Atlantagaguy

I was in Toronto and stumble into The Black Eagle. This is not my typical bar but it was busy and I was cold. I notice a lot of guys that were going upstairs so my curiosity forced me to follow. I’m glad I did because it led me to their Play area, which had guys of all ages, shapes, colors, some great looking and some not. All were very respectable of each other. I truly had a great time, not that I participated in risky behavior, which I was impressed that condoms were being used. The guys there didn’t mind people observing and touching.
 
My question is I know there are men on here from all over the US and World, where else are there clubs/Bars that have good Back, Dark and Play Rooms?

I think for guys that work in those types of establishments, "hustle" is part of the game, and they are banking on the fact you may be too drunk, too stoned, or too horny to Notice !

Put yourself in his place. He may well be doing this because he can't do anything else (and he doesn't appear to be real good at this, either). If you tell Management, they may or may not do something, but it may well accelerate a natural course of events.
 
It's not nice to fool with Mother Nature!

My solution is to find dancers who like going home with me for say a couple hundred for an overnight.
 
VIP rooms may be among the greatest ripoffs in Western capitalism.

Gordon has change the way I will scramble eggs now. Followed his instruction this morning and can’t wait to have company and serve them breakfast in bed.

Gordon has change the way I will scramble eggs now. Followed his instruction this morning and can’t wait to have company and serve them breakfast in bed.

To answer your question, yes your preference can change. I was similar to you, I came out in my mid-thirties, and didn’t have sex with a man until then. My first was a very well-reviewed escort when Hoo boy was running the website. Since then I have always gone after the younger guys, I also think a lot of my desire for that type is because I never had the experiences as a gay man in my teens or twenties. A couple of years ago I met my 25 year old in a local bar, we started a conversation on type of men we like he like daddies but not as old as me and of course I told him the younger boy next door. We hook up that night and ended up dating for about 6 months. We are no longer Boyfriends but we are f**K buddies. What I found was I needed more in a relationship than having a good looking boy next to me and great sex. I am now dating men closer to my age that I have more in common. The sex is better, my whole life is more complete. I owe a huge part to my ex BF who sometimes will join me in threesomes and he is happy because he get two daddies!