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I don't know where you are from, but states vary widely in terms of what is available for in-home care. I know New York state has significant assistance available to keep people out of nursing homes, up to and including covering in-home aides around the clock, but you want to consult an elder care attorney about putting your assets in a trust so you can still use the money for your household expenses without jeopardizing your eligibility. New Jersey is pretty shitty about it.

Are you getting in-home physical therapy? If you're falling, that's something your insurer would probably be happy to pay for to reduce the risk of future falls.

As people get older the secondary sex characteristics tend to blur. I'm too tall and broad-shouldered to be mistaken for a woman, but my tall and broad-shouldered and somewhat flat-chested sister when she was a rookie cop with a short haircut was quite often mistaken for a man.

I wonder how much of the sex club versus bathhouse thing has to do with the expense/effort of maintaining wet areas. Not to mention the bacterial issue of things like pools. Also now that kids don't grow up using gang showers after sports or gym class, probably fewer of them are growing up with locker room fantasies...

The OUT hotel's troubles probably had more to do with the owners supporting Republicans than it not being a viable model.

I would think an average is almost meaningless as there are probably many more "part-timers" in the business than full-timers. Guys who dance one or two nights a month while they keep a day job for the medical insurance, etc. Then there are specialty niches that command premiums, etc. I think a lot of the long-time guys in big cities seem likely to be doing reasonably well, unless they are all in rent-controlled apartments passed down from their great-grandparents.

Yeah I took hydroxycut and noticed within a week I was having violent mood swings so I stopped. Like I am a shy person and suddenly I was chewing out strangers at the gym, then being mortified at my behavior. At the same time, it definitely curbed appetite and I felt sharper at mental tasks.

Supposedly my grandfather came to the US because he had thrown a potato at an English cop in Ireland, but I sometimes wonder if that's just a story and more went down. A number of my ancestors were active in the fight for Irish independence, including a great-great-aunt who staged a prison break.

Sometimes it's not that they're taking steroids to build muscle, but they are taking amphetamines as a fat burner.

I was like, wait, QTR is s man now? You forgot the quotation marks...

How would that even work given widely varying passenger heights? If you're too short your feet don't touch the floor, if you're too tall you literally can't fit because the angle of your legs will make it impossible.

See I wouldn't fit through one of those windows. I'd have plugged the hole and BEEN the hero...

My personal armchair theory is a brake on overpopulation, and having childless aunts and uncles around helps lighten the load of parents and increases the odds of their offspring's survival.

I did not mean to imply that other things weren't worse. The job market for "kids today" is two-tiered. Either something that gives you a shot at a pretty good life or something that guarantees you will be in near-poverty forever. Couple that with the fact the cost of college has been bid up and many of them are saddled with the equivalent of a mortgage in unsecured debt that cannot be discharged in bankruptcy and I'm happy to have grown up when I did.

Yeah, I don't think anything can really convey what it was like to come of age just at the time it looked like that was going to mean an early, ugly death if you ever acted on your desires. There's a pretty sharp line between people who came up before and after the mid-90s. There's nothing wrong with talking about it, it's just generally not cool to dismiss other people as having no problems because they didn't experience your biggest one.

Or maybe that was their audition and they didn't make the cut?

TG - I believe there are jurisdictions where undercover cops have actually fucked prostitutes and still they were prosecuted.

Plain old hostility. While the mayor/city council may be nominally gay-friendly, I think the bureaucrats you have to go through to start anything up are a problem.

Also penises don't have fingernails.

It's not that you can't be big everywhere, it's just if you're big in one place it matters less to be big in the other and vice versa.

Electric Daisy Carnival is in May, not June, this year.

Piranha is very different night to night. I've been there when the crowd was gay and I've been there when the crowd was straight.

I think it's more that the gay action to be had in Vegas is closeted married men, who are more in the market for stesmroom hookups than club experiences. But Tim and Matt of Adonis were unable to get a Vegas operation up off the ground and Tim pretty much said that the local government could be fairly characterized as gay-hostile. I mean, Krave was doing quite well when it was on the Strip but either the casino or the city really did not like having them there and pushed them off to the downtown area, and the owner lacked the cash flow to handle that transition and skipped town.

He definitely doesn't regularly do it but I think once or twice a year he's done it for the NY show. But for all I know that could just be for some particular high roller. I assume he's doing well enough now that he doesn't need the money.

Sometimes depending on what you've eaten before and how you are feeling you know things are, um, moving and assplay is likely to lead to an accident.