I had this issue a while back - the provider was a nice enough guy but was much much older than advertised and didn't show his face in ads. I met him as for whatever reason he get's great reviews on here. I was not attracted, couldn't finish, but was nice and blamed the whiskey. He kept messaging me when he was in town so I finally just lied and said I was back with my X. Other than that experience I'm mostly happen when providers reach out.