DunwoodyGuy

I would check out the Body Electric Workshop. They have a separate program from their erotic tantric massage classes for people to explore what they call "Conscious Kink": Power, Surrender, & Intimacy - Body Electric School BODYELECTRIC.ORG Ready to explore the depths of your erotic self? The "Power, Surrender, & Intimacy (PSI)" workshop offers a safe and expertly guided space to delve into

OMG YES!

Yes. Many previous threads about him.

You gave him your cell#?

On the other side of the pejorative side, one unexpected benefit of the apps in recent years is that older men are no longer "invisible" to younger men, as was the case for decades. Quite out of the blue, as I have gotten older, I have noticed the large percentage of men in their 30s and 40s (even their 20s) who profess an attraction to older men. At first being called "daddy" seemed offensive and insulting to me, but the first time I realized it was not being said to put me down but because the younger man was attracted, I was shocked. So it makes sense that it means something specific to you, given your actual parent status, but take a moment and consider what it might mean to the younger man who is calling you that. You might find a very positive mutual connection there.

Make sure you have a pre-nup before the big day--and sign up for some couples therapy ASAP. (Some individual would be a good idea too!) Good luck!

This one's even worse.

Which photos?

Ugh. I would hate this. It's the polar opposite of erotic. The minute I discovered a provider was using AI in any way, I would block.

I don't see any.

There's clearly a generational divide.

What are you talking about?

If I wanted tantalizing teases, I would have hired a masseur...

Not true. You could have posted the RentMasseur link (as BaronArtz did) without the Instagram link.

I wasn't being sarcastic.

Without a link, why should we believe you?

Glad to know I'm not he only one. Apparently this has been a scam for heterosexual women for several years now, and it's only recently become a thing on gay sites.

Yeah, it's not.

Nah.

I pay after and place the folded-up money in the masseur's hands--often with a tip added to the agreed-upon amount--look him in the eyes and say "Thank you." Once, a very Zen-like practitioner squeezed my hands when I gave him the money and said, "May this come back to each of us a million times over." I thought that was lovely. I tried to say it myself a few times, but all I got out was "I wish this was a million dollars because that's how much you're worth." Not as spiritual, but I think it was appreciated. Oh--and I always turn away to finish dressing after I give him the money. If he looks or counts it, I don't want to know. More often than not, he just puts in in his pocket or the dresser.

Does anyone else get hit on regularly by fake profiles using photos of Hamdan bin Mohammed Al Maktoum, Deputy Prime Minister of the United Arab Emirates, popularly known as "Fazza"? He's 43 years old and married with four children and his popular Faz3 Instagram--which has over 17 million followers--features handsome pictures of him, which these fake profiles catfish for their temporary Grindr profiles. Has anyone run into them? (Or is it possible that there is only one--and he makes a new profile daily to target me, even though I delete his messages immediately?) Here are two typical photos:

You can't say, "No, I don't"?

Pardon my sarcasm, but with this as the set-up, what could POSSIBLY go wrong?

You're not weird for not liking it, but you're a little weird for bringing it up as often as you do.

I did it years ago in NY at a group called Hot Nude Yoga. The "hint of eroticism" occurs only at the end, really. The first 40 or so minutes or so are stretches, some of which are strenuous and require concentration, so they're not really erotic. There were surprisingly few erections during that part of the class. But the last 20 minutes of each class was reserved for partner-assisted yoga, and stretching alongside another naked man could lead to some really beautiful erotic connections. There was no sex at the class itself, but guys often went home together.