This might just be me, but while I enjoy reading about people's positive experiences and sharing my own (always discreetly omitting sexual details that may fall under the YMMV rubric), I tend to distrust detailed negative experiences. When a reviewer or a member here goes into an extended rant about a provider, it often feels like a revenge post (at least to me), and my sympathy goes to the provider--not always, but often. I would much rather simply read someone saying "We didn't click but YMMV" or "We didn't connect but YMMV."