DunwoodyGuy

The initial answers are incorrect. The last few are correct. "Clean" is an ugly, outmoded word that meant "I do not have HIV or STDs," which means nothinIg except to make people with HIV into "dirty" people. Clean has been replaced with "Negative on PrEP"--and every sex worker who is negative SHOULD be on PrEP--or U=U, which means an HIV- positive person has a viral load that is considered "Undetectable" and therefore is "Untransmittable." These scientific terms are preferred, because (1) they are more accurate and (2) they do not call anyone "dirty." "Piss top" as several have noted means he will pee on you. If that's your thing, enjoy. And massage guns have a therapeutic place in physical therapy, but in the hands of an amateur masseur, it's just a way of filling the hour without actually touching you. It should be considered a red flag if you are looking for a sensual or erotic massage. So if you're looking for a sensual experience, a piss top with a massage gun who considers other gay men "dirty" should be a hard pass.

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I've sent them messages when I see they've used "masseuse," telling them that many potential clients will assume they don't know what they're doing if they use that form of the word and not hire them. Some say thanks and change the word. Others get defensive or don't respond.

Lol...I think some of my real reviews sound like the "love letters" you say are red flags.

It can mean a lot of things to different people, so beware of assuming you know what it means to the other guy. Exploration is key. Also, desiring to be dominant or submissive in sex usually has nothing to do with being dominant or submissive in a personal or professional life. In fact, the exact opposite is very often the case, the stereotypical examples of these being the ruthless businessman who wants to be dominated and the small guy who prefers to top. Assuming a sub has no will of his own is almost always a mistake, and assuming a big muscle guy wants to top everyone can also be a mistake. Also, younger gays in this Age of Apps find it very easy to say "I want to be a sub for a daddy." What they actually mean can run the gamut from simple role-playing to classic BDSM. Again, assumption is a mistake and exploration is key. As Shakespeare said, "There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy, Horatio."

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Try him yourself and let me know if I'm exaggerating.

I went back for a third time--something I NEVER do. Here's what I posted on RentMasseur: My third time visiting KittenBear, and he gets better each time. The big knowing paws, the body-to-body contact, the weight of his strong body pressing against you--and an intuitive massage that gets even more intuitive on each return visit. And on top of everything else, he's one of the sweetest and nicest guys around, which only makes him sexier. He really is an Atlanta treasure.

Just left this review on RentMasseur: Sometimes the men in these ads seem to good to be true. but Lorenzo is THAT good and 100% true. From my first communication with him until we said goodbye--and I didn't want to leave!--he was warm and friendly and enthusiastic and incredibly s*e*x*y. His pictures don't lie. I chose to add on stretch-therapy to start off my sensual session, and that was a great choice. By the time Lorenzo had finished stretching me, we had already made a connection. I was relaxed and able to melt under his hands, feel his strength, and surrender to masculine energy. The rest of the massage session was great, and I left with a smile on my face. A day later, writing this review, I'm still smiling.

OMG! Run, don't walk. This guy is everything you could want in a masseur. I'll post my review on RentMasseur in a day or two. But he's a real Atlanta treasure.

Seeing him today.

Nice pics and ad, Beastmuffin. Welcome and good luck! One of many rules of thumb: Always trust your instincts when it comes to communication. If the chat to set up an appointment feels like it's getting weird or gnarly, odds are the appointment will be the same--or not happen at all. I'm not a provider, but as a massage client looking for erotic massage, I evaluate the tone and clarity of a provider's communications with me (allowing of course for anyone whose English is a second language). I ask a lot of questions but try to be respectful of the provider's time, because I know that some providers might think I'm just wasting their time jerking off. But if I sense anything like annoyance or hostility or any weird unprofessional requests (like you received from that client), I end the interaction and look elsewhere. Trust that instinct and walk away. By the way, this thread has responses from three successful practitioners who are longtime contributors to this board--and each a phenomenally sexy man in his own right. Cultivate Jamie21, BenjaminNicholas, and Simon Suraci as mentors. Their accumated experience and wisdom could be invaluable to you.

I have seen him out and about in Atlanta, and all I can say is that he one of the sexiest--and sweetest--men I have ever known.

Especially to Chicago.

Before you go thinking he pulled a "Dupont Switch," read his RentMen profile. He might be one of those guys who use RentMen but still perform no-release massages. He's still NOT on my list for my next DC trip. Too many red flags.