved in the IRA in the early 1900s. I found a glowing obituary of her mother in an Irish newspaper citing a prison break she had assisted in.

I kind of wonder if the people with good experiences are maybe in better shape than those of us a bit less so? I will say I got the feeling if I were a bit lighter and better degined the session might have been more fun. I'd describe my session with him as adequate but he was pretty distant.

But seriously, I do think a lot of guys will make the trade a bit more willingly due to the compartmentalization issue. I think it's pretty widely assumed that all the guys in those boy bands of the 90s let their creepy managers fondle/blow/whatever them, some were bothered by it and others don't seem to have given a shit. Plenty of straight guys will do gay porn on camera for less than $50k per year and that's for the whole world to see, wouldn't you think guys exist who would be willing to do a producer behind the scenes for a chance at millions?

You have to remember that crimes are also largely crimes of opportunity. Typically, a female abuse victim is at a disadvantage both professionally and physically, in the sense she is not likely able to take her assailant in a fair fight. With a male potential victim, you run a greater risk of getting your ass kicked. That is going to lower the incidence of males getting sexually assaulted/harassed right off the bat. Anecdotally at least it does seem that more guys compartmentalize sex and are more down for random one-off encounters with strangers than women, so a random offer of sex is less likely to be unwelcome, and if they get something in return in addition, I think more men on average are likely to go ahead with it and not really think too much about it. And then there's the whole macho thing of not wanting to be seen as a victim. So there are forces that lower the incidence and forces that lower the reporting. And I also suspect being penetrated is psychologically for most a bigger deal than being the one doing the penetrating,; i.e. more trauma. If someone grabbed my dick and stroked it a bit I think I'd feel less violated than if he fucked me in the ass.

I worked in insurance for years. Even if they can't explicitly rate you based on it, they can choose to market to you or not based on it and cherry-pick their customers. Say you have fantastic genes that tell them your rate should be 50% LOWER than average - they'll come knocking on your door, send you some swag, tell you about the plan they don't advertise, etc.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/23andme-is-terrifying-but-not-for-the-reasons-the-fda-thinks/

I would think women are more threatened by another woman because she might get pregnant and secure a longer-term claim on the man,