Atlantagaguy

Any clubs in San Diego have a Dark/play room?

I was in Toronto and stumble into The Black Eagle. This is not my typical bar but it was busy and I was cold. I notice a lot of guys that were going upstairs so my curiosity forced me to follow. I’m glad I did because it led me to their Play area, which had guys of all ages, shapes, colors, some great looking and some not. All were very respectable of each other. I truly had a great time, not that I participated in risky behavior, which I was impressed that condoms were being used. The guys there didn’t mind people observing and touching. My question is I know there are men on here from all over the US and World, where else are there clubs/Bars that have good Back, Dark and Play Rooms?

The sad thing was he was very good up to the point of trying to hustle that extra $20.

I was a regular at Swinging Richards when I first moved to Atlanta until one day I sat down and looked how much I was spending. Now I only go a few times a year. After last night I may question even going at all and it’s because of one guy. It’s a little frustrating to pay $5 to park, $10 to enter, $10 for the VIP lounge so I can have a little more personal time and $10 for my first drink and tip. In less than 10 mins I had spent $35, which would be ok if this wouldn’t happen to spoil the evening. I saw a dancer on stage that I really liked and gave him a nice tip to show him I was interested. After he got off the stage he goes back to the dressing room for 15mins, then shows back up working the patrons. After about an hour he finally comes over to me (the club was dreadfully slow and he spent a lot time with other dancers and working customers for drinks) which I was happy because he was so cute very personable and very sexy! When he ask if I wanted a dance in the VIP room I said yes, he was fantastic as a dancer and we had a great time. I did three dances with him and paid him $60 and thank him for the fun, he immediately lit into me that I owed him $80. He may be a professional dancer but I am a professional customer and I knew how many dances we did. I immediately looked at him and said “I now remember you, you pulled the same stunt on me the last time I was in here”, which was in December. I then told him it was so sad because he was so cute, great personality, gave great dances and had a sexy body and he didn’t need to pull this stunt. He then just walk off. My question should I have said anything to management or leave it alone and let this kid figure it out on his own? I watch two other guys to leave the VIP room abruptly after their dances with him.

Gordon has change the way I will scramble eggs now. Followed his instruction this morning and can’t wait to have company and serve them breakfast in bed.

To answer your question, yes your preference can change. I was similar to you, I came out in my mid-thirties, and didn’t have sex with a man until then. My first was a very well-reviewed escort when Hoo boy was running the website. Since then I have always gone after the younger guys, I also think a lot of my desire for that type is because I never had the experiences as a gay man in my teens or twenties. A couple of years ago I met my 25 year old in a local bar, we started a conversation on type of men we like he like daddies but not as old as me and of course I told him the younger boy next door. We hook up that night and ended up dating for about 6 months. We are no longer Boyfriends but we are f**K buddies. What I found was I needed more in a relationship than having a good looking boy next to me and great sex. I am now dating men closer to my age that I have more in common. The sex is better, my whole life is more complete. I owe a huge part to my ex BF who sometimes will join me in threesomes and he is happy because he get two daddies!

Here is a good thing! It doesn’t look good nor does it sound good!